Come back when she has popped out three kids & gained 40 pounds.Slickster said:Wow! Just saw this bump now. Thanks Die Hard!
I'll post a little update if anyone is interested....
Time is flying by and so far married life has not turned out to be the horror story that so many people warned me about. Mrs. Slick and I have been together now for 10 years (I think) and things are going great. Whatever we have going together just works. It doesn't seem like work to keep this relationship going strong. In fact it feels pretty easy. We have our moments where we argue but we have a lot of respect for each other and always manage to settle things quickly. We've both had some crazy and tragic things happen to us and our families in the past few years but these things seem to have brought us closer together and made us stronger. We've started a family and while it hasn't been easy things are generally going great and we are very happy.
Mrs. Slick is a hard worker and excels at most things she attempts. If anything she takes on too much and needs to be reminded to relax from time to time. She is committed to fitness and looks-wise she is as sexy as ever. Our sex life has been great so far.
Despite all this smooth sailing I keep my eyes wide open at all times. I'm always watching for red flags, signs of disrespect, or any other traps that arise. I refuse to put things on cruise control and just be blindly happy. I think that itself is a trap that many relationships fall victim to. I have a great amount of trust in her but have enough experience to know not to be surprised. If things suddenly went sour I would walk away and pursue better things.
Even though I've been married for a few years now, my game still feels very strong. My career and social circle put me in contact with younger attractive women regularly. I'm also once again singing and playing in a pretty cool band so that helps too. There have been many opportunities to cheat and a couple instances where chicks have blatantly thrown themselves at me but I don't really have any reason to go down that road. It's not really my style.
I still come to Sosuave because I truly believe it helps keep me sharp. I still learn new things here all the time. Just reading other people's experiences is extremely valuable. I owe a great deal to all the brothers here who have helped me along the way and given me advice, support, and shared their experiences.
Thank you all.
Slick Tales
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.Hello again,
Well my weekend adventure didn't turn out as I'd hoped. The weather crapped out and not many people showed up. There were a few young hotties there but they all had brought their boyfriends along. I wasn't about to DJ any of these chicks as I would like to be invited back there in the future. Don't bite the hand that feeds you. Especially when the hand owns a private island. No worries though as we had a great time anyway.
Chatty Kathy
On the way to the island a buddy and I stopped to buy beer. There were two cashiers working and as I approached one the other one made an effort to call me over to her till. She wasn't an UG or anything but she definitely wasn't a stand out. She was a HB7 at best.
At the till we chatted and she seemed extremely friendly. I was in a great frame of mind as I was looking forward to a great weekend. I'm sure I was just over flowing with enthusiasm and positivity. Anyway this girl was asking me all kinds of questions and seemed really interested. She was also telling me all about how she is new in town and just loves it here. Her only problem is she doesn't have many friends here yet and doesn't really know the town very well. Hint, hint I thought.
Although she was on the borderline in the looks department her personality won me over right away. She kept on rambling and while I was listening I decided I would try a number close despite the fact there were two other guys waiting behind me.
She handed me my receipt and I picked up a pen on the counter and handed it back to her. I said with a smile, "It was great meeting you. Why don't you write your number down and I'll take you out sometime?"
Right away she pulled out a lame excuse and had a lot of trouble getting it out. "Actually... I'm only going to be in town for a short while..... and then I'm heading back. Sorry!" I responded with another smile and just said "No worries. See ya." and left. On the way out I could hear the dudes behind me in line laughing at my rejection.
It wasn't the rejection that bothered me but the fact that this chick was so forward and friendly with me initially. Hell I thought she was going to number close me!
Anyways guys, it just goes to show that even when all the signs are saying "go" you can still get shot down.
However, you gotta take the shot if you want to score.