RLE: What A High Quality Woman Looks Like

[asa_don]

GotED? has it right. Clingy insecure women always go overboard in their actions. They have to keep doing things for their man out of fear of losing him. A reason why you got all those texts. everything she does is for the man. those women can leave you in a hurry. read up on it. You make fun of guys settling for BPD women but this is exactly how my friend's BPD treated him before she turned crazy. She did everything yours just did. Did nice things for him and she said I did it because I love you. Normal chicks would just do it and not make a big to do about it. When mine was cooking and made a mess, she did it on her own because that is the responsible and caring thing to do. She didn't need to text every little detail about it. BPD's obsess over you and want you to feel loved because they are insecure and are afraid you're going to leave. that's why they act this way and do this for you. then not too long after that it all changes. you seem a bit green in your screening process.

Bingo. girlfriends are supposed to be doing this for us anyway without announcing it. good women don't do things to seek
kudos, they do it because it's genuine, just like my gf does. not knocking him any it comes off like she is doing more for his approval than doing it because she really wants to. my gf does great things, i dont have to ask and she doesnt have to tell me.

 

[SmooveMooves]

I agree with Brightly & PairPlusRoyalFlush

Sounds like you gotta decent girl if she's still behaving this way outside of the honeymoon phase homie. Her ass better keep it up

And for the people saying "My girlfriend does it cause' she wants to, not because she wants approval" that makes no sense.

If a woman cleans your house because she wants, why do you think she'd want to do it?

Because you approve.

Women with high IL do things to gain "kudos" from you.

Whether its cleaning your house, or sucking you c0ck.

The double S turns some people Jaded to no end

It is a lil funny though how she gave you a report.

 

[asa_don]

It is a lil funny though how she gave you a report.

why do you think that is? seems you missed the part where the op admitted to having a clingy gf. she needed his kudos thats why she gave him a report.

And for the people saying "My girlfriend does it cause' she wants to, not because she wants approval" that makes no sense.

If a woman cleans your house because she wants, why do you think she'd want to do it?

Because you approve.

Women with high IL do things to gain "kudos" from you.

Whether its cleaning your house, or sucking you c0ck.

would a girl make a big announcement about sucking your c@ck? no, she would go ahead and start sucking it until you cvm. she knows you approve, so that's why she does it. she doesn't have to announce every little thing she does. she knows you appreciate it so she does it without seeking approval from you. insecure girls will be insecure about their c@ck sucking job. they will need your approval about anything. geez, are you guys this ignorant about women?

 

[TheException]

Man seeing some of the responses in this thread makes me feel sorry for some of you guys who have no real grasp on the game at all and are just jaded fvcks.

That's why this forum exists.....to help out fellow men. That being said, we can only help those who wish to be helped. There will always be morons and those who are incapable of learning. Now to address some points....

1. "Lack of screening" - goldengoose you have zero concept of screening and how it actually works. Quit being butthurt that I called out your friend for settling for a BPD woman. You trying to spin good behavior and trying to make it look like low quality behavior is making you look pathetic. According to you its ok to date a BPD for months on end, but how dare I date a girl who cleans for me.

2. Clingy - Ive addressed previously. A little clingyness on a woman's part is good for a relationship. Clingyness is pretty subjective. What one guy may find clingy another may not. As long as she has her own life, goals, and hobbies its more than ok that she wants to please her man.

3. Time - For those suspect that she wont keep it up....we ve dated 7 months. Her behavior has been consistent.

4.Announcing - Have to agree with smoovemooves on this. You guys are overdosing on the "red pill" hardcore with this. First off....I asked what she cleaned. Its unnecessary to write every little detail for a post. The main content is what matters......SHE FVCKIN CLEANED. Good for you guys who have women that clean too. Whether a woman lets her man know she did it or not is irrelevant. I dont give a damn if she does.

The point is with all the crap women that men settle for, I was giving an example from my life of a quality woman and something you all should strive for. Whether you want to acknowledge the obvious or try to construct some sort of criticism from pure good high quality behavior is up to you. Like a previous poster said....its obviously who "gets it" and who is jaded, jealous, or/and clueless.

 

[joker79]

4.Announcing - Have to agree with smoovemooves on this. You guys are overdosing on the "red pill" hardcore with this. First off....I asked what she cleaned. Its unnecessary to write every little detail for a post. The main content is what matters......SHE FVCKIN CLEANED. Good for you guys who have women that clean too. Whether a woman lets her man know she did it or not is irrelevant. I dont give a damn if she does.

mate, you shouldn't say that a woman is high quality because she cleaned. It's kind of normal thing she should do and you should expect. You do "A" and she does "B". Don't pedestalise her for something that it's not an indicator of high quality but highlights how women today are really low quality.

The point is with all the crap women that men settle for, I was giving an example from my life of a quality woman and something you all should strive for. Whether you want to acknowledge the obvious or try to construct some sort of criticism from pure good high quality behavior is up to you. Like a previous poster said....its obviously who "gets it" and who is jaded, jealous, or/and clueless.

We all know and thanks for sharing the experience, we're all happy for you. Nobody is jealous and/or clueless, we're just warning you because you're looking at your reality through pink-coloured lenses.

 

[zekko]

does she still clean the inside of the microwave after dating you for 11 months?

I think this is primarily a function of how neat a person she is herself, not how into you she is. If you want a girl who will take care of the house, take a look at her apartment, house, or whatever. The way it looks is probably the way your place is going to look.

This goes back to the idea of screening for a girl who is what you want, as opposed to picking just any girl and trying to change her into what you want.

 

[lanba]

Why does every thread on here mention BPD? The way you guys talk I would think 60% of women have it but I googled and its 2.6% so....

 

[goldengoose]

I think many of you are being too harsh on Exception here. Sure she may not be as "high quality" as he says she is

Too harsh on him? Did you read his first sentence of his thread? He makes fun of other men for settling and not screening well. He is doing the same just as the other men he attacks. He can't take the criticism he gets. He has to defend his actions for settling for a clingy wman.

1. "Lack of screening" - goldengoose you have zero concept of screening and how it actually works. Quit being butthurt that I called out your friend for settling for a BPD woman. You trying to spin good behavior and trying to make it look like low quality behavior is making you look pathetic. According to you its ok to date a BPD for months on end, but how dare I date a girl who cleans for me.

hahaha It's you that has no concept of screening, because you couldn't screen for the behaviors a clingy woman. You think a clingy woman is good, when every man knows that a clingy woman is always a trait of a woman to AVOID.

You have no concept of what a BPD woman is. You don't know she is a BPD until she turns crazy or until after the relationship. BPD women do the things your girlfriend does. They cook and clean and do all kinds of nice things. They list everything that your girlfriend did seeking approval. Just like yours did. BPD women have good behavior at first, then they turn crazy.

Clingy insecure women always go overboard in their actions. They have to keep doing things for their man out of fear of losing him. A reason why you got all those texts. everything she does is for the man.

Learn how to read. Where did I say it was "low quality behavior"? You're putting words in my mouth again. I said she went overboard with her actions. You look pathetic making excuses, blaming, and criticizing other men for not knowing how to screen when you can't screen yourself.

Any girl you date should clean up the mess she makes. That should be expected. Why should she make a big to do about it? Unless she was seeking approval from you, which she was doing.

Almost everybody is telling you the same thing as me. Even a couple of guys who agree with you question her approval seeking. Why can't you see it? You look pathetic for criticizing other men and for being blind to what's going on.

 

[GotED?]

The fact of the matter (and the argument here) is there are SS posters who falls under these categories:

1) AFC's who questions themselves each step of the way with a woman and posts drama after drama questions, needing people's validation to move forward to the next step.

2) Self-righteous 'Know-It-All' posters who comes from a place of arrogance and ego, thinking their way of life and approach to women is all encompassing and force their opinion on others. These people really don't have much of a life in the narrow minded thinking, nor are they flexible in their socialization skills.

3) Experienced Don Juans who wants to see younger men not have to suffer as they did in their earlier years and hope they learn from older men's prior mistakes.

4) All the remaining FUKKOS: All the HumbleNinjas, trolls, women posters, and kids in diapers, and people who post just hoping to see their thread keeps getting bumped to the top of the list (no life whatsoever, these posters)

I don't think I have to say what this THREAD's title and OP's content falls under which category. However, him being a Master Don Juan (usually doesn't mean sh!t either, you just have to post over 500+ times, that could be 500+ of sh!t useless posts) I have to give some respect, but I personally think this thread is JUNK with the attitude and lack of respect to other men the way it was written and conveyed.

We may be anonymous on the Internet, but we still need to be tactful and be respectful with how we express ourselves.

Be well.

Exodus

 

[goldengoose]

There will always be morons and those who are incapable of learning..

True, because you didn't screen your woman well and you refuse to listen to the ones who are giving you advice.

Good for you guys who have women that clean too.

Yes exception, there are other women out there who clean for their man too, you're not the only one. Our women don't have to seek our approval for doing it. You sound mad that we have high quality women too.

Whether a woman lets her man know she did it or not is irrelevant.

You are wrong, it is relevant. You are refusing to see things for what they really are. Clingy or insecure women need to seek the approval of the man for their deeds. Normal women just do it on their own with no questions asked.

I dont give a damn if she does.

We all know that she does, including you. You have the mindset for settling, because you don't give a damn for whatever she does. Men that settle take everything the woman does to him because he's afraid to leave. He takes what she gives him and doesn't care. Your attitude goes against what you're preaching making fun of other men. You're the one who is settling pal. Men who settle don't give a damn because they are happy just to have somebody. That's your attitude. You don't give a damn.

mate, you shouldn't say that a woman is high quality because she cleaned. It's kind of normal thing she should do and you should expect. You do "A" and she does "B". Don't pedestalise her for something that it's not an indicator of high quality but highlights how women today are really low quality.

We all know and thanks for sharing the experience, we're all happy for you. Nobody is jealous and/or clueless, we're just warning you because you're looking at your reality through pink-coloured lenses.

A great evaluation by joker79.

I have to give some respect, but I personally think this thread is JUNK with the attitude and lack of respect to other men the way it was written and conveyed.

Another fine point made by GotED? I have no problem that his girlfriend cleaned. That is cool that she did, but her actions tell otherwise. I do have a problem with The Exception's attitude. He comes off like a big internet loud mouth know it all chopping down other men when his girlfriend, screening process, and his game is no better than other people on the forum. Then when people give him advice and point out his flaws, he gets upset and angry and says he doesn't care and attacks the people pointing out his flaws. He neeeds to realize that he isn't any better than anybody else because he is making clear mistakes too. He refuses to take responsibility for them.

 

[Turuwal]

I think TheException sounds happy with what he has. This is all that matters.

 

[Pardner]

When you said a High Quality Woman I thought there was going to be a picture of a hot woman in here.

 

[JdelaSilviera]

Every woman, does sh*t like that in the beginning lol. Only in the long term one should conclude something about her quality.

 

[Partizan]

I'm not going to make a statement either way about the OP. All I know is my ex-wife used to act the same way when we were dating. If she did something nice, she made it a point to somehow mention it rather than just doing it. I guess to seek approval or whatnot.

After we tied the knot, it pretty much stopped. Just sayin'

 

[Partizan]

Yeah, it pretty much faded over time.

Needless to say, the type of woman described in the OP is NOT my idea of a quality woman. That's just my opinion.

I'm look for a woman who is naturally giving but independent minded and self-assured. She would not be texting me a list of things that she did for me.

 

[VikingKing]

You know those who have experienced a BDP say that you can't know what thats like until you have experienced it yourself. I believe that.

I say you have no idea what its like to date a decent woman either, they can be independent, but if they are head over heals for you they will treat you like a king long after the honeymoon stage.

Sh!t my ex was educated, independent before I met her, always had more money than me (often it came from her dad)

I was a landscaper shoveling dirt, gravel, stones, planting trees, pruning plants. She interned for a finance company, she was a respected member of the business college club or something like that.

Every day she would wake up hours before she had to, to make me a lunch and coffee before I went to work. Always did my laundry, never ever refused sex or complained about doing all that stuff for me.

Sometimes she would be studying for 6 hours straight and i was drinking beer, and playing video games. I would get horny, so I would be like "hey babe, you almost done." she always would be like "about half way" or what ever she said. Sometimes I would just pull the chair out from the desk a bit, pick her up, set her on the bed and go to town. She would always show a little annoyance because she was honestly trying to study, but once I stuck it in, it was over.

 

[buzzin_frog]

So my question to you guys........DO YOU HAVE A WOMAN LIKE THIS IN YOUR LIFE?

Dude, this is no big deal.....it's a nice gesture....I have plates that do/have done the same for me...it's common courtesy to do that...if you were using her kitchen would you text her everything that you did?

I have to agree with the others who say she is seeking approval......good people will do good gestures just because....they don't need to broadcast what they do.....one of my plates washed my truck one time....she never even told me....I noticed it because it was sparkling clean....she wasn't doing it just to seek approval

It's kind of like how you can determine the non attention wh0ring celebrities from the attention wh0res.....the attention wh0res broadcast they are donating a million dollars to a charity......the others do it privately behind the scenes not looking for attention

Sometimes the only reason people do things is for the attention....they want to be noticed.....otherwise they wouldn't even do it.....so that wouldn't define a high quality person

A high quality woman should be viewed overall as the actual woman who she is....not just for one act or gesture.....even low quality women can do a decent act from time to time

Later on that night she could get mad at you and b!tch you out for no reason......her act of cleaning was quality....not her as an overall quality person

I'm not saying that she is a low quality woman......but you can't claim high quality if her day by day actions shows something different

This was really the first positive experience that you posted about her.....the other two were not......just thought I would provide those other two experiences so you don't confuse a nice gesture for an overall high quality woman

Ill wrap this up with a real life example. My girlfriend and I were meeting some of her friends at one of their houses. The area in which she lived was retarded and the parking was atrocious. It was street parking in a heavily populated and commercial area. So my girlfriend wanted me to park at this open spot....right in front of a fire hydrant. I had no plans on receiving a fine or having my car towed so my search for a parking spot went on. She grew very p1ssed and annoyed because we were now late for the dinner party. She was irritated and blurted out "that we would have parked by now, and that I dont listen to her". I find a spot and we begin walking to the house which is a few blocks away and she is extremely b1tchy at this point saying annoying things like "oh great now we are like 10 blocks away" and general bratty things like this. Most guys have a tendency to want to tell her to shut the fvck up and yell. Me? I didnt say a fvckin word the WHOLE WALK. I let her run that bratty mouth. Once at the party I said hi to everyone and engaged in conversation and practically ignored her the entire time. It wasnt a hateful thing...or a "im mad at you so im going to ignore you" thing. I just had very little interest in dealing with her in that state....thats honest. Fastforward to the walk back to the car....and she states "im sorry I was being rude earlier...I just didnt want to be late". I respond with a very sincere "no big deal."

Heres a real life example:
Girlfriend was upset with her results from a test
Me: Its all good. Youll be fine.
Gf: Ya I guess.
I go over her test and start to ask questions in an attempt to help her find where she messed up
Me: You know you can always ask me for help.
Gf: Well you didnt say that! How am I supposed to know to ask you
Me: Im just saying, I can help is all.
Gf: Goes on some b1tchy rant and starts making me the bad guy
Me: Are you fvcking serious? Im here trying to help you and you're acting like a huge brat (said with a raised voice and stern look, looking directly into her eyes)
Gf: *Turns head away, stares straight, and begins to cry. Eventually apologizes after a couple minutes of crying on my shoulder*

A nice gesture is always good.....but is it worth it to put up with b!tchy behavior the rest of the time?.....that doesn't define 'high quality' just for one gesture when her normal behavior is not high quality

The way I see it.....a little clingyness in a girl is good. It shows she sees you as the dominant person in the relationship and that she "cares more". There is definitely a thing as "too clingy" though and it will completely mess up the balance of the relationship. As is.....although she has high interest in me, shes not OVERLY CLINGY

Clinginess is never a positive attribute in a woman.....it is a negative attribute that DJ's stay away from

Clinginess shows insecurity....insecure women will ruin a relationship and will eventually cheat on you

Clingy women should be easily spotted as soon as you start talking to them

You should never enter a relationship with a clingy woman....clingy women take up all your time....they are insecure and will become jealous....you will always have to reassure them how great they are.....and when you do tell them they don't really believe you....until the next time you reassure her again....they are always trying to please you because they feel that they are no good.....if you don't praise them enough they will get mad at you....they expect you to be mind readers to fix their problems....if they do something wrong and you do try to help them, they will take it out on you because they think you disapprove of them and they think of themselves as failures already...just like she ranted when you tried to help her with her test

Actually, clingy/insecure women is the dominant person in the relationship....you are always too busy tending to her needs while she is always the focus of attention....you are doing all the praising, thanking, reassuring that she seeks from you....if you try to take charge and put yourself ahead, she will get mad at you because her ego needs constant stroking from you....so you apologize and put her back at the forefront......like when she gets mad at you.....and you apologize...and tell her "no big deal".....she is the dominant person in the relationship because she controls your actions and emotions with her clinginess and insecurities.....she b!tched you out before the party and she controlled how you acted the rest of the night....she is the dominant force in this relationship

When she doesn't feel like she is the center of attention....she will look for other men to give her that attention she craves....then she will cheat on you....and then dump you.....always avoid these women at all cost because they are a pain in the ass!!

it's not that she cares more...it's that she doesn't feel good about herself.....so she does these things in order to seek your attention and approval all the time....simple tasks turn into giant AW'ing episodes

Insecure/clingy women latch on to betas/AFC's because they are easy to boss around....the chicks know those men are dumb enough to put up with their sh!tty behavior.....they are easy to dump later on and to cheat on as well

 

[TheException]

Wanted to respond to some other posts, but I just cant pass the opportunity to address buzzin_frog. I will try to get to the others later.

Dude, this is no big deal.....it's a nice gesture....I have plates that do/have done the same for me...it's common courtesy to do that...if you were using her kitchen would you text her everything that you did?

Is a "nice gesture" not high quality behavior? Since when is doing nice things no longer a good thing?

I have to agree with the others who say she is seeking approval......good people will do good gestures just because....they don't need to broadcast what they do.....one of my plates washed my truck one time....she never even told me....I noticed it because it was sparkling clean....she wasn't doing it just to seek approval


It's kind of like how you can determine the non attention wh0ring celebrities from the attention wh0res.....the attention wh0res broadcast they are donating a million dollars to a charity......the others do it privately behind the scenes not looking for attention

Sometimes the only reason people do things is for the attention....they want to be noticed.....otherwise they wouldn't even do it.....so that wouldn't define a high quality person

I've already addressed this point. Seeking approval should be viewed the same way as a girl trying to qualify her self in the beginning stages of dating. They seek to make you happy and want to know they are doing so. To me....its not a big deal. If this bothers you....then dont enter into a relationship where the woman is highly attracted to you, because they will certainly do this at one point or another because subconsciously they know you are the one with higher value in the relationship.

A high quality woman should be viewed overall as the actual woman who she is....not just for one act or gesture.....even low quality women can do a decent act from time to time

Later on that night she could get mad at you and b!tch you out for no reason......her act of cleaning was quality....not her as an overall quality person

I'm not saying that she is a low quality woman......but you can't claim high quality if her day by day actions shows something different

I dont deal in "coulda, woulda, shoulda's". I posted about a single experience so lets stay focused on that. Trying to ramble on about what she does outside of what I tell you is pointless considering you dont know the girl.

This was really the first positive experience that you posted about her.....the other two were not......just thought I would provide those other two experiences so you don't confuse a nice gesture for an overall high quality woman

Again....as I've stated over and over, I stand by every word written in those previous posts. Just because I dont run to sosuave and document every little thing doesnt mean shes all "negative experience" and only "one positive". Every man in a relationship knows what I am talking about with those previous posts....those are not sh1tty behavior but normal woman behavior. However....its really cute of you to go back into my posting history to post those excerpts...whats your number?

Clinginess is never a positive attribute in a woman.....it is a negative attribute that DJ's stay away from

Clinginess shows insecurity....insecure women will ruin a relationship and will eventually cheat on you

Clingy women should be easily spotted as soon as you start talking to them

You should never enter a relationship with a clingy woman....clingy women take up all your time....they are insecure and will become jealous....you will always have to reassure them how great they are.....and when you do tell them they don't really believe you....until the next time you reassure her again....they are always trying to please you because they feel that they are no good.....if you don't praise them enough they will get mad at you....they expect you to be mind readers to fix their problems....if they do something wrong and you do try to help them, they will take it out on you because they think you disapprove of them and they think of themselves as failures already...just like she ranted when you tried to help her with her test

Actually, clingy/insecure women is the dominant person in the relationship....you are always too busy tending to her needs while she is always the focus of attention....you are doing all the praising, thanking, reassuring that she seeks from you....if you try to take charge and put yourself ahead, she will get mad at you because her ego needs constant stroking from you....so you apologize and put her back at the forefront......like when she gets mad at you.....and you apologize...and tell her "no big deal".....she is the dominant person in the relationship because she controls your actions and emotions with her clinginess and insecurities.....she b!tched you out before the party and she controlled how you acted the rest of the night....she is the dominant force in this relationship

When she doesn't feel like she is the center of attention....she will look for other men to give her that attention she craves....then she will cheat on you....and then dump you.....always avoid these women at all cost because they are a pain in the ass!!

it's not that she cares more...it's that she doesn't feel good about herself.....so she does these things in order to seek your attention and approval all the time....simple tasks turn into giant AW'ing episodes

Insecure/clingy women latch on to betas/AFC's because they are easy to boss around....the chicks know those men are dumb enough to put up with their sh!tty behavior.....they are easy to dump later on and to cheat on as well

A big ramble that I dont have time to breakdown right now. To sum it up....you are a CWAF(constantly worried about fidelity) guy. How in the world does posting one story about her cleaning my apartment lead to you drawing conclusions that she will eventually cheat almost makes me want to get a lobotomy. This whole quote is a symptom of "overdosing" on the "red pill". Ive addressed the clingyness point before and think a little bit of it in a woman is ok. Your whole bit about "her being the one with power" and "me constantly reassuring her" is 100% fabricated and based upon nothing.
-shes not an AW
-I asked her what she cleaned
-shes not overly clingy
-shes high interest and wants to please her boyfriend.

Get it yet pal?

 

[CrimsonPanther]

Wanted to respond to some other posts, but I just cant pass the opportunity to address buzzin_frog. I will try to get to the others later.

Is a "nice gesture" not high quality behavior? Since when is doing nice things no longer a good thing?

I've already addressed this point. Seeking approval should be viewed the same way as a girl trying to qualify her self in the beginning stages of dating. They seek to make you happy and want to know they are doing so. To me....its not a big deal. If this bothers you....then dont enter into a relationship where the woman is highly attracted to you, because they will certainly do this at one point or another because subconsciously they know you are the one with higher value in the relationship.

I dont deal in "coulda, woulda, shoulda's". I posted about a single experience so lets stay focused on that. Trying to ramble on about what she does outside of what I tell you is pointless considering you dont know the girl.


Again....as I've stated over and over, I stand by every word written in those previous posts. Just because I dont run to sosuave and document every little thing doesnt mean shes all "negative experience" and only "one positive". Every man in a relationship knows what I am talking about with those previous posts....those are not sh1tty behavior but normal woman behavior. However....its really cute of you to go back into my posting history to post those excerpts...whats your number?

A big ramble that I dont have time to breakdown right now. To sum it up....you are a CWAF(constantly worried about fidelity) guy. How in the world does posting one story about her cleaning my apartment lead to you drawing conclusions that she will eventually cheat almost makes me want to get a lobotomy. This whole quote is a symptom of "overdosing" on the "red pill". Ive addressed the clingyness point before and think a little bit of it in a woman is ok. Your whole bit about "her being the one with power" and "me constantly reassuring her" is 100% fabricated and based upon nothing.
-shes not an AW
-I asked her what she cleaned
-shes not overly clingy
-shes high interest and wants to please her boyfriend.

Get it yet pal?

so then why care so much about our opinion? seems to me that YOU are seeking approval in this thread, and when some people view it differently, you try to put them down and attack.
look, it's your girl, your pedestal, your life and your pink glass. if it is ok for you, go for it, you can even delude yourself into thinking like some of our "happily married" posters here, who sing a praise of their wifes every day here lika an incantation, in time maybe even they will believe it.
seeing reality is NOT being jaded. actually i bet some of the posters you labeled as jaded and butthurt, are doing just fine and boning a bunch of girls without searching desperately for someone to fill their empty pedestals.
the truth is, there is no quality women on the long term. theyare almost all quality at first, then they cheat on you, leave you, nag you, and manipulate you. denying this and labeling those who see reality as "jaded" will not change anything.
if it is good for you, go for it. it is clear from the OP that the reason for posting was to get some validation and it kinda backfired and now you fight off the "naysayers". our opinions do not matter, and it is your decision if you take advices ot just want a pat on the head.
and girls posting everything they do... OP's girl is not the worst kind lol, just look at facebook and the spam of all the ****ty food pictures and moronic status messages.

TL;DR: your girl may or mey not be a quality woman for us. if it is for you, all the better. people with different life experiences have different opinions. it is how it should be.

 

[asa_don]

Wanted to respond to some other posts, but I just cant pass the opportunity to address buzzin_frog. I will try to get to the others later.

Is a "nice gesture" not high quality behavior? Since when is doing nice things no longer a good thing?

I've already addressed this point. Seeking approval should be viewed the same way as a girl trying to qualify her self in the beginning stages of dating. They seek to make you happy and want to know they are doing so. To me....its not a big deal. If this bothers you....then dont enter into a relationship where the woman is highly attracted to you, because they will certainly do this at one point or another because subconsciously they know you are the one with higher value in the relationship.

I dont deal in "coulda, woulda, shoulda's". I posted about a single experience so lets stay focused on that. Trying to ramble on about what she does outside of what I tell you is pointless considering you dont know the girl.


Again....as I've stated over and over, I stand by every word written in those previous posts. Just because I dont run to sosuave and document every little thing doesnt mean shes all "negative experience" and only "one positive". Every man in a relationship knows what I am talking about with those previous posts....those are not sh1tty behavior but normal woman behavior. However....its really cute of you to go back into my posting history to post those excerpts...whats your number?

A big ramble that I dont have time to breakdown right now. To sum it up....you are a CWAF(constantly worried about fidelity) guy. How in the world does posting one story about her cleaning my apartment lead to you drawing conclusions that she will eventually cheat almost makes me want to get a lobotomy. This whole quote is a symptom of "overdosing" on the "red pill". Ive addressed the clingyness point before and think a little bit of it in a woman is ok. Your whole bit about "her being the one with power" and "me constantly reassuring her" is 100% fabricated and based upon nothing.
-shes not an AW
-I asked her what she cleaned
-shes not overly clingy
-shes high interest and wants to please her boyfriend.

Get it yet pal?

op, you seem to be in denial with the infatuation of your gf. all these posters are besically telling you the same thing, you can learn from them with their wise experience. listen to them instead of being so stubborn. i can see that your gf is not high quality esp the way she was talking to you. high quality women respect their men and don't talk to them that way. my gf would never speak to me in that tone of voice because she respects me. the basis of your post was trying to show off proving you have a high quality gf other people told you from their own experience that your gf is not as hq as you think. the more you attack the other posters the less credibility you have when we all can see that your looking thru this scenario with pink colored glasses. the frog called you out on very valid reasons your responce was sounded butthurt. to me this whole post reeks of approval seeking and being butthurt on your part. live your life, why do you need our validation about your gf?