so then why care so much about our opinion? seems to me that YOU are seeking approval in this thread, and when some people view it differently, you try to put them down and attack.
look, it's your girl, your pedestal, your life and your pink glass. if it is ok for you, go for it, you can even delude yourself into thinking like some of our "happily married" posters here, who sing a praise of their wifes every day here lika an incantation, in time maybe even they will believe it.
seeing reality is NOT being jaded. actually i bet some of the posters you labeled as jaded and butthurt, are doing just fine and boning a bunch of girls without searching desperately for someone to fill their empty pedestals.
the truth is, there is no quality women on the long term. theyare almost all quality at first, then they cheat on you, leave you, nag you, and manipulate you. denying this and labeling those who see reality as "jaded" will not change anything.
if it is good for you, go for it. it is clear from the OP that the reason for posting was to get some validation and it kinda backfired and now you fight off the "naysayers". our opinions do not matter, and it is your decision if you take advices ot just want a pat on the head.
and girls posting everything they do... OP's girl is not the worst kind lol, just look at facebook and the spam of all the ****ty food pictures and moronic status messages.
TL;DR: your girl may or mey not be a quality woman for us. if it is for you, all the better. people with different life experiences have different opinions. it is how it should be.