Bible_Belt said:
The virgin strategy is most often utilized for getting a pity-lay on adult sites anyway - which is what I tried last year but have scrapped that policy
No pity lays. It is a lousy strategy anyway. Pity is not sexy to women.
I'm going to shift back a year for arguement's sake, although this is not my current mind-set now. This is just after a heart-break from a oneitis where I felt nobody wanted me and was in a very crazy state of mind.
There comes a point when you dont care and you just want to get laid to experience it or how it feels like, in which case it resorts to either going for pity-sex, getting a hooker, or something of that nature.
You are talking from the position of knowing that you can appeal to women and that a woman could want you sexually and thus dont understand my position last year of being 'Involuntary Celibate' - where you feel nobody wants you even if you paid them. I do not even currently consider myself sexy to women and like you said, perhaps I feel I'm an incurable AFC, but I'm still trying.
So, this strategy is used last year in a month period of November 2006. It worked last year in terms of getting four potential hook-ups, but I still consider it a zero-game strategy - if that didn't work, I would have moved to go with a hooker last year and just get it over with. There was an open sex policy in that sector premised on the 'Involuntary Celibacy'.
In fact, I would have had more of a choice of a selection of sexy hookers and have had a choice of who I wanted to do, rather than settle for whatever little 'free' responses I got from AFF, but at the end of the day, at least I had a choice to do something or not to do something without feeling I 'had to pay' for it.
Bible_Belt said:
since my parents wont let me lose it with a skank
Come again? Mommy has to approve your women? Luke, that is completely unacceptable. You have a larger problem than just dealing with girls. Your lack of success with women is a symptom of larger problems, such as, I am guessing, low self-esteem as the result of domineering parents. That is not reasonable on their part to tell you whom to date. If you live with them, and they insist on controlling you, then you have to move out. Your parents telling you what to do makes you a boy in the eyes of women, not a man. The first step in succeeding with women will be standing up to your parents.
Yup, she usually has to approve of my women and have had women actually qualifying themselves to my mom's standards or feeling hurt they dont qualify. But, suppose that's not true. You really think if I move out of there I'm just going to be a different person - like that - after years and years of being in that environment?
People have already said in here that I have to move out. I've had a reasonably successful year in Real-Estate this year, but if I have a second successful year next year, then I know it's stable for me, and I'll move out there. I'm still trying to build myself economically and since I'm not paying rent and dont have a gun pointed to my head for most basic expenses, I'll just stay here just one further year before taking the step out.
Anway, I have other plans, I'm going to school to get a professional designation in my field, paying off my student loan, investing in retirement savings plans, and cutting my wieght down - I think my looks are much more important to deal with then my living condition.
) ......nothing, or at least nothing tangible. It's all in your head. Either you can embrace risk and have a fun life, or you can worry yourself to death about everything and watch life go by from your quiet safety, as other people live it up and enjoy themselves.
