I went back and fvcked the girl from the last date, two nights ago. It was ok, she had a nice ass. Then tonight, I finally fvcked the paralegal. That was better sex. She really loved it. And goddamn, fake tits have really come a long way. Hers are hard to tell they are fake. I can just barely see the scar, but I can't tell by feel at all.
So, three dates and two lays is not a bad close ratio. I did have to see one girl twice. I never really spent any money on them either, just a couple of drinks at the bar.
I had a milftastic mom lined up for tomorrow...amazing body...I may have run out of motivation to add new team members, though.
I've had two or three girls that I spent a day texting back and forth, and then they just stopped replying the next day, but that's just the nature of the online game. I don't take it personally or get upset about it. And they only get one text to ignore, and then I move on and stop texting them.
I see a lot of negativity on here about POF. I have my own failures, too, but if I dwelt on those failures and let them make me bitter, it would keep me from having the success that I have.
I break a lot of the rules you see on sosuave. I use compliments a lot. I don't mind telling women they are attractive. I respond as soon as I can to messages or texts, none of this silly waiting period game. Sometimes I will text a girl 50 or 60 times over the course of a day. I only respond to her texts, and I never send another text unless she has replied to the last one.
Another central idea to my strategy is this - throw your competition under the bus. I rip on guys as a gender constantly. I make fun of all the stupid sh!t you do. (yes, I'm a d!ck, but at least I'm sharing the strategy with those who want to learn) I can immediately get women to open up about their bad experiences with guys, usually creepers or clingers. When I ask for their number so we can text, I always add "I promise I won't blow up your phone with weiner pics." Then we make fun of guys who do that.
I also tell them that I am not jealous at all; I tell them they always have a green light to check their POF messages when we are together. My attitude is that most guys are insecure jealous douche bags, but I'm not that way at all. I find that doing so immediately separates you from the competition. The frame you are putting forward is that all other guys are such a joke compared to you, that they aren't really competition at all.
For example, if I feel like texting Ms Milftastic tomorrow - she agreed to go to a winery in the afternoon with me, but that was three days ago and I have not talked to her since - I will say something like this:
So how has the hottest mom in ___ville been? Tell me you had a date; tell me you had fun. She has already reacted very positively to the 'I don't get jealous' routine, so that line has been set up already.
Every time you send a message or text to a woman, you need to have a directive behind it, a goal you're trying to accomplish. My main directives are:
#1 - Make her laugh
#2 - AMOG every other guy out there
#3 - Build comfort. demonstrate value, start talking about sexual topics
#4 - Seal the deal. Get the number, get the date.
Every communication needs to have at least one of those goals behind it. They do tend to overlap, too. My winning line to get a number off pof is Hey, give me your number so we can text. I don't have POF on my phone. I promise I won't blow up your phone with weiner pics. That one touches all four of those goals.
