Man my girl dumped me , Please help me before i just do something to myself

[DrSassyPants]

You think you're going to be able to f@ck her with no emotional attachment? You're wrong. You still have feelings for her. And what's worse, she's said she doesn't have feelings for you anymore. You're setting yourself up to get hurt some more.

 

[Plain & Simple]

believe me , she still has feelings for me although she says she doesnt.

 

[coldcoal]

That only means she's still playing with you. She want's something big, and you're going to have to swallow a chunk of pride to provide it.

But hey, it's love or something, right?

 

[Plain & Simple]

haha like i said, ima get my fuk on very soon again, i mean i get to grab the booty , tits, even rub on that monkey.

Thats all i want from her now though, the booty

 

[coldcoal]

Yeah...I hear ya....but she probibly won't give it up all easy like that for nothing.

No free lunches, man......

This girl sounds manipulative to me. Be careful...

 

[Legend]

It seems that you made up you own advice. Which is good, all we can do here is give you advice but at the end of the day its up to you to do what you think is best for yourself and your relationship.

After reviewing all of the posts you my friend know the correct and wrong things you should be doing.

 

[Slickster]

Hopeless case

 

[Plain & Simple]

Actually the advice that ive been acting on has been the one that was posted in this thread, the one link that brings u to the thread of "The best way to get revenge" i read it and it said just live life and have fun with it, thats what ive done so far, today she texted me telling me that she wanted to come with me to go register for this college, so i picked her up and we went, at first it was kind of tense but on our way back it was real smooth, we even went to wendys .

I slapped her on the booty she said with a big smile "dont do that" but u know she just playing hard to get, when i dropped her home she was getting up slowly watching me and i told her straight up, "you know what ima do when u get up" she knew i was gonna slap her on the booty as i do always, i tried but i missed, she had a big smile on her face.

I dont even feel no way about the break up to be honest with yall, since i read all the advice on this thread and on that link posted , ive been real good.

Oh yeah she agreed on doing my hair (As i knew she was, told yall) man its just a matte of days before we fukin again. howeve ill try to keep it as just that, fukfriends.

 

[pimpdatass]

Dude, you gave into her every demand and she dumped you. What does that tell you? Seriously it would be one thing if you dissed her, cheated on her, were too much of a jerk to her.etc....then believe it or not, she might come back to you.

I know you are saying you just want booty call but in this case, its not likely. If it does happen, you are gonna be attached again and she will dump you again!

I tried this recently, doesnt work!

 

[Plain & Simple]

Actually if you look at it thats the reason why i got "Dumped " Cause im always getting mad at her for stupid stuff, always argue with her, and hurtin' her feelings basicly acting like a jerk, reason why her feelings for me aint there no more cause of the way i treated her and acted, but now, i can see them feelings kinda coming back, ive been treating her and acting like i acted with her before i had her, shes falling for it.

Watch in the next 2 weeks ill be back to fukin with her, like i said its just a breather, a temporary break, its halftime.

i cant wait till this saturday though, this party's going down in Ft lauderdale!

 

[TizZle]

If you can handle the "getting attached" part by not getting attached i say more power to you. Just bang her and don't catch feelings. This is easier said than done since you have previously had feelings for her and still obviously do. I'd really suggest getting a different f buddy instead of ur ex but do whatever you want. You live and you learn. Don't let a woman control you, you are suppose to lead.

 

[Climax]

Originally posted by Plain & Simple
yeh i told my coworker at work, he is 59 yrs old and im only 20, he told me " Thats just a blessing from the sky" I asked him what he ment by that he said, that she breaking up with me is a gift that god gave me.

I love this site though, by each post i keep getting better and better.

I got one question though, its like every now and then i keep thinking about her, like for 2 hrs ill be good then for an hour I think and feel sad then again i feel good...etc... its like that back and forth back and forth. Only if I could get over this mood changes...., i know staying active helps and ive tried to stay as active as possible, but there is only so many things that i can do, even sometimes while im doing something and keeping myself busy, she comes in my mind, thinking "dang right now we would be having sex, or on the phone or etc..."

Well, in my honest opinion, the only thing that will get her TOTALLY off your mind, besides for TIME, is getting involved with other women, go on dates with new women, meet new women etc... Maybe even fall in love with a new girl? ... I was in love with a girl a few months ago, then some sh!t went down with her being an AW (attention wh0re) & all, so that kinda made me have to move on... and yes, I loved her, I would do anything for this girl, and even after a few months i STILL wasn’t over her, there were times that I just started crying in the shower while thinking of her, or when listening to a song she use to like... but then I just pulled myself together, started seeing other women, and like magic, I was able to get over the feelings that I had for her.

Right now, me and her are friends again, no attached feelings or anything, I am seeing other women, and she is seeing other guys, but the thing that got us to the point of getting over one another is being with other people. I see her as a sister now, rather than the girl I love, because we get along so well etc, just that certain things like her lack of maturity for a relationship, and her being an AW prevent us from being together as bf & gf, but that’s kewl with me, there are MANY MAAAANY other women out there to choose from and experience with.

You are only 20 years old, you can still afford to mess around and have your fun with women, my new outlook on a relationship is that unless ur planning on it leading to marriage, don’t get into a relationship, because it WILL lead to heartbreak.. if u like a chick, and she likes u, but ur not thinking marriage, then do whatever u want to with her, but don’t attach any feelings, UNLESS ur at the stage of ur lives that u are thinking of marriage... but that’s just my personal outlook .. People might say that the experience of loving etc is worth it, well, I use to say the same thing, but I think that after u get burnt once and u HAVE the experience of being in a relationship, try keep away from then until a stage where u are BOTH serious about it, and both have the intentions of it leading to staying with one another till death do u part

anyways... all in all... go out there, meet women, have fun with them, and live it up man, u only live once, don’t waste ur time being sad about ONE girl, there are plenty more out there waiting for u to sweep them off their feet


Laterz...

 

[optimist prime]

You are deluding yourself. Stay away from here, and quit trying to hang out with her, and sure as hell quit doing favors for her. Shes playing you until she finds another guy, she'll pretend to care, then when a new guy comes along, she'll forgot you even exist.

Plus, by doing what your doing right now, she knows she has you wrapped around her finger, and would be in nor hurry to ever get back with you. Why should she? She knows you are there waiting like a panting dog. Take it from someone who has been through what you are right now many many times, do the exact oppostie of what you are doing right now, and you might have a chance. Doing what you are doing? You have no shot.

 

[Plain & Simple]

^^True there, but if i know her the way i know her, even though we are "Broken up " she wont mess around with no other guy even if she does shell regret it, and still end up coming back to me, like for example yesterday when we went to the college to get me registered,( by the way why would she agree to come with if we broken up) when i dropped her home she told me that she was gonna call me, she didnt call me at all for the day, normally i would call back and complain talkin about " aww why u aint call blah blah blah" i didnt do that to be honest i could care less, i bet she was kinda wondering, cause i think she told me to call her or something like that.

And today, i dropped my friend at work cause he needed to check his schedule, now if u see him you see me, he came back to the car and he told me that he saw her in there but they didnt say nothing, so if she saw him im sure she was thinking "hmm plain and simple most be with him outside waiting" yet i didnt call her at all for the whole day, me and my friend went out to south beach and had a blast, cracked jokes and had lots of laughter,damn it it felt good to have such a good time, on our way back home she calls me, she had a little attitude wich she knows that gets on my nerves but i didnt let it bother me, i played it so smooth and good, that even i was surprised.

She told me to go tomorrow at 9 am to get my hair done, so ima go and continue the plan, wich hasnt failed as to now. yeah the feeling and rubbin on the monkey lol .


So like i said, this girl is not going nowhere its just a water break, halftime, a 20 sec or full timout.

by tuesday ill be fukin her again, (if my step mom gets back to work from vacation damn it! )

 

[Bloke]

Mate, she have no feelings for you. Your deluding yourself. You're coming up with fantasies in your mind that you wish come true & you tsart to believe it, forgetting everything that's real

How do I know this? Because I was in (or still am rather) the same situation as you

She has no feeling for you. If she did then why did she break up with you?

She not gonna be your f*ck buddy. If you can't have a relationship with her what makes you think she'll let you f*ck her?

Your never gonna be together again. NEVER. The sooner you wake up to yourself the easier it will be.

 

[Plain & Simple]

hehe ok buddy, i guess my fantasies are becoming realities then...

 

[penkitten]

Originally posted by Plain & Simple
Actually if you look at it thats the reason why i got "Dumped " Cause im always getting mad at her for stupid stuff, always argue with her, and hurtin' her feelings basicly acting like a jerk, reason why her feelings for me aint there no more cause of the way i treated her and acted, but now, i can see them feelings kinda coming back, ive been treating her and acting like i acted with her before i had her, shes falling for it.

i tried to cover this in a thread in tips section.
its about negativity.

 

[Plain & Simple]

yeah i read it.


The way i see it now that i thought about it a lil bit, hehe like i said its halftime, i would bet money that we both will be together again in less than a month time, and it will be her the one asking for the attachment, and id bet that well be fukin as soon as my house's empty damn it

 

[penkitten]

plain , she prolly will come back later.

just remember the negativity thread k

 

[Legend]

stop saying rubbin on my monkey

SAy p$nis or dyck or something. Calling it a monkey is weird dude.


You made good calls with ur ex to distant yourself, ie, not calling her back complaining why she hasnt called you. Good job, and another by not going in with your friend to see her, good job again.

Ganji affects is what you should be reading up on in your situation. I have used ganji and it def. does work.

Keep us updated man

- John