Man my girl dumped me , Please help me before i just do something to myself

[Bloke]

OK buddy, but you're the one setting yourself up for a world of hurt

So, you're trying tell me you're over it, & about to make her your root buddy? After about a week you're over it?!

P*ss off, you're only kidding yourself

The relationship is not gonna happen this time cuz you read tips at www.sosuave.net, at the end of the day you're still the same person, & she dumped you after having a long relationship

& don't try & tell us that you're over her, because otherwise you wouldn't be persuing her still

 

[Plain & Simple]

ok, this moorning i was supposed to go pick her up to get my hair done, i was supposed to be there at 9 am, but **** i was sleepy as hell so i just said fuk it and i stayed in bed, she probably thought that i would be there at 8:59am lol. so at 9:22 she texts me "hello bring a comb with you ok" i replied "do you mind doing it a 7" (thats when i get out work and i go in at 11 so there is no time) she said "No after 7 i cant do it i got things to do"
(ill talk on the bolding in a second) I played it cool likea perfect dj and i said "ok no problem, thanx anyways"

Now on the "i got things to do" my inner dj in me is telling me that, that things to do, is going out with some other man. why am i thinking that so much, lol, i was thinking this since last night cause i was thinking about if i was gonna wake up or not, and if i said after 7 what she would say, something told me that she was gonna say no, the reason might be cause she needs to clean up the house (her father and brother come back tomorrow) or the one i feel the most for some reason i dont know why, cause she going out with another man.

lol i was gonna park around the corner until like 8 and see if anybody comes to pick her up, but i said nawww thats just stalking her, i dont give a fuk.

But still i bet she is kinda surprised that i didnt try to set up another time or day to get my hair done and i didnt complain or nothing.

feels good the process of becoming a dj

But that "i got things to do" although i played it cool, it got me lol

 

[pimpdatass]

Dude, even if she decides to get back together with you, its only going to be a temporary thing because she is lonely at that moment. As soon as another interesting guy wants to go out with her, she will!!! And you will go bye bye once again.

 

[Plain & Simple]

Bloke : you right a RL is not gonna happen, cause i dont want to have a LTR with her anymore unless she drasticly changes, although i messed it up myself, wich leads me into saying, IM NOT THE SAME PERSON, she might think that at the begining but once she starts seeing that im not, she will be all up stucked on me, she should had start seeing it, in just the few little things that have been going on, and those are just little things so once she notices the change and that she left a big AFC wich is now a big DJ she will be begging to get back with me. And like i said i dont think i would want a LTR with her again, but then it was my fault so i wouldnt mind, since i messed it up myself for being a big AFC.


Pimpdatass : IF she does decide to get back with me, it will not be temporary, since she will have no need to look for another interesting guy, cause ill be that interesting guy that she cant have enough of, it will be up to me, to keep her interest level that way and to take what happened in the past as a lesson and apply all the tips that ive learned here, so that it doesnt happen again, so im preety sure i wont guy bye bye again, unless i really fuk up again, wich i highly doubt that it will happen if i act like a real dj and not a lil AFC.


I feel like in this week ive been acting a lil frustrated and like a afc with her for the first few days but lately based on how a dj would act and by really reading the bible and advices i know that ive acted and handled situations like a dj.

I feel the dj in me now, wich i didnt before, its a real good feeling.

I dont even worry about the break, cause i know that ima get what i want from her, or from any other girl i want, if i play it right, and i will make sure i will.

IT feels good beeing a part of the family.

 

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Well ive read the first couple of posts and the last couple of posts... i didnt wanna read the whole 5 pages... i have a life.

Anyways... it seems like you changed a lot and that your starting to feel the power of the DJ ... but i had something to say about your first post... Mr. Plain and Simple...

Rule Number 1: Never listen to a girls advice on dating...

When they tell you to be nice and be a gentleman... NO

When they tell you that you are being too ****y and your too full of yourself... DONT APPOLOGIZE OR CHANGE

Never actually say "sorry" or "i apologize" to a girl for your own actions.... if she says your too ****y... forget her, (if you really feel your too ****y... you can tone it down... but nvr give the power to a girl by changing)

In the Simpsons... (altho its fiction) Marge married Homer bcuz she wanted to "change" him... Homer is still as FAT and STUPID and BALD :crackup: as he ever will be, he hasnt changed 1 bit... if you change for the girl and she feels like her job is done here... the breakup starts ( in other words... you gave all power to her and became wussy so she feels no attraction anymore... i just used a complex metaphor) So basically... you should nvr listen to a womans advice on dating!!!!

[I think someone should write up a post in the tips section on this]