Looks are more important than you think! Merged [Official thread]

[skip2mylou781]

i DONT care what people here think, but I try my hardest to understand why certain people so harshly disagree so I can learn wtf is going on in other people's minds........when it comes to this thread, I simply do not get the point of those arguing against me.

I like your pet theory, it is correct, but just because I reply on this forum doesnt mean I actually care THAT much lol

 

[DJinTraining06]

To all those stating you need good looks to pull in good looking girls are IDIOTS.


MORONS



I'm a good looking guy. I've been asked by abercrombie to work there 3 times, and hollister once. I've been in front of a magazine cover around 10 years old and me and my family are in a photographers advertisement cover.


Am I successfull with girls? Better than I have been, Yes. I think it's 8 or 9 girls since early july. Not bad, Not bad. Still plan on getting more, I have about 3-5 girls going on right now. Butt....




My buddy, Andy. I'll be honest, Is a bad looking guy. Braces cause he had REALLY bad teeth, liek they were completely crooked and everything and were all over the place. He's white as hell, Can't get a tan for ****, Grayish Green eyes, Just a bad looking guy. My mom even said he's not cute.. Rude.. But I'll explain.

But you know what?


He gets hot girls. BUT HE'S A BAD LOOKING GUY. Yes people, He rakes in solid 8's. He actually just ended a little love triangle this hot girl had for him at work. She was hot, Had a bf, Cheated on him with Andy, the guy tried killing his confidence by telling him how ugly he is or whatever. My buddy laughed and goes "That's why your gf is coming to me?"

He lost out on her. Problem w/Andy is he mostly gets with girls at his work cause he is able to interact with them and they LOVE his personality. There's no way a girl would look at him and say " I want to F his brains out" He also gets whipped VERY easy. But up until he gets whipped, He gets hot as girls. His ex girlfriend was a hot looking little mexican who was whipped BY HIM. He would call her just to bang.

After they broke up, He had sex with her, He laid in the bed for 5 minutes. Left and never got back together with her lol.

He had this 8.5 said she liked him while she was dating his best friend.

So no, Bad lookin guys can get some ass. They just gotta have a kickass personality and some other aspects that Andy has. I'll explani if you guys want to.

Now me and my other buddy(my wing) were talking . We think our game is now surpassing him and his bud, They seem to get more territorial around eachother and don't like us comnig around when theres girls. lol.

Ok but not everybody has ur friend andy's personality. That is the pt. The ugly guys have to work very very hard to get the 8's. unless they have a sparkling personality like ur friend they r screwed. the good lookin ones dont have to have much of a personality, as long as they act normal enuff. They dont need much game. Is it fair? No. Life never is. But it's def true. And i think the original poster is referring to when a girl first meets u. Which in that case, u will have a hard time just getting ur foot in the door cuz ur ugly. ur a good looking guy so how would u know anyway? I know a couple very good looking guys who bang the hottest chicks. And they both seem to brag about how suave they r and all they know bout getting girls. It has so much to do with looks. I have a friend who is just like me personality wise, hes very quiet, mild mannered and all. And no freakin girl would go out with him ever. he is the same height, same personality. Girls alays end up having crushes on me and wanting to go out with me. Theres one difference between him and me. Looks! We're the same height but he's out of shape, big gut, hes balding already at a young age, ugly face, pretty pale. Im much better looking. I have zero game and girls still dig me. Every girl i meet tells me i have gorgeous eyes. It seems thats all i ever need to get dates. Of coursei then fvck it up with my lack of game, but i get the dates and he never does.

 

[skip2mylou781]

7 approaches and 6 # closes???? DUDE you are a pimp, thats such a ****in good success rate


just imagine if u did 100 approaches last week, ud have 87 #s

you could prob have ****ed 10 girls last week if u did that

WTF U WAITING FOR????

 

[skip2mylou781]

hey "assh0le" - shut ur stupid ****in little 17 year old trap and go approach some more....u ****in brave calling me an assh0le behind a computer from las vegas??? you AFC chump

 

[KillaCam]

hey "assh0le" - shut ur stupid ****in little 17 year old trap and go approach some more....u ****in brave calling me an assh0le behind a computer from las vegas??? you AFC chump

Relax, chill. There is another one of your autistic spazzes.

Why do you keep abusing the term "AFC"? It's one thing to kill a saying, but another to poke it with a stick and kick it. Show a little variety bud, or at least use terms that are relevant.

Just relax. Be the bigger man if you possibly can.

Show a little restraint buddy, or people won't stop digging at you. Self-control

 

[PigAdlemPimp]

You are absolutely right, being a hunk is a huge positive when picking up HB8-10s, though seduction gurus are not going to make any money out of writting these truths in their AlphaMale guides, so they never say it.
I am still waiting on the UglyWomans guide to seducing the AlphaMale hunks, it would be an awesome read. :crackup:

 

[PigAdlemPimp]

Of course looks matter, I don't anyone would dispute that...

But with VALUE you can get around it... value gives you looks

Personality won't help you if you're ugly, nor will any other method you've picked up off the internet, if you don't have good looks like me or other good lookin people the ONLY thing that can save you is value...

Good thing is you can build value, its in your control... so hence there is nothing stopping you besides YOU... Also i believe the people that don't like the idea of looks being important are ugly or very very average, just my opinion... anyway


PS
Skip tks for posting videos I needed those laughs, classic !



-Cod3r

You are right, many of the dudes on this site are probably ugly or average in the looks department, or they wouldn't be here.
Good Looks + Success = Confidence - Success + Confidence = Charisma - Confidence + Charisma = Value + Value = Chick Magnet.

 

[skip2mylou781]

I'm taking a psychology class in school right now.

THE #1 action of people who are insecure, is to put OTHER people DOWN, instead, of focusing on themselves. It gives someone who is insecure a temporary feeling of relief, since they don't have to think about themselves; temporarily.

skip2mylou781, I would have taken your post seriously, if you replied with an intelligent response. EVEN if you openly INSULTED me, I would have taken it seriously, if your post was more than just attacking me for my age and where I live. Two things I have absolutely NO control of.

You seriously lack ANY, understanding of the the situation I am in. If I had ANY more time to approach girls, I WOULD, but I can't. I simply have too much to handle and be responsible for; to sacrifice any more time for girls.

I have MUCH more important things to worry about.

YOU called me an ******* after my 1st reply to u when all i was trying to do was PRAISE you for how good u are at # closing when U approach......and when i read you calling me ******* when i was trying to inspire you to approach alot more, well that was really fvcked up in my mind! oh, I was drunk too btw

 

[skip2mylou781]

yea, no no no not at all

i was serious - u closed 6 #s in 7 approaches, and i was trying to tell u that u have ****in serious potential!!! i was saying, imagine u approach 100 girls, u could get AT LEAST 50#s.....you are doing something right

you basically have the option right now of either being a total player, or finding the love of ur life (if u approach and close alot, u will be able to do either/or)

do it whenever u can!

 

[d9930380]

I agree with Skip - Offcourse girls judge by looks, so do men, we all know this.

HOWEVER and this is the important point. Some of us don't realise what we are: are we a 5,6,7,8,9. Like the tall guy, this guy was just a normal bloke (5 or 6) but he thought he was a 3 or 4. Once he realised that he could pull normal girls (5 to 7) therefore beating the approach anxiety then it became easy. The fat guy was actually the best looking of the bunch but was 150 pounds overweight but if this dude lost weight then he would actually be good looking (good symetry, proportionality, perfect skin and large frame). The short guy is just ****ed by mother nature, unfortunately it's the only ***** that will **** him. Welcome to a life of being the "friend".

But yea, there is no-one who can get Gollums a Jessica Alba but apart from a few on this board who fixate on HB9 and HB10 the rest of us just want to be successful with normal girls and have the game NOT to **** it up when a hottie comes are way.

 

[skip2mylou781]

i remmeber when i first created this thead, it was to respond to a thread made by "Weak Game" who posted those videos saying that the videos are proof that looks didnt matter

i almost died laughing

I thought to myself, these vidoes are proof that looks DO matter, because u will not get laid if u are a 3/10 walking up to 8/10s and initiating flirting - they will not flirt back if thats the case, EVER

 

[d9930380]

True however the point I was making was some guys SERIOUSLY underestimate how they look. It's not such an issue for girls because if a girl is hot she will be approached even if she doesn't have much confidence and that will make her confident. Girls also don't get rejected near as often. It (approached) doesn't happen for guys and when it does the guy will **** up because even if a girl approaches a guy it's still up to the guy to charm her - girls at best will just make the initial contact.

What it does is teach guys to approach correctly: Relaxed, friendly non-agressive just looking to have a chat without agenda and then if things are going well to start flirting. Using the help/incouragement from these guys will allow them to start hooking up with girls (in their league).

The two dating gurus where probably 7s and I would imagine they couldn't pull above a high 8 however they would probably be VERY successful with 7s and low 8s because their game was good.

 

[cyp6]

Bottom line, looks matter.

If you are a 8-10, girls are no big deal.... if your 4-7, work on your game... 1-3 work on your looks.... loose weight, get some nice cloths, ect. ect. ect..

and its VERY possible to Improve your score... Getting in shape is the easiest way to improve your apperance...

why did I post this? just being random I guess..

 

[donArjun]

bottom line is somewhat....

if shes going to be your girlfriend she has to find your attractive physically somewhat on that level... however notice i didn't validate your statements by saying you have to neccessary be a 8 or 9..i think theres a little difference in those statements..but by all means, definetly do you best with what you've got in terms of looks...

nevertheless, you should also have an emotional and mental ( as smart as her) levels to the relationship

 

[belividere]

i remmeber when i first created this thead, it was to respond to a thread made by "Weak Game" who posted those videos saying that the videos are proof that looks didnt matter

i almost died laughing

I thought to myself, these vidoes are proof that looks DO matter, because u will not get laid if u are a 3/10 walking up to 8/10s and initiating flirting - they will not flirt back if thats the case, EVER

Yeah I remember when you first made this moronic thread too. I tossed out the idea that I usually end up in Boston every April and we should meet up and go sarge. You of course ignored that. So I'll throw that out there again. I am in the area around the beginning of April. Lets meet up and go sarge at a bar so you can put your money where your mouth is.

By the way, your mouth is huge so I'm expecting a lot to back up your claims.

 

[cyp6]

I agree with you.

 

[cyp6]

fallen33 sup mayn... im in vegas too... pm me.... if you really wanna improve your game 100% get a job near the strip.. the women are soo easy to pick up.. no joke.. im a club promotor for pure management group right now, its the one of the best jobs I have ever had.... hit me up if u need the hook ups to any clubs.

 

[Soprano]

man i thought i sucked at cold approaches..... those chumps make me look like a pimp wit strangers

 

[L777]

Mods delete this s.hite. I'm sick to death of "looks matter" threads.

I mean, here's an equally insightful musing: Night follows day. Great.

 

[skip2mylou781]

Yeah I remember when you first made this moronic thread too. I tossed out the idea that I usually end up in Boston every April and we should meet up and go sarge. You of course ignored that. So I'll throw that out there again. I am in the area around the beginning of April. Lets meet up and go sarge at a bar so you can put your money where your mouth is.

By the way, your mouth is huge so I'm expecting a lot to back up your claims.

i dont meet men online sorry.