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Looks help. They are not the end all, or else, only 1% of the real world would be having sex with 100% of the girls, leaving 99% alone.

Of course, the real world isn't like that. Ugly people fvck. Fat People fvck. Meh-People Fvck. Hot people fvck. It's all dependant on attraction. If a hot person is dead-set in love with a ugly guy, then well, SOL, he wins.
 

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i'll have to take a picture of my drummer sometime. he is the type of guy that if he went to a club he would have no chance in hell with not even the ugly girls. but when he's on stage and he unleashes a drum solo the babes go wild. i have seen him walk out on nights with girls way out of his league. some with boyfriends.

skip, somehow i think your whole looks are everything is flawed. but musicians are in a different league. talent can overshadow looks ten fold.
 

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DOCS - id say realistically, prob 10% of guys (most are hot) end up fckin 90% of the hottest girls.......the other 10% of hot girls get fcked by ugly celebrities, millionaires, and as insanity said - musicians (but musicians are very hard to explain)

i have been to a live band show, and YES i noticed that guys who were relatively average had the hotties jumping and screaming wantin their d1cks.....but rest assured that the hottie will go for the better lookign musician if given the choice!

ANOTHER BIG NOTE:

if u look in the mirror and u say to urself "DAMN i am sooo ****in hot right now" - i ASSURE you that u will be oozing with confidence when u go out, im talkin CRAZY levels of confidence.

your looks give u more confidence when it comes to girls than anythign else.

and hey Docs - fat people and ugly people fvck each other, its called smartly lowering standards lol


ALSO do not forget, some beautiful girls actualyl like things like hairy chests and a lil beer belly, they think its manly, so to THEM a guy like that would be a 9/10 but in all of our eyes, he'd be a 4........so looks is a tricky thing like that, do not forget this!!
 

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skip2mylou781 said:

I stopped reading here because usually if something ends in "period" or "end of story" or something similar it was a bunch of sh1t. Thanks for putting the "period" at the beginning so i didn't have to read the rest.

I do appreciate the misguided confidence in your posting though.
 

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Docs said:
Looks help. They are not the end all, or else, only 1% of the real world would be having sex with 100% of the girls, leaving 99% alone.

Of course, the real world isn't like that. Ugly people fvck. Fat People fvck. Meh-People Fvck. Hot people fvck. It's all dependant on attraction. If a hot person is dead-set in love with a ugly guy, then well, SOL, he wins.
75% of dudes can become hunks if they lose weight, wear trendy attire, workout at the gym, are confident and successful, the other 25% may as well shoot themselves now as they are never going to be able to attract the HB7-10s no matter what they try to do.
Dudes however have it better than the babes in this regard as only 30% of them are hot enough for us to desire to fvck. :yes:
 

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Okay, look, this post marks the end of the looks debate. Period.

LOOKS MATTER MORE THAN ANYTHING IN EVERY SINGLE ASPECT OF WOMEN.

Looks are not just important, but they are 90% of what gets you laid, what gets you a LTR, and also LACK of looks is the reason you get dumped, rejected, and everythign else that most losers here complain about!

Am I pulling this all outta thin air??? **** NO! I am about to provide you with numerous examples from MY OWN EXPERIENCES detailing just how much looks ****ing matter! I will also use a general argument as well.

My examples:

1) My hb9.5 who I was seeing for 3 weeks, who I ****ed after 2 weeks when we rented the hotel. Let me tell you how I ended up ****ing her. I showed up and persisted….thats it……..in fact, I was acting like a total AFC the night I ****ed her, cuz I flipped out at her 5 or 6 times over little things, I showed insecurity, I showed neediness, and I showed desperation. Oh, but heres the missing link – she thinks im just sooo really cute, so of course when I started kissing her on the bed and slowly getting into her pants, she was turned on!! WHY??? NOT CUZ OF MY PERSONALITY, I WAS HORRIBLE THAT NIGHT. I WAS THE BIGGEST CHUMP……….but she LOVED how I looked and how it felt to kiss me and how I was turnin her on, so? We ****ed 3 times that night.

2) another hb9 – just a week ago……..she musta said im handsome and sexy numerous times thruout the evening, this all despite the fact that we were hangin out with her friends, and I was a little chump who didn’t say anythign cuz I felt uncomfortable in front of her friends. What did I do? After an hour of absolutely nothing, I simply took her and tackled her from the living room into the bedroom, and of course cuz she thought im hot, she had no objections – DESPITE MY OBVIOUS LACK OF GAME THAT NIGHT…….i ****ed her REALLY good that night, also 3 times (my magic # I think lol)……..what kept her so interested??? Well lets look at some of the things she told me as we layed in bed naked: “your eyes are so beautiful, I love them”…….”you are soooo sexy”……..”I love kissing u”……..”I love how u touch me” – ALL OF THESE ARE LOOKS RELATED.

Ok enough random hookup examples, how bout some relationship examples?

3) I had 1 gf for 3 months once, I was in my AFC days cuz that was over 3 years ago……..well, she thought I was hot. I supplicated, I got mad easy, I bought her gifts……..did I mention I also ****ed her 2 times every time I saw her. Why? CUZ SHE THOUGTH I WAS HOT…..she really could not say anything else that’s good about me (other than maybe that I was sweet). Did I run game on her? NO. Did I look like the prize? NO (I told her how special she was and how happy I was to have her). Did I **** her all the time simply due to her loving how I looked? YES

4) Gf for 5 months, shes an hb7, pretty cute, and what she said to me on the 1st date was “you are so gorgeous, I cant believe u are even here with me”………from there on out, she ****s on demand whenever I want. All we do is argue and get mad at each other all the time. I don’t consider her that serious, but she LOVES me soooo much, and I attribute most of that to how gorgeous and hot she thinks I am.

Side note: I PERSONALLY do not think I am THAT hot, but in the eyes of some girls, apparently I am.

Ok, enough relationship examples, how bout some INTERNET examples

5-1000) ok well its very simple here…….if a girl thinks ur hot, she will give you her sn, she will give u her number, and she will want to hang out, but if a girl thinks your looks are not good enough for her, then you will have NO chance.

Cold approach examples:

1001 – 1100) yea this is not examples about me, but GENERAL examples: Try going up to 100 girls, I GAURANTEE YOU that every girl that rejects u will be a girl who did not think you were hot//sexy/handsome enough for her time. At the same time, every girl that is warm, open, gives u her #, even gives u a kiss right there on the spot, u better be DAMN sure that she thought u were hot (in her eyes).

Clubs – guess what???? If ur ugly and u want some pvssy at clubs, u arent gonna get anythign over a hb6, so get over it. At the same time, if a beefy sexy guy walks in and tries to talk to an hb9, she will be all googoo gaga with her mouth drueling for some of that hot muscular d1ck (im not kiddign u, this is the COLD HARD TRUTH THAT NONE OF U CAN HANDLE). Yes the non muscular really attractive slim guy also has his chances, but muscle is INSTANT attraction for beautiful women, and hot cute a guy’s face is also plays a key factor.

So then what about personality??? Yea, the hotter u are, the less game/personality u need to land hot chicks. This means that if you are hot AND you got a lovable personality, then u ARE KING – get raedy for the best girls to fall for u, and fall for u fast.

Side note: Money and Fame always ALWAYS help, so that is not an argument against this.



GOD I dunno what more to say about all this. ANYONE can be hot, u need to just

Go to the gym
Work on ur tan
Work on ur clothes
Work on ur hair


Now listen, if YOU feel that u saw some guy who is a 4/10 with some chick whos a 9/10, then let me remind you, THAT particular girl thinks the guy is an 8 or a 9, and because she is satisfied with his looks, that is MOSTLY why she ever gave him a chance with her in the first place.

A hot guy with game is unstoppable!!!!!!!!!!!!!! An ugly guy with game will get 10fold less chicks than a hot guy with game…….HOW CAN ANYONE EVEN ARGUE WITH THAT??? Yes if ur hot and u are a social retard, u will SUCK AT LIFE.

But wtf, u might not know this, but the hotter more attractive men are the ones who naturally get out in the real world and socialize because SUBCONCIOUSLY, they look at themselves, and they want themselves to be known and shown to the world – they subconciously want to SHOW OFF……….at the same time, the ugly guy sits at home and wants to be isolated from the public.

Now don’t ****in call me a keyboard jockey or w.e the **** that is cuz I provided u real life examples of how I got the pvssy solely on looks. Every # u get, every kiss u get, every piece of ass u get – u get it because the girl giving it to u thinks u are GOOD LOOKING ENOUGH FOR HER, or maybe even TOO HOT FOR HER, so she feels the urge to just wanna b all over u.

My advice to all of u, to ALL of you is:

BE AS GOOD LOOKING AS POSSIBLE, THAT IS THE WAY TO THE BEST LOOKING GIRLS (AND I KNOW YOU ALL WANT THOSE HOTTIES THAT U JACK OFF TO EVERY NIGHT)


WHAT now? fruitcakes
Skip u call my posts stupid, so it pains me to agree with u, but yes u r totally correct. I dated a girl maybe a 5.5 for a yr. I acted like a whiny afc guy, always complaining bout my job and people that made me mad etc. etc. i used to tell her all my probs etc. etc. She was obsessed with me tho. She thought i was so hot. Ive seen pics of her ex bf's they were chubby ugly mofos, every one of them. So dating me was like her dream, cuz im maybe a 7-7.5 if everythigns goin right for me, good haircut,tan,clear skin,some muscle. She was dyin to have sex every day. Later on in the relationship i got so lazy i was eating alot, not exercising, my skin got bad again. gained like 17 lbs. And she first stopped wanting to have sex, then she ended it and had no reason for it. Turns out it was another guy(i found out weeks later). But bottom line, it wasnt till ilet myself go that she was not happy to see me anymore and thats prob why she started lookin elsewhere.
 

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The truth comes out.

99% looks and the other 1% how good you are at getting sex with them asap through talk, and "come see my room." stuff.
 

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i have been to a live band show, and YES i noticed that guys who were relatively average had the hotties jumping and screaming wantin their d1cks.....but rest assured that the hottie will go for the better lookign musician if given the choice!
But, they do have the choice. Around them are plenty of hot guys (including yourself). How come the hot girls are all over the ugly guy as compared to a hot guy?

ANOTHER BIG NOTE:

if u look in the mirror and u say to urself "DAMN i am sooo ****in hot right now" - i ASSURE you that u will be oozing with confidence when u go out, im talkin CRAZY levels of confidence.
I know when I look good.

Aside: I was driving out of a store onto the road..and I had to stop for traffic, and this truck passed by, and this girl riding shotty just stared.....and stared at me. I wasn't wearing anything special, and I was in my mediore car. Kinda gave me a chuckle.


your looks give u more confidence when it comes to girls than anythign else.Personally, I get confidence from doing something for myself and being in a good mood.

and hey Docs - fat people and ugly people fvck each other, its called smartly lowering standards lol
But..again...hot chick...ugly/fat guy...happens.

ALSO do not forget, some beautiful girls actualyl like things like hairy chests and a lil beer belly, they think its manly, so to THEM a guy like that would be a 9/10 but in all of our eyes, he'd be a 4........so looks is a tricky thing like that, do not forget this!!
Well aren't I lucky. I haven't shaved in a few days and I have a little lump. I must be considered hot. No possible other way around it. :|, They don't find that stuff out until you're going to ride them in the back seat.
Ps. DJinTraining06, please..snip your quotes if you're going to comment on the bottom...or post inline like I did above. Makes life easier. Merci.
Example said:
Okay, look, this post marks the end of...<snip>... WHAT now? fruitcakes
 

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im here to get some laugh!!! haheahe.. its so funny to see what other people is writing;) !!! somone here are my favourite humor characters.. they just make my day bettter;D some people think they are sooooo ****ING GOOD AT DJing.. but in fact they are just ****ing losers! !
 

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Looks are the only thing that matters when dealing with women who are shallow and base their existance on what's superficial. Anyone who chooses to sarge these women should pe prepared constantly compare themselves to other guys to see how they stand up since these women are doing this themselves. Once they find someone more attractive, there's a good chance that they will move on since things like personality has less interest to them.
 

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Clubs – guess what???? If ur ugly and u want some pvssy at clubs, u arent gonna get anythign over a hb6, so get over it
DISSAGREEEEEE

You dont need to have the BEST OF THE best looks? ugs can get some NICE LOOKING girls too???!! GIRLS ARE JUST AFTER ONETHING AND THAT IS SEX;D
i fixed a NIIIIIICE SMOOOTH GIRL to my m8, he is ugly ass hell but i got laid ;D
i was angry on my seelf that i didnt took here:p anyway he got laid;D.. BUT if ur after a RELATIONSHIP and ur ugly you can just forget it! cuz no one want a ugly guy to be their BF
 

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Bull****, bull**** and once again buuuuuuull****.

As usually, you are making assumptions based on your own subjective point of view (with stress on the subjective). Most of us don't date horny Myspace sluts who would **** anything with a ****, you know?

Confidence gets you the girl. It just happens to be so that handsome guys are usually the most confident ones.

I know guys who are successful with women and you know what? All of them are above-average confident. Those who aren't successful are usually quite shy with no social skills. I am sure most of the guys on this forum have similar experience.

I am not going to take part in this discussion anymore. There has been thousands of threads about this and all of them were useless, only making us argue. So please, stop spamming us with your "It happened to me, so it must be truth & I know it all" posts and post something useful for a change.

Thank you
 

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I call myself average, yet I can pull some DDSexy biatchs. My best man has a fiance though me, and I got this really cute sweetheart for myself.

Point is, you just need to pass the 'cute' level and it's easy. Below that...you have to try about 4x harder and have dead on game.

Effort Level
Fat = 64 *you better be pimp, or know 100% how to talk the walk*
Ugly = 16 *hard game*
Cute = 4 *a little bit of trying*
SSHot = 1 *just look at me biatchesss!!!*

Meh.

PS. arlanda, you chose to argue.
 

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Why doesn't everyone who believes that looks are the only thing that matters just leave this website. Being here is not helping you look better.
 

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get the Fvck outta here wit' that!!!!!!
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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belividere said:
Why doesn't everyone who believes that looks are the only thing that matters just leave this website. Being here is not helping you look better.
Good question. Also when did one persons expereince suddenly amount to fact.

If all you've got going for yourself is looks then of course looks will matter most.
 

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IF UR AFTER SEX??? then THE LOOK DOESNT MATTER SO.. BUT if ur after a serious RELATIONship then u can just **** off!
 

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Looks only matter to girls who'd leave you when the next, prettier guy comes along.

D'you really want to go for that sort of girl?
 

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whoa.. hold on...

What kind of looks are we talking about here? Just cute guy or freakin' supermodel hunk?

If you have looks the gals will try to talk to you so they can LET YOU TRY TO ATTRACT THEM, but if and when they realize you have no inner-game, or don't have an attractive personality the attraction WILL fade. And trust me when I was an AFC this happened all the time b/c I was to shy to make a move.

Mystery says girls are attracted 80% survival value and 20% reproductive value...

How F*cking dare you say game doesn't matter!.. how f*cking dare you. :kick:
 

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belividere said:
Why doesn't everyone who believes that looks are the only thing that matters just leave this website. Being here is not helping you look better.
FVCKIN' A!!! :up:
 
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