Journal - Approaches on street, at mall, etc.

[Mindgamez]

Best approach, yeah!
How to end the day greatly? After 2 bad rejections? Approached a set of 2 again. One HB6, and one HB9. She was GORGEOUS holy damn.
I walk up to them from behind.
Me : Heey!
They look at me. I lock eye contact with HB9. Her eyes were gorgeous. I didn't resist the feeling of attraction.
Me : I know this is pretty random, but I though that you girls were cute and I had to come and say hi.
I couldn't resist smiling, same goes for both of them. They say thank you.
Me : I'd like to shake your hands, but you're carrying stuff!
HB6 : Your brother will be jealous! (didn't really hear it)
HB9 : Oh alright, wait a second!
She hands out her drink and cookies to HB6. HB9 laughs her ass off, kind of in a surprised happy way. I shake hands with HB9 firmly, then I let my fingers slide a bit on her hand very slowly. I didn't even think about it and it happened naturally. I was just so attracted.
Me : Mindgamez.
HB9 : _______!
Me : Hello HB9. So, what were you guys doing?
They told me they were shopping, they went to eat something and stuff.
Me : Ohh alright that's fun. You look like a very good girl (totally random!). Is she the kind of good girl or is she more on the crazy side?
HB9 giggles.
HB6 : Well, she's actually crazy when she's drunk.
Me : With her phone?
They correct me. (In French, the words cellphone and drunk sound similar)
Me : Ohhh alright! I though that she was crazy at sexting and stuff? Like sexting?
HB9 laughs pretty hard. HB6 goes like : Ohhh wow haha.
HB6 : My brother will be jealous!
Me : What's with your brother?
HB6 : My brother is her boyfriend!
Me : Ohhh really? Well, tell your brother that he's really awesome.
They both giggle again. I talk to HB9.
Me : And you know, if you're down for a threesome with him, me and you, well that would be great!
HB9 laughs even harder, HB6 also laughs. Reactions were fantastic.
Me : I was just kidding! Have a nice day!
Them : Goodbye!

DAMN SHE WAS HOT. Holy ****, I could've pursued even more, but she had a boyfriend. I could've tried something anyway, be friends with them at least. Yeah I could've done that!
So it was time to go home. I shake hands with feelx. We were very proud of our achievements, and feelx told me that he felt like he has progressed a lot since last time.
So we head out separate ways.

In the subway, I see this pretty HB8 sitting in the metro by herself.
I hesitate a bit, so I stand next to her and keep listening to my music.
I'm then like : NOO! You have to do it by yourself man. It will be your first time doing it by yourself. Come on come on, you won't regret it for sure!
So gently touch her shoulder, and we interact. I used lot more statements and less questions.
I told her that she had a sexy accent and a pretty name. I like approaching in the subway, because since it's loud, you have to talk to very close proximity, almost like in a loud club.
She was a tourist from France. Man, like half of the girls I approached were tourists! Lol, doesn't matter. That's why I didn't close for most of them.

What's coming up next
Tomorrow's Saturday. On Saturdays, malls are pretty much crowded! Good opportunity to go approach some girls, right?
I'll go to the mall. BY MYSELF this time! No excuses. I can do it alone. I did it once today right? No big deal!
And Sunday, I'm going out with a couple of friends, guys and girls, and we're going to do some lazertag. I might do some approaches on the way there.

PERSISTENCE MAN, PERSISTENCE. I won't stop doing it. After this summer, I'll be totally transformed.

 

[LearningSlowly]

Youre such a beast. And you have a steady list of wings. Will be joining the Simple Pick up forums tonight and finding my own wings for the coming weeks.

You used to be the baby of the forum, so motivated but not actually doing much. Now youre a monster with the best cold approaches. All you've gotta do is start asking for numbers, even if you think theres no chance.

 

[Mindgamez]

This comment means a lot Learning. I really appreciate it.
I've done so much these days and it's true that I used to do so little back in the day. I love ya bro.

Sunday, July 15th
6 Direct approaches (mistake in video). 1 Number close, on the first approach of the day!

So I woke up this morning,
And failed the No Fap challenge, AGAIN! After 6 days, I failed after a lot of edging. I edged for like an hour the night before, and then the morning again. Damn, this is not easy... I'll aim 3 weeks for now, which means 21 days.
I watched the video series called Your Brain On Porn. Guys, go watch it it's on Youtube! What's so stupid is that I still masturbated after I watched the videos. So retarded... But whatever.
I told myself that the fact that I failed the challenge won't affect the fact that I'm still going to approach. I'll go through anyway.

So I meet up with Sex_is_good from the forum at the mall. We start off by sitting down and talking a bit about pick up.
He watches RSD stuff too! That's why I connected better with him because we have a similar mindset and way of seeing things, unlike the other wings I had.
Screw indirect man, I think that I'll never do that! Not my style.
So yeah, we left the table and we started walking around. We passed by many opportunities, and we just waited and waited. Nothing happened for a little while!
So I see those two pretty girls entering a store. I tell my wing that I'll approach them when they'll get out. When they do, I ***** out again!
So we keep walking around a bit more...
We were talking about pick up and stuff, and then I see those same two girls from before. They were sitting on a bench. I don't let my wing finish his sentence and I already go and approach.
HB8.5 and HB6. HB6 rolled eyes sometimes and looked uninterested.

HERE'S THE APPROACH WITH AUDIO! I believe it's one of my best ones yet. What do you guys think?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_-rBQDTVVO8&feature=youtu.be

After that approach. I give the only 20 bucks I have in my walled to my wing. I tell him to keep it if I don't do at least 5 approaches today. If I don't get my 20 bucks back, I don't have anything to eat and I'll be starving badly!!

So we go outside.
I see this beautiful HB8.5 walking in opposite direction, a little further. We pass her, and then I decide to approach her anyway.
I do the usual I though that you were beautiful opener. She smiles, but kept walking.
I decided to stop walking and stand my ground, and she stopped too.
Asked her what she was doing. She was going to work. I tell her have a nice day, I eject.

So I see a good looking girl.
I approach her.
Me : Hey excuse me
She turns her back
Me : I know this is pretty random...
I realize that she's older and doesn't look as good as I though!
Me : ...Wait! Aren't you Roberta?!
She : No haha
Me : Oh alright, sorry! Goodbye!
She : Bye!
Hahaha! I love using that line when I gave to eject! That's so funny. Almost nobody in the world is named Roberta so I'm safe with that.

I see a set of 3. HB7.5, HB7, HB6.
The prettiest is always the most responsive!
Me : Hey. I know this is random, but I though that you guys were cute and I had to come and say hi.
HB7.5 : Ohhh thank you!
Me : How's it going?
HB7.5 : Good, you? (She used the polite version of *you* in French, used for an older looking person, which also means *you* in plural)
Me : What!
HB7.5 : No but I though that...
Me : Do I look that old?
HB7.5 : No but I though that you were with that guy!
Me : Okay, oh yeah yeah he's on the phone that's why.
Me : Anyway, how old do I look like.
They think and conclude I look like 17-18.
Me : Yeah, I'm 17. Before seeming like a pedo, how old are you guys?
HB7.5 : 15.
Me : 15? You girls all 15?
HB7.5 : No.
Me : You look younger right?
I point HB7.
Me : 14!
HB7 : No XD
Me : 13!
HB7 : Yes
HB7.5 : It's my sister.
Me : Oh it's your sister? Wait...
I take both of their shoulders and bring the two girls close to each other. I conclude that they kind of look alike.
Me : Yeah she had bigger eyes, didn't notice though.
HB7.5 : Yeah
Me : So what were you doing like that?
Blablabla, they told me they went to some place with animals and stuff (called biodome)
(I don't remember which girl) : Alright we have to eat, we gotta go.
Me : You look like a good girl. Are you a good girl?
HB7.5 : Why?
Me : Because... that's what I like
HB7.5 : Ohhh! Yeah... No well... I'm mean
Me : No? Okay you're meaner like?
HB6 : Okay we gotta go (**** BLOOCK! She didn't smile during the whole interaction and had that *****y face. Ew.)
HB7.5 : Yeah we gotta go sorry
Me : Hey, a little hug?
She hesitates a couple seconds, then she comes near. I deny her and I just walk away LOL. I felt like such a ***** after that... Why did I do that?

I see an asian girl carrying some clothes on some stand. She was working at the shop. HB8
I did the usual I though you were cute opener. I then ran out of things to say and stayed here awkwardly while she was trying to move the stands on wheels.
I suggested to help her but she told me that she was fine. She kindly told me that she's busy and it's not that she doesn't want to talk to me. I then eject and tell her good luck.

I see a pretty girl walking by herself. I approach, but it turns out that she was an HB7. I still go.
Me : I know that it's random, but I just though that you were beautiful and I wanted to come and say hi.
Surprised, she kind of jumps a bit and continues walking. I stand still.
Her : Oh, thanks a lot. Have a nice day, bye! *she was smiling a bit*
Me : Why you leaving?
Me (screaming) : Is that how you take a compliment??
Hahaha, I knew that people were watching but hey, it was funny.

So we meet up with my friends, N and the guy that encouraged me to pickup at the amusement park. He's pretty ****ing awesome (let's call him Y)
So I introduce them to Sex_is_good, we talk a bit and we go walk on the streets.
In the store, I miss some GOLDEN opportunity. The girl was a freaking HB9.2 and I skipped her. She was with her dad though, but I could've tried.
My friend N has such a negative outlook on picking up girls. He told me to go pick up some girl HB6, and I told him that she's not pretty enough and she had NO boobs.
He went like : SO WHAT? It's not the boobs man, but the face!
Me : Everybody has his own tastes. I like girls with nice boobs.
Him : You'll never have a girlfriend like that. All you want is a perfect girl and it's way too hard to get!
I look at my wing, and I smile. I knew that N's mindset was total bull****.
Me : I have high standards, and your standards are way too low.
Sex_is_good smiled a bit at this part. N got a little mad and he told me more ****.
My friends can't keep up with my progress. **** his mindset. That's why I don't feel in the mood to pick up girls when he's around. Getting influenced too much! He's still a very nice buddy, but when it comes to girls he doesn't know ****. I told him that he has no idea of what he's talking about. He told me that hot girls only date douchebags.

So later in the Subway, I see that gorgeous HB8.5, I'd even say HB9.
I then go : Ouuuuhh!
I poke Sex_is_good. I tell him that he should go and approach.
So he looks at her, and she does a *no* with her head as they eye contact. He told me that it's not a good sign and he doesn't go. I tell him that I'll be going.
So I wait like a couple seconds, just to relax a bit. I'd say even a minute or two.
I look at her, lock eye contact for 2 seconds. She breaks it and her eyes go down. She was checking me out.
Then I realize that we're getting off the subway very soon. So I sit next to her, with a nice genuine smile.

Me : I know this is random
She looks at me, big smile. I tell her to remove her earphones.à
Her : (not sure what she said. Either hello, or thank you?)
Me : I just though that you were really beautiful.
Her : Oh thank you!
Me : So, how's it going?
Her : Good you?
Me : Good.
My friend randomly pops up and says that! : Hello pretty woman, you're really hot! Blabla I don't remember it all but it was ballsy stuff. He wasn't serious though!
Me : What were you doing like that?
Her : I don't know, blabla.
Me : You look like some good girl. Are you a good girl?
Her : Well, I don't know really. I don't think so XD
We laugh a bit. She gave a lot of IOIs.
NO! We arrive at destination and we have to leave. The subway only stops for like 20 seconds and it leaves again. So we really had to leave.
Me : Alright I have to go now.
Her : Oh really? (disappointed)
Me : Alright, have a nice evening!
Her : Goodbye!

DAMN I could've gotten that girl's number. She had fantastic legs and great boobies. Cute face.

So I know now what I'll do next!
When golden opportunities come, I must take them IMMEDIATELY, because the more I wait, the less time I have left and I risk the chance of not being able to approach at all.
It happened to often to me to tell myself : Oh... I'll just wait for her to get out the store. Once she does, she leaves full speed and I can't catch up!
Happens all the time.
There's no perfect time, but now!
NOW TO APPROACH! Not 10 minutes from now, or 10 seconds from now. But RIGHT NOW.

Reference experiences.

So I texted, at 9:50 PM, the girl I number closed with this. No response yet!

Number has to be stored with care.
Mindgamez

What's coming up next
In two days, going to the amusement park again.
I'll be going with N and Y, maybe more buddies. We'll see!
I WILL approach girls this is absolutely sure. I'm really starting to love pick up these days. It's amazing how I progress and I'm really proud of my achievements.

 

[Mindgamez]

Tuesday, July 17th

So I woke up this afternoon,
Pretty excited. I was going to the amusement park today! Though, I felt a little tired because I slept very late the day before. My friend came over to sleep over.

So I get ready to go out, and at like 3:30 PM I get out the house after I took the time to make myself look my best. I was mentally prepared for this!
So then, my friend N texts me that he won't be going to the amusement park... I was mad because he told me at the last moment while I was already on my way there. DUDE... And this meant that this other dude wasn't coming either. So my other friend tells me that it's going to rain and that he doesn't feel like going there. I tell him to go anyway, because I'm already on my way. He's like : You'll tell me if it rains or not

WTF!!! I was very disappointed right here. I texted my best friend (friend I used to do approaches with back in the day. Too bad he doesn't want to do them anymore). He invited to come over. (let's call him C)
On my way there, I stopped at the mall to go eat something. I passed by some cute girls, and I lost my mood so I didn't feel like approaching at all. I did none.

So I worked out for my first time at the gym with my best friend that evening. The thing I don't get is that guys want to work out only to look good. Why do they want to look good? TO ATTRACT ****ING WOMEN, RIGHT? And they're willing to spend hours working out but can't take 10 minutes to actually go do an approach. Society tell us that you must have muscles to be good looking.
Whatever. I still want to work out because looking and feeling good within your own body is a cool bonus.

My best friend reminded me of how shy I used to be, my old chody days. He assumed that I was still that shy asian kid. We used to spend hours together gaming like crazy, talking about that one girl we liked, etc. And his brother, guy that I used to love playing video games with, didn't change since last time. He even became worse and became hardcore geek. I can't relate to him anymore. I told my best friend about pick up, and the brother comes and listen to our conversation. He tells me that I'll never succeed or get a girlfriend doing that as he laughs.

Thing is, he never tried it himself and all he does is sit as his computer all day.

I still got affected by it because he's a childhood friend. It's crazy how even your best friends can pull you down somehow. C though that I was such a boss when he listened to my approaches, but he still though that I appeared as some kind of pedo perv on the streets.

By the way, the number I got the 15th, the one on the video, was a flake. DUDE! I keep getting these it's getting quite annoying I'm not gonna lie.
Too bad. I'll keep approaching anyway.

What's coming up next
Going to the amusement park today, FOR REAL. It's sunny this time!
I'll approach a lot today. Too bad what my friends will think of me. I'm way too worried about their approval. I can't blame them though. They aren't used to this change and it's natural for everyone to resist change. I myself do it a lot, but I'm working on it. My friends don't see that in their reality.

If I were that chode from back in the day and one of my friends told me that he wanted to hit on random girls, I'd probably laugh my ass off, even pull him down. Chodes want more people to be chodes so they feel like they aren't alone and they can reinforce their existing reality that it's not possible to get dates with random girls.
It's not their fault. I accept that.

I'm going through the pain period. It's the initial period where you only get blown outs and you still have to get yourself going. I might be progressing a lot, but at the same time, I still have a lot to improve upon.
I just though about it. Success may occur after another 30 approaches, or it may occur with my next approach. No matter how close I am to success, nobody and nothing will tell me! So I have to keep going. It's like somebody tells you to walk a straight line blindfolded and at the end of the road there's 1 trillion $. He won't tell you how much you have to walk though. It may take you 10 seconds to get there, or 10 hours, but you'll eventually get there.

 

[LearningSlowly]

I told my best friend about pick up, and the brother comes and listen to our conversation. He tells me that I'll never succeed or get a girlfriend doing that as he laughs.

Did you show him the numbers youve gotten? Undeniable proof.

What conversation led to this girl flaking? Show it. Or did she not reply at all?

 

[Mindgamez]

Yeah I showed him the numbers, but most of them were flakes so there was no point anyway.

She didn't reply at all. Convo went like this :

Number has to be stored with care.
Mindgamez

2 days later :
How's it going my pretty *name*? And I founded what's your mission on earth, you'll love it (relating to our previous conversation)

I was about to text something I find funny like :
Your mission on earth is to conceive human beings and it will be a pleasure for me to help you.
But I decided to wait for her reply first, which never happened.

 

[Mindgamez]

About yesterday,
Didn't go to the amusement park either... My friend cancelled again because he had to babysit his brother. At the last minute AGAIN. So I went to N's house, and we played video games the whole time. I pussied out from approaching in the bus and subway on my way back home.

Thursday, July 19th
7 Approaches, mostly rejections or I ejected. THOUGH, I feel closer to that I don't give a damn mindset.

So I woke up this morning,
Not really sure about whenever or not I was going to approach or not today. I waited for my wing to respond to my text. He did a little late, but that's fine and we still met at 2:30 PM.

So the first hour, we sat down to talk about pick up a bit and we walked around, *****ing out and *****ing out. When it's been 2-3 days not approaching, I feel like I've lost a lot of momentum!
So I go into that shoe store. I see 2 good looking girls but I don't go for it.
I wait.
Then, there's 2 other girls coming. I hesitate about approaching. HB8-HB7.5
I decide to walk off the shoe store. I then went like : WAIT, you have to do it man. What's the point in waiting?
OKAY JUST GO. You've done it like 40 times before, what's the big deal?
So I walked up to them, not giving myself any excuses.

Me : I know this is pretty random, but I just though that you were really beautiful and I had to come and meet you guys.
So HB8 kinds of look away while saying thanks. I kept the conversation going a bit.
I commented them on their piercings and made a statement about them being bad girls.
They were holding hands, so I asked them if there was anything going on between the two of them, just joking around.
She told me that I was single. I was like : Oh that's great! I'm also single and I'm interested at getting a girlfriend.
I said it with a little hesitation, but it was enough to put me off guard.
HB7.5 (girl I wasn't even talking to) made a repelled facial expression and this made me go nuts. I wasn't in state!
For some reason, I went a little crazy and I just told them : Oh actually, I was just kidding. Goodbye!
Escaped as soon as I could. I wasn't feeling good after this one. WHY THE HELL?

Next girl was sitting at a table, eating. HB7.5
So I saw her from the side, she seemed my age from far away. I approach.
Me : Hey, I know this is pretty random,
I notice that she actually looked older than I though, but still could possibly be around 20 or 22 years old.
Me : but I though that you were pretty cute and I had to come and say hi.
She says thank you, smiles a bit and goes back to her meal. I ask her about how old she is.
She was.
30 YEARS OLD!
LOL WHAT THE HELL!
So I eject, telling her that I'm 22 and that I though that she was a lot younger.
My wing laughs at the situation too.

So I see those 2 asian girls in the video game store. HB7 and HB8. HB7 seemed less confident and HB8 was the only one holding the conversation.
Me : *similar line as previously*
HB7 has this anxious look on her face, and HB8 says thanks, feeling a little awkward and trying to evade with her eyes looking around.
Me : You guys are shy, right?
HB8 : Yeah
They kind of walk away, turning their backs to me. At this point, I was like YO! This ain't because of me, it's just because they are shy, not used to that stuff and close-minded to this kind of thing. DUDE in no way that's your fault! So I told myself : Let's just have fun on this one, see how long you can keep up with this.
They were looking at various caps.
Me : YEAH! You guys buying caps? Yeah yeah! Go get the Sonic cap, it's pretty epic!
They weren't even looking at me at this point.
Me : Well, have a nice day! Because you don't seem really open to me, right? Do you have a boyfriend?
HB8 : Yes
Me : Well, if you want a second boyfriend! Hah, just kidding.
Me : You girls are Chinese right?
HB8 : Yes
Me : Oh yeah, I'm Cambodian.
So I eject, tell them goodbye. HB7 didn't say a word. Her body language was in very shy mode.
So I go up to my wing again, tell him how I don't like asian girls.

This one I felt less confident. Listening to my audio again, I realized that I was speaking a little too fast, and my energy was a little too high because of nervousness. I was reacting too much!
It felt weird listening to this again. The feeling of awkwardness came back.
Set of 2 girls sitting at a table. HB8s.
Me : *similar line as before, but in French. Realize that they speak English so I say it again in English*
The girl I was talking to did the same Thank you as my previous approaches. She kind of looked away when I said it.
Me : How's it going?
Them : Good
Me : You seem surprised, like you're not used to this, right?
Blabla
Me : You guys seem awkward with this. Like, I see you looking around like *then I imitate her response in an exaggerated way*
Listening to the audio again, I noticed that often I kept talking over them without realizing it. I was saying stuff left and right, not really listening to what they were saying sometimes.
Me : You have a boyfriend?
Girl : No
Me : Well, that's fine! You can have a second boyfriend, blabla
Girl : Sure
Me : Oh, you said sure?
The girl laughed a bit, saying nohohoho. I tell them that I was just fooling around with them and then I eject. I didn't really talk to the other HB8.

So later when I'm ordering food, I see them again. I felt a lot more confident right there though. I built a little momentum.
At the beginning of the day though, it didn't really feel like momentum. It felt like the opposite! Like the more blown outs I got, the more I retreated into my mind, which is bad. At some point, I just reached the indifference threshold.
So I ask them if they're sisters, and they actually were. Talked a bit. The older one was 18, and I told her that it's perfect and that It could work out. She looked at me weird, I kept my cool, smiled more, and told her to have a nice day.

This one, I hesitated a bit. My wing just went like : YO, go anyway man, no excuses!
Dude, that's right.
HB8.5 and HB7.5. The HB8.5 looked a little too old, so I went for the other girl.
So I walked to them, feeling a lot calmer than before.
Me : *the usual I though you guys were cute line*
Them : Oh thank you!
The girls seemed more receptive than my previous approaches.
Me : How's it going?
HB8.5 : Good you?
Me : Yeah. Are you guys from the same family.
HB8.5 : Yeah we are sisters
Me : Ohh okay. You must be the younger one, right?
HB7.5 : Yeah
Me : You must be like 16, 17?
HB7.5 : No
Me : How old?
HB7.5 : I'm 14
Me : 14?! And you are how old?
HB8.5 : 21
Me : 21?! Ohhh daamnnn. I'm 17 XD
They laugh
HB8.5 : Hahaha! Too old and too young, sorry about that. Thanks for coming over and saying hi though!
Me : Well, have a nice day and enjoy your time!
HB8.5 : Have a nice day.

So I see 2 more asian girls. HB7.5s standing still at the food court.
Me : *similar I though you guys were cute line*
I don't really remember how it went, but I felt a LOT less outcome dependant on that one. I didn't care about whenever it would fail or succeed.
One looked at me weird, the other one was just shy. I though again like, DUDE! They can't even take a compliment and smile a little bit? What kind of not polite and negative girl is that?
So I still kept the conversation going. I then ejected and told to my wing that was like 4 meters further : Damn *****es! Dude, asian girls!

So I'm starting to associate asian girls with being very close-minded, shy, or not open to strangers.

So you know what? ANOTHER ASIAN GIRL! WOOHOO!
At the moment, I didn't care really that she was asian. I just approached. This one, I kept the playful vibe the whole time.
So I see that HB8 sitting down by herself. She seemed very bored.
Me : I know that this is random,
She looks at me, no expression on her face. I tell her with a smile to remove her earphones. She does, expression of boredom. I saw other people around me, they probably knew what I was doing.
I sat down at this part, leaving like 1.5 feet of distance between me and her. I have this kind of belief that asian girls are a LOT more shy and conservative.
Me : I know this is random, but I though that you were beautiful and I had to come and say hi.
She smiled I think, but from the recording I can't tell if she said anything or not! Boring unattractive facial expression again. She goes back to her cellphone.
Me : You must be latina, right?
Her : No
Me : Asian
She nodded yes
Me : Yeah with your eyes, asian. Chinese? Vietnamese?
Her : Yeah, but I speak French.
Me : Yeah obviously.
Me : So what were you doing like that, you seemed kind of bored?
Her : I'm waiting for my brother.
Me : Oh I see.
Little 5 seconds pause. I was going blank, so I said my usual random line.
Me : So, you seem like a good girl. Are you more of a good girl or you're more like flirty sexting?
Her : No, I actually have a boyfriend.
Me : You have a boyfriend?
Her : Yeah.
Me : Well me too I have a girlfriend.
Nothing changed in her expression.
Me : Ahhh just kidding! ahaha... Ahh... well, if you want a second boyfriend, well!
She kept her ugly face.
Me : Anyway, have fun! And I know that when I'm talking and you're looking at your phone it means that you aren't interested, right? Now, you like, try to tell me indirectly to go, so you check your cellphone and stuff. Hahaha.
She nodded yes. DUDE, SUCH A *****! What she should've done to be polite is disagree with what I was saying. She just kept that face.
Me : Oh I knew that, I'm so good at this. Good day!
I left. Dude I'm starting to HATE asian girls, what the hell!

 

[Mindgamez]

A set of two asian girls, HB7.5 of HB8s, can't remember. They were standing still at the mall. I approach them from behind. Confidence level was pretty alright, not feeling so nervous.
Me : I know this is pretty random
I walk up in front of them facing them,
Me : But I though that you girls were beautiful and I had to come and say hi.
The girl on the right (girl 2) looks anxious, awkward. Though, the other one smiled.
SILENCE!
Me : How's it going?
Girl 2 : Yeah?
Me : Yeah. You girls are asian, right?
Girl 1 : Yeah.
Blabla, ends up that they were English, but I kept talking in French. I had nothing else to say.
SILENCE OF 6 SECONDS! That was very funny, made on purpose.
Me : I love awkwardness! You know, I like to like, talk to people and be awkward. But like, people are never comfortable with that.
They kept their awkward faces.
Me : Especially her!
Girl 2 that had a weird look on her face started laughing, finally.
Me : Are you just shy? Or are you just
Girl 2 : No. You really look like someone I know that's why.
Me : Oh really? Oh, that's nice. You though that I was that person?
Girl 2 : Yeah, from far!
Me : Ohh! Haha, what is this guy doing?
I laugh a bit
Me : So anyway, you guys have a nice day. Enjoy your time.
I felt like a boss right here. I kept nodding with my head, staying still. They stayed still also. Maybe I could've pushed things further! Girl 1 was hot and she seemed receptive.
Big silence again, made on purpose.
Girl 2 (does the peace sign after she punched her chest a bit) : Peace unicorn!
I didn't hear unicorn until I listened to the recording again. I just made the peace sign with both my hands like a boss, they left and I stayed still for 3 seconds to enjoy my own epicness.

Conclusion
Moral of the story? Asian girls WHAT THE HELL! I never had that many rejections in that little time, and the truth is that with the approaches I was feeling pretty confident, I did bad.
Other days, I'd have my confidence twice as low and I'd have reactions that are twice as better!
I'm either unlucky, or my confidence scared them, or they're just afraid of strangers. I can't blame it on myself man, rejections are not always because of me, but often because of themselves!
Anyway, I'm starting to feel closer and closer to the indifference threshold. It's the point when you feel indifferent about the outcome because you've went through so many approaches that you don't care about what other people think of you. It's like, I just feel more awesome when I get a rejection but I still keep going and trolling the girl anyway. I did that today, it was funny!
Truth is, with every rejection or mistake, I always learn something from it. Always!
This is what's so interesting about all of this. My next approach my end up getting the date, or it might not. It might be the 30th approach, like it could be the next one. No matter how close or far I am from success, there's no way I can really guess.
But hey, haven't I progressed a lot since the beginning? I'm extremely proud of my achievements. I read social cues a LOT better than before. I can call her up on her behaviours, tell about how she's feeling. I see it in their eyes, in their facial expressions, in their voice.

On my way back home, I see that good buddy I met at the talent show. Remember my old post from back in the day? The day I breakdanced after a classic piano performance in front of 600 people? This was the day I was into abundant social mode and talking to the popular guys and girls left and right, up and down. He reminded me of all the good things I've managed to accomplish during that 4 days trip. He was so happy to see me, and his happiness was contagious. I felt happy too and he was down to hang out sometimes again.
Dude, I have to hang out with high status people, people that have a positive and playful outlook on life. I feel like I relate to them more than I do with my other friends, and I've known this guy in like 4 days only... He simply has such a good vibe about him, it's incredible.

What's coming up next
Going to do some daygame (more like evening game) with Sex_is_good tomorrow. We'll be at the mall and on the crowded streets doing some approaches.
Though, tomorrow afternoon I'll be working on myself a bit. I'll stay home and try to write that movie script I always wanted to write. I have to do productive things other than playing video games when I'm not doing pick up! I have to pursue my passions. Oh, and there's also music.

I encourage you guys to do the same. Do something else than pick up if that's the only thing you do! Dance, Sports, Work out, Write, Read, Music. Do something creative that explores your creative side.

 

[Mindgamez]

Friday, July 20th
10 Approaches, 1 Number close. Successful, not a flake this time!

So yeah,
Met with Sex_is_good yesterday afternoon. We gamed a total of 4 hours 15 minutes. That's a lot of time!

I kept *****ing out the first hour. He managed to do 2 approaches when I was still hesitating.
He gave me 80 bucks and told me that he'll do 8 approaches and I can keep the money if he doesn't. I gave him 20 bucks and told him the same.

So we were walking in the mall. I see that HB7.5 asian girl walking by herself. My wing was talking to me, but then I just ejected from him after I sweared a little, telling myself that I have no damn excuses! So I went in.
The girl wasn't actually that pretty from close. Doesn't matter.
I do the usual I though you were cute opener.
She smiles happily, and she was more receptive than the other asian girls I approached!
It's weird. I'm starting to wonder if it's my confidence that might have scared them away previously. I was definitely a little more nervous on this one since it was my 1st of the day.
She had to work and she ejected after like 40 seconds.

We go in the bookstore. I hesitate a bit for this one because she wasn't as pretty, and she was buying some coffee. I told my wing that I'd go once she's done buying.
So I go! HB7 and a 3.
Me : I know it's random, but...
Realize that she didn't notice me
Me : Hey! I know this is random, but I though that you were kind of cute and I wanted to come and say hi.
She looks away, smiles shyly.
Me : Is that how you take a compliment?
Ugly girl laughs
Me : Hey, when a guy gives you a compliment, you have to say : Awww Thank youu! and you smile full of joy! But you, what you do is that you walk away and you don't say anything. You know?
They walk away.
Me : Farewell!
They look at me smiling.
Me : No no! *hand gesture to tell them to leave* No no!

VERY FUNNY ONE! LOL!
HB8 and HB7
We were walking on the streets and I see them walking opposite direction. I stop and wait for them to cross the street. I open
Me : (In French) I know this is pretty random, but you are beautiful and I wanted to say hi.
Them : Huuh? *HB8 frowns eyebrows*
Me : You speak French or English?
HB7 : Yeah, both. We speak Russian.
Me : You speak Russian?!
HB7 : NO both! Whatever...
Me : Oh you speak French! Well... (goes in French) When someone tells you a compliment
HB8 : Yeah?
Me : You gotta take it well you shouldn't go like *imitating her previous reaction*.
HB8 : I didn't understand
Me : Oh I told you that you're pretty and I wanted to tell you hi!
They both smile and go thank you, looking at each other.
HB8 : Lol, hello! (she literally said lol)
Me : So, how's it going in that beautiful sunny day?
HB8 : It's going good.
Me : It's going good? ME TOO IT'S GOING GOOOOOOD! *I punch in the air, wtf*
They both laugh. I'm into I don't give a **** mode right now!
Me : Yeah, so what's your favorite kind of pie?
Said it very seriously, anticipated them to laugh as they did.
HB8 : What?
Me : What's your favorite kind of pie! Because, for your birthday, I can buy you a pie you know? And then like, if you like strawberry pie I can buy you a strawberry pie
They laugh more.
One of the girl mumbles while laughing : What's wrrronnnnnggg...
Me : Y'know! Cauz I work at a pie store so yeah
HB7 : Ok!
HB8 : Ohhh a pie! A butterfly pie!
Me : Pie... What's that what's that?! Do you guys like creampie?
HB8 : Oh yeah! American pie?
Me : Nooo, creampie!
HB8 : Oh yeah
Me : You know what it is?
HB8 : Yeah I know what it is
Me : Okay, okay. You'll go on Google image, and then you'll type up creampie. But do not go into the porno section! Go check the food section, and that's it. Is that good?
They were laughing again
HB8 : It's good!
Blabla
Me : How old are you guys? Before I look like a pedo.
HB7 : You, how old are you?
Me : I hold do I look like?
HB8 : 1 year old?
Me : 1? *lolololololol* You are?
HB7 : We are 15.
Me : 15? Not bad I'm 17, I'm not that much of a pedo
HB8 : Yeah
Me : Your names are?
HB8 : *name* *then bursts out laughing really loud*...
Me : *repeats name*?!
HB7 : *name*
Me : Okay HB8 and HB7. My name is...
I shake both hands, they keep the handshake and I keep it silent for like 5 seconds. I was self amusing myself.
HB7 : Sorry my hand is wet.
Me : My name is
HB8 : Invent some name
They were still holding my hands
Me : You wanna dance?
I pull up both hands, try to make them turn but they drop my hands.
HB7 : Nooo XD
Me : You were holding hands weirdly with me.
HB8 : Are you high?
Lol, is that a good sign? Means I'm confident? Hahaha
Me : Nooo!
HB8 : Do you want a ball?
Me : YEAAAHHHHHH!!! YEAHH!
They give me the bouncing ball, and they start walking off.
Me : Hey, I want your number before.
They stop, she looks at me anxiously a bit.
HB8 : I don't have a number
Me : But it's you, it's you...
HB8 : *cutting me* but I don't have a number
Me : I give you a gift, you know?
HB8 : I don't have a cellphone?
Me : You don't?
HB8 : No.
Me : You ate it?
HB8 : Yes.
I then drop the ball RANDOMLY! It crosses the street
Me : Osshh Osshhh!
They look at me and laugh their asses off.
They started leaving.
Me : NoOOooh, help please!
I look at them again.
HB8 : I have no cellphone!
Me : But I have one
HB8 : You lost my present I gave you, so goodbye!
Me : Ok ok XD
This was very funny I'm not gonna lie. My funniest one yet.

LOL
We were eating, and then I saw the two girls I approached the day before, two asians. I didn't recognize them at first, but them I looked at them closely and they started laughing and and smiling.
I get off my chair, and I scream to them
Me : Hey!! You guys, come back here! Two seconds!
I lift two fingers in the air. They give me the peace sign and kept walking. Nooo! That's not what I meant!
I tell them to come with my hands and a big smile. They kept smiling too but they walked away. I didn't try to follow them.

BALLSIEST **** EVER! LOOOL!
So we were sitting down at a table, with my wing. We were eating supper, and I told myself that I'll go approach that set of 3 after I'm done. HB8 and HB7.5s
Hesitated a bit! I knew I wanted to do something ballsy AND stupid. I wasn't outcome dependant.
Me : (In French) I know that this is pretty random, but I just though that you guys were really cute and I had to come and say hi.
I actually said it with a lot more confidence than usual.
ON VIDEO! :
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tYmD5Jq8z0U&feature=youtu.be

HB8 in Forever 21 store
I'd rate her higher if her beauty was more natural, but I guess it was a lot of makeup. Beautifully done though!
So I see he walk by me. In my head I'm like : Ouuuhh! Then I turn back and go approach from behind.
My voice felt low-energy, chill and relaxed, though I wasn't really feeling that relaxed. I was talking slowly and I was having fun.
She was receptive, seemed like a very kind person.
Told her I could be her second boyfriend, she told me that she's not that kind of girl.
Me : Oh, I know I was just joking. You probably don't sleep with every guy
Did the same creampie joke, told her to not check out the porno section. I'm often using the same lines, but it's because I want to get used to throwing some sexual stuff.
Blablabla, told her goodbye and told her that she was beautiful.

HB8.5! From the back!
So my wing and I see her sitting down and we stop further behind. I tell him that he should go, he hesitates. I then tell him that if he doesn't go, I'll go.
Wing : Alright, then go?
I look around a bit, nervous again. Damn, those roller coaster feelings that go up and down!
I then visualize the wolf story again, then I get some willpower to go. I walk up, mind goes blank.
Me : Hey excuse, I know this is pretty random...
She turned around to face me. WHAT! Braces and something stuck in them, and she's a 6.
Me : Hey wait! Aren't you... Roberta?
HB6 : No XD
Blablabla, tell her that I have a friend that looks exactly like her. I eject, tell her goodbye. That one was funny LOL, she actually looked pretty hot from the side and behind, not gonna lie.

Two HB7.5s in store. They seemed older though, like 19-20 so that's why I didn't close...
I felt a lot more confident on this one. Very relaxed.
I say the usual I though you were cute.
They tell me thank you, laugh and smile a lot. They tell me it's random, but I tell them that I enjoy saying it to strangers.
Blabla, I tell them that I like their playful joyful vibe. It's positive energy.
So then I eject.

So then I see a set of two in the mall. HB8 and HB7.
Me : *Usual I though you were cute line, repeat it in english because they were English.*
The HB8 didn't respond at all, straight face, not talking. She was probably anxious.
THOUGH, I forgot about this one. She was still facing me, close, feet pointing towards me while the other HB7 walked away smiling.
She was probably pretty shy, she had the scared eyes look. I'm just assuming, but I can't be quite sure.
Me : I love ginger women!
HB7 : Ohhh thank you! But I have a boyfriend.
I throw the I could be your second boyfriend line again. I think that I have to learn to have more things to say.
Blablabla.
Me : I was just kidding, trolling around, fooling around.
HB7 ; Alright, blabla Goodbye take care!
Me : Have a nice day!

 

[Mindgamez]

Monday, July 23rd
Went to the amusement park. Wasn't in state at all!
Then, I got seasick from some roller coaster, and it rained like crazy so we ran and went home haha!
No approaches.

Tuesday, July 24th
7 Approaches, 1 Number Close, successful!

So me and Sex_is_good went to the mall and I started approaching almost immediately.
The 2 first sets I opened within like 5 minutes, but then I started *****ing out more for a while.

Two HB7.5s
They were running! I do the usual I though you were cute opener after I stopped them.
They say yo and run away.
I go : Awwwww!

HB7.5
Usual opener after I stopped her
The girl smiles, walks a bit fast and looks away.
I just stopped walking and said bye.
She left but she was still smiling, probably shyly.

HB7
She was walking opposite direction. I stop her, opener.
She says : Okay bye.
Me : Heyhey, we have to get to know each other first a bit!
We do a handshake. I call her up on her handshake not being good.
Nothing happens, I let her leave after I said bye.

Two HB7.5s
Asians! Aggghhhhh I had so many wtf moments.
I do the usual opener after I stopped them.
They go : Hi
But then they start leaving!
Me : Heeyy, is that how you take a compliment?
Listened to the audio of it again. Damn, I talked a little too fast and it felt robotic.

In an hour or something, I did 4 approaches.


So some company were trying to find new actors, models, etc. They talked to us on the streets.
HOLY **** YES! Accepted the offer immediately.
I don't know what it's called, but it's the actor in the background that doesn't do ****. You get paid 75 to 375$ per day!
The woman interviewing me was sooooo hot, and charming. She had a bright smile and contagious joy. Apparently she's going for Miss Canada. No surprise here!
She told me that I seemed like a very dynamic and charming person.

This putted me in a very good mood!
But right after that, we went to go see The Dark Knight Rises. Had to go early or no seats left!

After that, I was a little out of state.
Took me a long time to get my approaches going again...
We go into some perfume store. I should get some cologne someday! Really. That could be good for my game.
I failed to approach in the store haha.

HB7
I get rejected pretty quickly again!

HB8, AND Cambodian like me! **** yeah
So I open, pretty nervous and I stutter once. I hate when it happens! Whatever.
So apparently she's Cambodian like me. I opened my mouth with awe because it's extremely rare that I meet other cambodians on the random or from social circle.
I did a high five to her, let my hand linger a bit on hers. She didn't resist it, and I came closer a bit. I'm getting more and more comfortable with kinos!
She told me that she was waiting for her boyfriend. I got : Okay like it didn't matter.
She laughed this time.
I just said goodbye after that.

HB6.5 Asian.
I had more confidence on this one.
She was sitting there by herself. She was about to leave.
I stop her, do the usual opener.
She goes : Thank you.
Leaves the table and doesn't even look at me, OR smile, NOTHING.
I go : Did you say thanks? Okay, you said it at least!
Blabla, *****. She wasn't even pretty.

HB7.2 Asian again. Number Close though! After 7 mins of convo
She was waiting for the subway alone.
I hesitated a bit. I was telling myself like : Ohhhh she might be a little too young, no? Ahhh **** THIS! GO!
Last approach of the day had to count. Let's do this.
So I approach her, introduce ourselves after the compliment opener.
She's Vietnamese. I told her that her country is the banana shape next to my country.
Me : Do you like bananas?
She : Yeah
Me : Oh cool, we have so much in common! High 10!
I give her high 10 with both hands, let them linger a bit again. I like doing that.
So I keep talking with her blablabla.
I improvise some random bull**** about her earrings. They were shaped like wheels so I told her that she probably is adventurous and likes to travel.
When I tease her, I touch her gently on the arm. I'm getting better and better at kino.

So we enter the Subway. We talk more and more.
We go into boring topics a bit. I still manage to say a lot of statements and don't go into interview mode.
She's 16, yeaah good age.
Told her that since we both like bananas, that we should go get a banana split icecream someday!
She : But I can't tonight, I have to get home blabla
Me : Noo I wasn't talking about tonight! Another time.
She : Oh alright
I tell her that we should exchange numbers. She goes yeah sure.
When I handed out my phone, our heads were touching a bit.
She's not the prettiest, but her smell attracts me. She's cute. Why the **** not?
I like that feeling when I know the number can't be a flake!

Though, she was very shy during the whole interaction. Looking away shyly, but that's asian culture so
She was still engaging the conversation a lot and asking questions just as much as I did.

Conclusion
Noticed that I speak a little fast, though I'm high-energy so it kinds of go with it.
I have to slow down when I speak, let the words flow by themselves and not push them.

Wednesday, July 25th. TODAY!
LONGEST INTERACTION EVER! Sarging alone, yep finally.

So I woke up this morning,
6:30 AM. DAMN I was tired! Couldn't sleep early the night before because thoughts were running through my mind.
I was excited about tomorrow. I was going to approach alone for the first time. I never felt excited to go approach alone before...

Arrived at work. The pretty HB7.5 that works here welcomed me with a cute smile. She's probably older than me though.
I was nervous when I was talking to her. OUT OF STAATEEEE AGHHH HATE IT! Whatever.

So I left work at 12:10. Bus arrives at 12:30, but decided to go to the mall right next to where I work.
I'll get the bus at 1:00 PM!
So I walk towards the mall. I see a girl at the bus stop but I skip her. Another one, skipped. I don't like when people watch me silently!
So yeah. I enter the mall. I see that cute girl reading by herself on the bench.

HB8! Damn yo
So I turn on my mic. I talk into it.
Me : Okay guys, this is me approaching alone this time. Ahhhh, I feel like pooping when I'm nervous. This is ridiculous.
After 2 minutes of indecisiveness, I just go. I don't think.
Turns out that she's an HB7.2. Beautiful eyes, though her body was alright. Why do girls look cuter when they're busy doing their things dammit! lol
So I sit down, ask her about what she's reading. Make a statement about how she's probably intellectual.
She engages in the conversation A LOT! She did almost most of the talking.
I always had something to say about something she said, and she continued also. That's because we had an interesting topic we were both interested in.
Talked about books, cinema, movies, art, music, etc.
She lives in my town! Very close to my home.
I comment about this book where a violet creature makes love with a human. Told her that I like how they have love scenes in the book.
She looked at me kind of weird, I just laughed and smiled. I though that I was funny.

Her friend comes up. I say present myself to her. She was actually cuter than the other girl. HB7.5 asian.
Anyway. HB7.2 had a bookmark with her name written on it and it's meaning according to myths and greeks.
So I read it, made comments about her personality, asked her if it applied to her or not.
The last line was funny! It said something like : She might be picky for a man, but she might also have a tendency for younger men.
She was 18, I was 17! Hahaha!
I kino'ed her, touched her on the shoulder, on the leg once but subtly.
The two girls laughed loud, I laughed too.

Blabla. 23 minutes of conversation!
So I suggested that we exchange numbers.
She doesn't have a cellphone! She tells me that her friends contact her with her telephone at home, blabla.
I tell her that she can still give me that number. She seems alright with that.
While I was going on my cellphone and trying to Add New Contact, they stood up.
I think that I was a little too needy right here as I went like : Heey wait a sec! Write down your number.
Like I was assuming that she would leave without giving her number. I'm overanalysing, whatever!
So I go for the hug. She seems hesitant. I was hesitant too... Whatever emotional state is always contagious! I have to learn that!

Conclusion
I'm alright with opening, but my biggest fear is to run out of things to say.
I'm always worried about not knowing what to say next. I overthink things.
While I think of what to say, I'm not listening carefully to what she says so what I say doesn't necessarily link with her previous comment. That's not the worst part! The worst part is that it makes me more and more nervous.
I have to learn to chillax more. I'll just keep pushing and pushing. With long interactions, I have to throw in some flirting. When It's going good, I fear that it might turn the conversation upside down if I throw some sexual stuff.

What's coming up next
Tomorrow, before I go to work, I'll game at the mall a bit like I did today. Let's try transitioning to insta-dates! I can do that, and I have plenty of time.
Organizing a party at my house tomorrow. It will be epic

I feel myself becoming more and more independent.
I'm growing as a man. This summer, I'll be totally transformed. I CAN DO THIS!
Gotta get ready for Cegep. 2 years in a totally different school. This is going to be the ****.

 

[jericg]

hello mindgames! i've read ur journal straight from the beginning to the one right now. dang it took me hours to read all of it! I read ur journal because it was interesting and i wanted to see how a beginner PUA improves over time. I also read it because I'm just starting to "game" right now and i'm 16. I've been a shy and antisocial person during my last 2 years of high school, but i'll change that. and while on my way there, im planning to destroy the V word this year and also take some from the ladies . keep it up! im barely starting!

 

[Mindgamez]

So dang, you read it ALL? That's pretty cool!
Hope that I inspired you to become the best man you can be. You can do it man, and no I don't want to be what's called a *Pick Up Artist* really. I want to be my best self, grow confidence, be more social, and improve my life in general. Cold approaching is only part of all this, but it's not all about the girls.

You can do it man! I'm with you!

 

[jericg]

from page 1 to 13 yes. it was very interesting! this one gurl i was flirting with on facebook dared me to stay awake all night last night and i did! i spent that time reading all ur post. you know why? its because i wanted to learn the growth of how a person with a similar situation of mine turn out to be, so ill know what to expect and how to predict. ur experiences are a treasure to me merci!(i know a little french hell im arigathree from youtube haha)

 

[Mindgamez]

Ahh yeah, thanks for the comment by the way! But don't mention pick up on my Youtube channel lol.

Friday, July 27th
7 Approaches, 1 Number close.
I'm going to keep this shorter.

So yeah,
When we arrived at the meeting point, we started walking around the mall to get some approaches going. Sex_is_good and mee

I hesitated a bit.
Then, I see this girl working at the shop. I approach. HB7.2
I do the usual I though you were cute opener.
She : You already told me the other day
Me : Oh yeah! You looked very familiar I noticed.
It was the same girl from before LOL! Whatever, I ejected because I didn't know what to say.
The fact that I already approached her in the past kind of made me go WTF
She's 20 BTW.

Second approach, we go into a book store.
Solid HB8, I'd even say HB8.5! For me at least. She was my type physically that's for sure.
I hesitated a bit at first. Then I went to myself : **** IT! GOOO!
So we start off the conversation. I take Julien's advice from RSD and I do it for me, not for her.
I didn't interact with the clear intent to escalate or make things go further. I made it because I was feeling good and in the moment.
Though I was still a little nervous, but it's always like that anyway!
So I saw positive signs coming from her right at the beginning. Girls that give IOIs are so ****ing hot.
Told her that she seems like an intellectual girl. She nodded yes.
Ask her about her age, turns out that she's 18 and I'm 17.
She asks me if I graduated, to what school I'm going. Turns out that she lives near the school I'll be going!
We talk a bit more. I throw Batman randomly into the conversation
Me : You could be catwoman, I'll be Batman, and we can live fabulous adventures together!
She laughed a bit, blabla.
So she tells me that she really has to go. She starts walking just a little, and then I go
Me : Let's exchange numbers and we'll continue the conversation later.
She seemed totally fine with that, non-resistant (in my opinion)
So she enters the digits. I touch her bracelet a bit and tell her that it's pretty and cool. She thanks me.
She : Okay I really gotta go! You can text me!

I felt pretty good after that one!
So Sex_is_good and me decided to have some fun. He made me realize that it's way more fun to do other things than just pick up when you go out, because you feel too pressured to do it. That's true, and it allowed me to go closer to that I don't care attitude.
So we skateboarded in the bookstore! Made sure that the worker didn't see us.
We took 2 books about sex. He told me that I should ask some girl about with one to take.
So I did!

Set of 2 asian girls. Didn't see their faces at first.
Turns out that they were HB7s. Their awkward facial expressions are not very attractive...
Me : Hey excuse me. Which one should I take? (In French)
The girl on the left looks at me. I RECOGNIZED HER LOL! She rejected me hard last time. Another one I already approached!
I just ignored her, and she did the same. HAHAHAHA
The girl on the right looked at me with a puzzled look. She looked at the book, then at me, then at the book, then at me again, then at the book. 7 seconds of pause at least.
I felt comfortable with this. Kept the tension!
Her : Blablaba
Me : Oh you're English?
Her : Yes.
Me : Well, which one should I take?
5 seconds of pause again. She goes awkward mode and looks at me with a puzzled look.
Her : You should ask the guy working here.
Me : Oh okay. Blablabla this one looks better because it's about Cocoa Puffs. Right?
Her : Yeah
Blalbalba, not much.
So then after another 5 seconds of epic silence, I do some absolutely retarded pause with both my thumbs up and I go away without saying a word.
EPIC! Laughed my ass off with Sex_is_good after that.

The other approaches, I got rejected quickly.

HB7.5 and HB7
I approached the HB7.5, direct line as always.
It was the same *looked away weirdly* reaction I've gotten so often before.

EDIT : Forgot one approach!
HB8 and HB7.2
Did the same line
They were pretty receptive, beautiful smiles and their faces lit up.
Beautiful girls respond way better. I don't know why the **** I fear them.
So I told her the Batman line randomly. She told me that it was a good one.
Me : Yeah that's kind of my pickup line. Did it work?
She told me that kind of haha. Apparently she has a boyfriend. I'm totally fine with the answer and I go : Oh alright
I ask them about what should I take between bubble tea or ice cream. I had nothing to say at this point.
Then I eject.

So there was these two girls sitting down at the park. Didn't see them from close, but decided to approach anyway.

Turns out that they looked much older!
HB7s, though the one on the left was a little cuter
I stuttered on that one. AGGHHHH I hate when this happens! I almost repeated the same sentence twice.
Whatever. The one on the right kind of **** tested me. She was asking me for what I was doing.
Told her that I was shopping and chilling with some buddy. She didn't believe me because I had no shopping bags. Actually had a backpack so who cares?
Ejected, they weren't even that pretty.

I see some girl at the subway. Looked my age.
HB7.5 Asian
Usual line. Direct!
She smiles
Blablabla, I guess from where she's from. She guesses that I'm Cambodian on the first try.
I was surprised that she guesses right. We continued the convo a bit.
Turns out that she was 26! LOL
I told her that she looked MUCH MUCH younger.
Told her to guess my age. She told me that I looked 15? Lol? She's retarded!
Whatever, I ejected after I we told ourselves goodbye.

HB6.5, but I wanted to do it anyway for the fun
So I was pretty bored waiting for the subway alone. That girl comes and sit next to me.
I randomly say hi to her, how's it going, good good.
Me : I like to talk to strangers when I'm bored.
Turns out that she does the same when bored!
She made me guess her origins. She was Russian.
Talked for like 5 minutes, just for fun.
I was totally outcome independent and not caring on that one. It allowed me to be in the moment and converse without troubles.
Man, I have to learn to keep that vibe with any pretty girl!


So I take the bus later that day. I pull off my cellphone to text the girl I number closed.
Hope that it's not a flake. That would suck!
So I select her name, check her number.
IT HAD 11 DIGITS!
Damn, I was ****ed! She fooled me... Damn I got happy for nothing.
So I realize that I'm depending too much on results to be happy. I must reward myself for approaching at least. I must do it.
So I erase the last extra digit from her number, hoping that it's the good one.

HB8.5, is that you? If yes, you did a mistake entering your number haha

So then I delete her from my contacts. She probably fooled me.

So then I get home. My phone is vibrating during the evening.

Heey, who is this?
Me : Mindgamez, the Batman from Chapters (bookstore)
Her : Aha how did I make a mistake?
Me : You entered one extra number! It made me laugh, I just removed the last one randomly and it was the good one. Careful with beautiful opportunities like these, do not miss them. Especially when it's a handsome man (;
Her : Lol ahh **** sorry for that;p
Her : Just thought i should let you know you made me late for work
Me : Isn't it a fabulous excuse to be late? Too bad that it was at the wrong time though!

She didn't respond after that. Let's wait for tomorrow.

Then, the girl I danced with at the prom texted me.
Too lazy to write the text conversation.
She thanked me for inviting her at my party.
Me : No Problem (;
Her : You're having a good summer?
Me : Sexy summer (; you?
Her : Oh damn (; I'm having a very good summer it's very funny how we randomly met downtown
Me : Yeah. And we'll give ourselves massages at the party!
Last message was sent at midnight and she didn't respond yet.

What's coming up next
PARTY AT MY HOUSE NEXT FRIDAY!
I invited 55 people. Like 25% of them won't come because of work and other plans (hopefully, or my house would explode)
That's pretty sick. There will be a little more guys than girls, but that's totally fine. Mostly friends that I don't intend gaming on!
Whatever, let's expand that social circle and give them a good time. Maybe I'll start hanging out with the girls more and make new friends of friends.

Tomorrow I might go downtown again with some friends to chill. We'll see how it goes!

 

[AlexLefty]

Epic **** man
Good to finally see some FRs about approaches and what not
I commend you, because just approaching is why most of us are here

BTW, how do you record your approaches?

 

[Mindgamez]

Alex thanks a lot for your support man! Means a lot.

I use the Memo App on iTouch, and I have earphones with a microphone and I record with that. It's pretty easy to record and it's very subtle. All I do is press the button on my earphones and voilà!

That would be very interesting if you guys could record yourselves. It's interesting for others, but especially for yourself because you can listen to your own interaction and see when and what you did good or wrong. Fantastic tool!

 

[Mindgamez]

Sunday, July 29th
Arrived to work early today, and presented myself to the people. I'm new since last week.

There was this cute 8, but I didn't game her because she seemed older than me. I was just in a bad mood today and stressed, because I was working alone in my section all day and I had pretty little experience so it was a pain in the ass.

So yeah. We did the damn fvcking boring fluff talk, nothing happened. I felt like she was almost ignoring me, smiling very rarely. I was being a pvssy, enough said. You know what? She was 17 just like me! I HAVE EXCUSES, SIMPLE AS THAT.

It's weird how I don't feel like hitting on girls I'll see pretty often in the future. I feel that like if I screw up, everybody will know and it's done for me. It's kind of like in high school, right? You stick with the same people for years.
I worry way too much. I'm too in my head.

Whatever. My boss's a *****! She made me stressed out with her impossible assignment. The other manager that came later that day was very cool though, and he gave me less work.

Though, I managed to help the clients and I was most of the time confident when they were around. I still get anxious about people in general for no reason. It comes back and forth.

What's coming up next
Don't know if I'm going to game tomorrow. People I texted aren't sure that they can come with me. I'll still go alone if I have to, **** THIS! I gotta be independent. I'll just get out and have a good time. I gotta enjoy myself when alone too, but I also gotta be approaching no matter what I'm doing or with who I am with. I give myself too many excuses.

EDIT : Need advice for texting ASAP.

Girl I danced with at prom. She's a 7, not that hot but she's still fine.

Her : Yeah you miss my massages?
Me : You mean YOU miss MY massages
Her : Yeah they miss me like at Boston
*It's during that school trip that I realized that she was into me*
Me : Awwn cute! we'll do that again but more intense this time
Her : More intense? (;
Her :
Me : Just use your imagination
Her : Haha ok (; and hey you'll go to which school?
Me : *School name*. You want to come stalky stalk Mindgamez?
Her : Seriously? I go at *school name* too but no im not gonna stalk you, dont worry
Me : Oh *high five* But you won't need to stalk we'll see each other, don't worry (;
Her : Ok (; you chose which program?
Me : Creative Arts Language and LIterature. Cinema here I come! So I'll be able to do porno movies jokes! And you, massotherapy?
Her : Nice good choice you rlly have a lot of talent to make movies and no not massotherapy (; honours science

Girl I number closed a long while ago in the subway, the 19 year old girl.

July 21st
Me : Hello miss italian! I'm Mindgamez the eater of almonds (Her name's Amanda and in french, Amanda and almonds sound similar)
Her : Lool hahaha hey
Me : Wudduuuup
Her : Nm nm you?
Me : Just finished my 1st day of work. Hey, is it true that they're nude beaches in Italy?
Her : Lol I have no idea
Me : Too bad, I though that you should make me visit some of then o:
Her : Haha lol no not my kind of thing
Me : It's not true that asians have little ****s, you'd better think again!
Her : Lool I don't know about that either
Me : Come on, seems like you don't know very much haha. Are you more of an intellectual girl, introvert or crazy as hell?
Her : Lool idk XD im normal I guess
Me : Go and impress me! There should be something cool that makes you unique, no?
Her : Hahaha nopim just me
Me : I see, an ordinary girl. Except that she's beautiful
Her : Hahaha thanks
Me : So what are you doing Amanda?
Her : Lol when?
Me : No I'm not asking for a date, I'm just asking what u doin
Her : Ah kk well I work most of the week if not I hang out with friends
Me : You go eat some pasta spaghettis and pizza with the amigos?
Her : Looool no no we are very fake italians we almost don't eat pastas
Me : Hahaha! What you guys eat? Good apple pie?
Her : Lool no no I don't know we eat fish and meat.
(In french, fish, if misspelled, is poison)
Me : You eat POISON? How do you stay alive? You must be some goddess! I want immortal kids, that's a great opportunity!!
Her : Looool hahahaha why, it's good
Me : Fish or poison? Fish is delicious I eat some! Yeah asians, sushis are the best
Her : Oh right srry I have my spell check in english

July 22nd
Me : Hello my pretty Amanda how,s it going
Her : I'm fine I'm tired you?
Me : Yeah I'm good I'm good! What's up in your life, except that you're texting with a handsome guy?
Her : Lool hahaha nothing I just finished working
Me : What's your job? Like top model for women's magazine
Her : Lol hahaha ya ok XP no I work at a Subway
Me : Awww why not? Me I want to be a vetenarian so I can take care of pussies
LOL I though about that in the moment and I though that it was pretty hilarious
Her : Omg that's terrible -__-
Me : You don't like cats? Ohhh that's bad!
Her : I'm allergic to pussies
Me : But you have a *****, how's that possible!
Her : No I don't
Me : What!! NOOOO

July 23rd
Her : Loool hahaha but ya I'm allergic to cats
Me : This conversation amuses me!

July 25th
I just watched batman, had this in mind. Though, it sounds like some pickup line...
Me : I'll be batman, and you'll be catwoman. Are you ready to live exciting adventures?

No responses... I don't know what to do. It's been a while!

Asian vietnamese girl I number closed at the subway after like 7 minutes of convo.

July 24th
Me : This number is to be stored with care. - Mindgamez
Her : Haha okay

July 25th
Me : Hello my vietnamese catwoman! How's the family?
Her : Yeah, they are fine. Sorry, 'm on a date with my girlfriend
Me : I've always wanted to have a bisexual girlfriend, yeah!

July 26th
Me : How was your sexy date?


July 27th
Me : Next week, we'll go get some ice cream at Dairy Queen and then we'll go to the movies. Tuesday is that good?

July 28th
Her : I think my girlfriend won't like the fact that I'll go out with you she doesn't like when I go out with other people than her
Me : Take opportunities that come to you because they come and go fast. Especially when it's a handsome man (;
Her : Yo its jess girlfriend and id like you to get the **** out plz
Me : Stay chill! Damn jealousy hits hard

No response. Damn this innocent vietnamese girl is actually pretty *****y.

Girl I number closed at the bookstore (Chapters) the 27th of July. HB8.5 to my eyes
So yeah, I waited 2 days to text her. I was busy with work and stuff.

July 29th at 3:20 PM
Me : How's it going pretty HB8.5! So tell me what's your job. Modeling for magazines?

No responses yet. Hope she does respond, she's pretty hot.

 

[LearningSlowly]

Drop the model jokes, and the reminders that she's pretty. Make more jokes that you're a model, and you're handsome. Those are funnier and work better.

Your sexual jokes are becoming more calibrated (but still a little rough around the edges) and youre an interesting person to text.

You did great in all your texting except to Amanda. The nude beaches joke was great, but she didn't bite. Obviously she isn't interested enough to want to play these sexual texting games with you.
So after she said "not my kind of thing" you should have stopped trying to play. If you had said "Haha alright fine we can keep our clothes on. Lets go [get coffee, to the mall, to a park, etc] this week" then you would have skipped all the one-sided texting that came after, where you were trying much harder than she was.

Hope that helped on the texting front. Sorry that you seem to have picked a couple of flakes, but that's to be expected. At your party on Friday, pick 2-3 targets and only go for them. After about an hour, you should chose which one of them is the most interested, then start looking for a chance to isolate and go for a make-out.

 

[Mindgamez]

Damn LOTS OF UPDATES TO DO! ARGH!
Whatever, let's do it.

Monday, July 30th
So I had to meet with Giloflex that day.
We walked around. COMPLETE WASTELAND! Or almost...
We walked around a lot, a lot a lot. There were pretty few targets at first. We kept walking.

I skipped the first set! I always ***** out the first set, argh lol.

Set of 4 girls
She looked HB7.5 from far, but from close she was 6.5.
So I open with the usual I though you were cute line.
She looks at me with an annoyed face, and she goes : ok.
Her other friends are kind of giggling around
Me : At least say thank you
She : Thanks
She moves away or something
Me : ***** please! At least lets shake hands, hello.
They keep walking off. I kept a playful vibe and I smiled
Me : Hello? Hello? Or I'll fart on your face
She : You'll fart on me?
Me : Yeah, I'm a professional gentleman, you see?
She : So you walk into random girl stores and you pick up any girl you see?
Me : *winked, smiled* I was very non-reactive on that one!
So I turn to that 8, didn't notice her.
Me : You seem kinder. *extend hand* Hi
HB8 : No it's okay
Me : Pffft
I walk off, laugh a bit

Set of 2 girls
A 7 and a 5.
I do the same I though you were cute opener
The prettiest one goes : Thanks.
She turns her head back to where they were looking at previously.
Me : That's it? We have to introduce ourselves
7 : No it's okay.
Me : No?
7 : No.
That was a firm no! ***** again
My hand was still extended
Me : My hand is still here!
They laughed a bit
Me : If you want I'll steal your ice cream and run.
7 : Okay. *I try to get it* No.
ME : Hahaha! ***** please. *turn to the 5* Well you seem kind right?
5 : Yeah
Me : Hello.
I extend my hand, she goes ahead to reach it but I just remove my hand and walk off. They both laugh.
Me : Well I was just joking!
Them : No it's fine
Me : I don't like to be a gentleman, it's not my style. How old are you guys?
7 : 70.
Me : Oh alright, so you're a pedo and you like younger guys?
7 : No.
Me : Well it's fine you know? I accept that. Though, I don't like older people I'm sorry.
Me : Ahh, it's hard being old, isn't it?
I tap her on the shoulder and just leave. *****es hate them

She was an 7.5
I ran out of things to say! When I go blank, I just let it go blank and I stay with it. Problem is that the girl feels uncomfortable with it haha.
So I did the usual I though you were beautiful line, we talked 40 seconds and she left.

So Giloflex had to go. Her mom was angry D: So I continued with Sex_is_good.

So we walk around the food court. I see a table of 4 girls sat down and eating cheerfully. They glanced at us couple of times I believe, but I didn't really notice.

An 8 and a 5!
They were sitting at a table, chilling. The prettiest one was already looking at me. I just left Sex_is_good and went in.
This one, I really felt incredibly calm. I was feeling very natural on this one! Not thinking ahead at all, nothing.
It was a 5 minutes interaction.
My first direct line was very sincere. Told her that she was veery beautiful, which was true as I looked at her in the eyes.
I allowed myself to feel attraction and I didn't resist it.
Blalbabla, mainly basic talk and nothing very specially interesting. Though, the way I said it was a LOT better than the usual.
Though, noticed that I didn't flirt as much on that interaction. I though that it was pretty solid anyway.
So I told her that we should exchange numbers, but for some reason she didn't have a cellphone (I get that excuse often. WTF?)
Told her that I had to go leave and see my friend, so she adds me on facebook.
I hug her, let my arm slide a bit on her back. I didn't think about it and it happened by itself.
Me : Ohhh that was smooth
So then I leave. She had beautiful eyes!

I'm getting better at handling ****ty ****!
So the 4 girls glanced at us again, then looked at each other to giggle a bit. So eye contact happens, I wave at them and they wave to us laughing!
So I approach them.
Me : Do I know you girls?
HB6.5 : No
Me : Oh well, you girls are pretty cute!
I then noticed that they were the same girls from before. I reapproached them!
6.5 : Yeah, you already said that to us.
Blablabla. I don't remember because I didn't record that one. It was pretty epic though, seriously!
Me : Here's my friend Sex_is_good. He's a badass mother****er!
Wing : No, he's the badass mother****er!
So my wing was out of state, and he admited that he was nervous talking to girls. I then noticed immediately that HB6.5 was a *****
6.5 : Ohhhh that's so cute (poker face, not looking at us)
So I turn to the HB8 from previously.
Me : Alright, you're ugly (talking about 6.5) but you're beautiful. blabla
She throws some **** tests at me and is not responsive.
Me : I like your eyes, they match with your shirt.
8 : Thanks
I noticed something! I kept rewarding them with an ego boost telling them that they are beautiful even though they were *****es. I have to stop that immediately...
Noticed that her bra straps were sliding down her shoulders. This line went out by itself, in total control. DAMN I felt like a boss.
Me : Pull up your bra straps or I'll tear them off.
Little flirty smile from me. She reacts not so much, maybe she's shocked inside. Her friends giggled a bit, my wing though that it was pretty badass lol
Blablabla.
Me : Alright, what's your name? Let's present ourselves.
Blablabla, 8 hesitates. Finally, she reaches for my hand.
I'm thinking like : **** this! I hate *****es that want attention.
I pull off my hand, and then go, with a totally serious face : EWWWW NO! I start walking off with a disgusted look. They laugh.
I then go : Just kidding! I smile and walk off with Sex_is_good. That's very funny to do, I like it.

This ends the day.
We went to the movie theaters to watch Ted.
Then I pussied out from approaching again! Whatever, it happens lol haha.

So I then get back home,
I look up facebook. I noticed that I didn't had any new friend requests. It was a FLAKE! At this point, I was disappointed. What I though was a great interaction with a good vibe actually didn't lead to anything. The content in the interaction was missing I guess, though my tone of voice and body language felt very good.

Conclusion
DO NOT reward attention *****s with compliments when they're acting *****y. It's only feeding into their ego.
They can't believe that they're actually getting hit on and they like how they can reject guys because they feel a boost in confidence. Am I right guys?
Though, only a few girls are like that, like the worst type.

 

[Mindgamez]

Tuesday, July 31st
Went deeper into my old self that day, it's not even funny.

So I had to work 10 hours today, from noon to 10 PM.
I started off the day feeling a little stressed as usual, since I'm not so used to working at the shop and I'm a beginner.
So there's this very cute 7.5, close to 8. She was new at work!
So I opened her and I presented myself. I was feeling in control at this moment. She was asking me since when I work here, what school do I go. We talked for like 2 minutes.
Nothing interesting again, fluff talk.

So I then I went into scarcity mindset. I reminded the times I got rejected and got flakes. The flake from yesterday was **** and I couldn't believe it.
Though, 2 days later I realized why it did flake and it makes sense to me. The conversation was lacking in content and it was leading to nowhere. Very little flirting!
So I'm thinking about that pretty girl with sexy eyelashes I talked to earlier that day. Damn, maybe I could actually get her? Yeah, she's not like the other girls because I'll see her more often. Which means, more time to build a connection.
So I'm thinking like woohhhh, hope I don't loose her. I'll actually see her pretty often in the future so it has to be good.
Then later when the day's finished. This was absolutely ridiculous...

OMFG.

So yeah. I walk towards them, but then I noticed that she was talking to that other dude.
Then I go : ****! Find something to do.
So I pretend that I'm looking for something around and I look around the shopping carts a bit.
They passed by, I didn't even say hi to them. I felt awkward and stupid.

There it goes. Old self again.

Alright Mindgamez, you gotta talk to her somehow, right?
So they were all speaking english pretty fast. I couldn't understand all so I didn't interrupt the convo. (My english when I speak isn't that fantastic, though I don't have troubles writing)
I felt like such a *****. I kept walking towards the bathroom. Looked myself in the mirror.
DUDE what's happening? What the frawk!

So I left the place. Though that it would be too awkward to go to the lockers and talk to everybody when I was silent for too long.
Did meditation while waiting for the bus. It was relieving.

Wednesday, August 1st
This day is pretty interesting. Read through.

I was walking towards the subway. I see a pretty hot girl, HB8.
I look at her, she seemed kind of familiar. Nah can't be her.
LOL WAIT. THAT WAS HER!!
So I turn around, she recognizes me at the same time I recognized her. LOL!
She smiled, went to her phone : OMG! Blablabla
I waved at her with a joyful smile, but continued to walk away. She walked away too.

So I met with feelx at 3:30.
NOBODY. NO GIRLS.
So we walked a good while. Sometimes, like every 20 minutes there would be like a 6 walking with her parents, but that's pretty much it.

Texted the prom girl.

Blablabla. She wants to be a doctor.
Me : My parents wanted me to be a doctor but I refused instantly! With your money money you'll help invest for my movie productions? If I want to marry you one day loool
She : Blablabla, and hahaha yeah I'll help you pay for your movies even though we aren't married but you'll have to do advertising for me
Blabla.
She : and I want to be in one of your movies
Me : Okay you'll play in one of my xxx movies

So we walked and walked. We skipped some, and it was terribly hot so I was feeling much more tired and and thirsty. Wasn't in the mood at all...
We managed to walk for like 1 hour and a half before getting to the mall.
At the mall, there were a good amount of girls!
But it felt back like I started from scratch. I had major approach anxiety like back in the old days...
Since I was very tired, decided to buy some coffee. I knew coffee was bad and could enhance stress because it boosts heartbeat speed, but I needed to wake myself up!
So after a good coffee, I feel a lot better and I'm ready to approach!

We walked for a while, skipped sets as usual. I felt so bad for skipping so damn much.
I got a text from prom girl.

Her : Eum no Im sorry me I won't play in a xxx movie.

Realized that I ****ed up...
I get into my head more. It was terrible, absolutely.
We walked more. I then talked to feelx about it. We laughed a bit together about that funny texting.
I realized that it's pretty hilarious actually LOL!
I didn't know what to text back. Whatever, I felt a little more confident.

At around 6, I approach my first set. 2 girls, HB7s
ALMOST 3 HOURS WALKING AROUND NOT DOING ****! CAN YOU REALIZE THAT?
Got blown out right away, but I was feeling more confident.

Asian HB7.5, though she was like 20 max.
She was 25!
So I hesitate for like 1 full minute before approaching. She was sitting down. I just go.
So I open with the usual line in French, she doesn't understand so I repeat in english.
I stammered a bit on this one. AHHH! I hate when this happens.
So I ejected, she was pretty receptive but I felt like it was by pity. Lol...

So there' s table of 2 girls. She was 7.5, beautiful eyes.
So I do the usual line, they are pretty receptive! The younger one was cute, but too young.
So I talk to them, the 7.5 was like 14 years old so I didn't pusue any further.
Ejected. They were smiling and giggling when I left. Made their day

SUCCESSFUL!
The day went from crappy to great.
So I approached the set of two asian girls after a bit of hesitation.
She was HB8 and the other was a 6.
So I did the usual I though you were beautiful opener. I reeaaally meant it this time.
She was an HB8.5 from close. Lovely beautiful eyes! I didn't resist attraction and I just let it happen.
Though during the interaction, I was kind of stressed a bit and nervous, but I got more and more confident as the conversation went on.
Guessed her nationality right! Made her guess mine.
Me : You probably like bubble tea, right?
Her : No haha, I like tea better.
Blablabla, told her that she's not a real asian. Then remember some epic joke from my friend.
Me : You're like a banana! You're yellow on the outside, white in the inside!
LOL that was pretty funny! They laughed hard.
Told her that I was disappointed that she's not fully asian inside (as a joke).
Blablabla, tell her that I have to go because my friend is waiting for me.

Number close! Did it differently.
I tried something different.
So I entered my digits in her phone, and then I left quick.
Her : Nononono! Come back!
So she wanted me to write my name in her phone because I forgot to do it. She was chasing me.
So then I tell her to call me maybe. She calls me right NOW!
Me : What the hell? Are you crazy?! Haha
I pick up the phone in front of her.
Me : Hey! WHO THE **** IS THIS!
Inspiration from Jason. Thank you.
They both burst out laughing. I leave after I did a retarded double thumbs up to them.

Right away, I receive a text from her.

Her : *name* is my name
Me : Hey *name!* Let's talk later, I have no more batteries on my phone lol
Her : Ok

EPIC METAL CONCERT!!
Headbanged like crazy. I love Whitechapel and deathcore to death.
Though, I didn't approach any girls...
There was this hot asian girl. We were tight in the crowd and she was very close to me. Could've opened like some nightgame approach... didn't do it.
She looked at me. SHE SMILED YO. As I smiled back, she turned away quickly.
I DIDN'T APPROACH HER THE WHOLE EVENING. ****!! HAAAAAA!!!!
I was so out of state. Felt like I couldn't fit in with all the metalheads. Though I love metal myself, what the ****?
Girls with piercings and tattoos are intimidating. NO THEY AREN'T!! I'm just making excuses.

Though, I made friends with some random dude. According to facebook, he's very social and popular among hot girls. Average looking dude!
He's so chill and social. I'll go to some concert with him again hopefully.
He approached hot girls that night, and I didn't. He got the date!
I gotta hang out with this dude, he's ****ing awesome.

Thursday, August 2nd
Work and preparing for the party!

So I worked from 12 to 4 PM today.
Felt a lot more confident than the usual. I switched to abundance mode again.
Talked to the girls a bit. Girls working at Staples are hot... During the break, talked to them. Felt pretty confident.
You know that girl from July 29th that didn't smile at all? Well today, she was more receptive. I carried on a good relaxed vibe when she seemed stressed a lot. I kept my chill.
Same for that other girl. She looked 20 but she was 16! YEAH! Didn't flirt with her though, but we did the basic talk. She asked my questions, answered. Beautiful HB8, blonde.

Dude, I gotta pick up the chicks working at Staples. I GOTTA DO IT. **** it I have to hahaha!

So after I was done, I wandered around at the mall close to Staples. I had 20 minutes, and I passed by a pretty cute girl.
NO MINDGAMEZ GO!
So I turn around, I realize that she's already gone pretty far.
When I get close enough to approach her, my dad calls me... I gotta go.
Moral of the story : TAKE OPPORTUNITIES AS THEY COME, DON'T SKIP THEM.

WHAT IZ COMIN' UP NEXT.
PARTY TOMORROW! HOLY SHIET!
There will be like 20-25 people. Not many pretty girls, let's be honest... pretty much friends and friends. It will be a blast anyway!
I don't really plan on hitting on girls really, except for that prom girl maybe. She's pretty, HB7.2 but really I can get way better than that. If I get a little drunk, I might go for her lool. I'll see if I feel like it, but I know that she likes me already.