Who am I? I am myself, but the self that is becoming closer and closer to that real inner self.
That was deeeeep.
Man, everytime I read your little comments, I feel that good boost inside. I know that I'm getting somewhere and I realize that even though I had rejections, I'm still moving forward.
That 9.5 GREAT reference experience! Tragic fail? Naah let's not say tragic, let's say too bad. Though, true that it was a great opportunity.
Friday, August 10th
5-6 Approaches, no numbers again
THOUGH I asked for foursome and threesome. ****ing eeppiiiccccc!
My last approach was epicly cool!
Also, made friends with a natural. Feels like he's my new brother, oh my god...
So I start off the day
With Sex_is_good. For some reason, I really don't remember clearly my approaches so well...
So I was walking around with Sex_is_good, and then I see my friend N, epic magician friend and some 6.5 girl (she came at my party(she didn't come that way, you perv)). Magician friend wanted to try out some approaches. He was nervous as fawk! I could sense it from his way of walking and talking. He gave my friend his camera and told him that if he doesn't do at least one approach, he keeps the camera! This is a good way of forcing yourself to approach by the way, try it out! It's pretty extreme but works wonders.
You know the 6.5? She was into pickup! She actually supported us a lot! COOL HAHA
Asian HB8
I was a little nervous on this one, because my friends were all watching me from far. Though, I don't know why I should feel that pressure when they're around.
It's so weird! From experience, the approaches I've done by myself are the ones that worked better, because I wasn't worrying about time at all most of the time. Though, to approach alone takes a lot more willpower for me, because you have no one to help you get into state.
So the approach was pretty ordinary, the same I though you were beautiful opener.
She was receptive, seemed calm and chill. Convo lasted 1-2 minutes. I should've never asked her if she had a boyfriend, because when I do ask, they have the possibility to say no.
Don't remember the other one.
HB7.5 walking on the street.
I skip her! We had to cross the busy street, but that wasn't an excuse. I ditch my friends and run back to her, literally.
Usual opener,
She goes : Ohhh my god
She was kind of smiling, shy, went back to her cellphone
Me : Heey wait, why you keep walking? Blablabla
She has to go to work, I then tell her have a nice day.
At the bookstore, pussied out like a *****! Agh.
So I saw that HB7.5 across the street. I HAD to go!
So I ran across the street, ditching my friends again. When I get closer, ends up that she's a 6, AND smoking. Such a turn off, girls that smoke, aggghhhh!
So I go back to my buddies.
So this guy was selling tickets to his paintball place for cheap, so we talked a bit and we bought some, Sex_is_good and me.
The seller : Uncross your arm. It's proven that when you have your arms crossed, you absorb 80% less information.
Me : Ahhhhh how you know that?
Him : Body Language
Me : Have you read the game?
Him : I read it a little bit already, blabla
HE WAS INTO PICKUP TOO! COOL
So we talked a bit, and then I see a
Group of 3 HB7s-7.5s
I skip them! ARGH! Then in my head I go : **** IT NO, YOU GO.
Then I run to them, open them with the usual opener. They thank me happily.
Though, they all keep walking and smiled.
Me screaming : WE CAN STILL HAVE A FOURSOME.
They turn they heads back, they were all smiling! Yeah, that's a good reference experience. Sexual jokes are well taken, let's keep doing these.
So I get back to my friends, and the seller wanted to know what happened. I told them that I proposed a foursome and they all laughed XD. He told me that doing this won't work.
Seller : You have to have a good opener, then DHV, then throw a neg, blalblablabla
Me : Ahh I don't like that! It's way too technical to me. I don't like the game, too mainstream, blablabla.
We talk a bit about it, but not for long. We then leave and Sex_is_good and me keep walking. My other buddies had to leave.
We see that pretty girl, I tell Sex_is_good to approach, but he doesn't... so after some hesitation, I go.
HB7.5 went at the shoestore.
I walk into the store, look at the shoes subtly, and then look at her. Yep, she's a good 7.5!
I open with the usual opener. She's pretty receptive, the conversation was good. When she was saying things, I added upon what she was saying and I wasn't going into random unlinked questions. This conversation felt good.
Me : I'm Mindgamez *extend hand*
we shake hands
Her : I'm Dora.
Me : Dora, like Dora the explorer? You must be a very adventurous girl!
Blablabla, apparently she enjoys travelling a lot. She then asks me to what school do I go, etc. She was interested I'm pretty sure about that.
So she tells me her age. 20! I ask her to guess mine, and then I tell her that I'm 17 and she's surprised.
Me : How old do I look like?
Her : I don't know... 20?
She was interested, hahaha. Well then I just ejected. Damn! I should've never told about my age. I could've worked out.
So I went back to Sex_is_good, told him that she was the perfect opportunity for him! And I told him that she was probably around his age more...
Sex_is_good didn't approach during the whole time... I was disappointed! So at the mall, I literally pushed him allll the way to that girl! Almost pushed him on her directly hahaha, but he then opened because he had no other choices. He thanked me later for that hahaha!
So after a while of not approaching, I was back to out of state again, gaah. I still managed to approach a last set before leaving.
Set of 2 girls,
HB7.5 and the 6 actually looked like she was her mom LOL (didn't notice from far)
So I do the usual opener.
She smiles, just a normal smile. Though, the other woman had a biiiiig smile on her face!
Though 7.5 tells me that she has to go, so they just both eject. 20 seconds of interaction, I was pretty nervous, but at least I approached.
So later that day, I meet up with the cool guy from the concert. HE'S NATURAL!
And we connected instantly. He's into picking up random chicks on the streets, he's into GOOD Metal music just like me, he's into making music, and he has the same kind of humor as me! He's very very social too. When he walks into the mall, he randomly high fives some metalhead. For him, everybody is his friend. He has such a playful and cool vibe, and he's so high energy! We walked down the streets together for like 2 hours and time flew by. He ****ed 9 girls he told me, and he showed me naked pictures of that girl he ****ed. He told me that it's pretty easy to do, and all you have to do is be yourself and have fun basically!
He told me that at concerts, you just have to get physical. When she accepted you, you already won and you can just wrap your arm around her. He's so cool man, I ****ing love this guy YES HOMO.
So yeah, like 15 minutes after we met and shook hands (there was also this other dude, but he was so low energy and he seemed mad),
I did an approach!
Set of 2 girls. Asian HB8 and HB7!
I went in high energy, full confidence. When I'm around confident people, I act confident myself.
Me : Heey! I know this is random, but you girls are reaaaly beautiful.
8 : Sorry, we don't speak French!
Me : Well, I was saying that you girls are really really really really beautiful!
THem : Ohhh thank you that's so sweet!
Blablabla, I don't remember it all.
Me : So before I seem like a pedophile, how old are you girls?
Them : Guess!
Me : 18?
Them : Yeah!
Me : Oh well that's perfect, I'm 17!
I did some kino a bit, happened naturally.
Me : You know, this is like the perfect threesome!
They laugh joyfully. Yeah, sexual stuff is great! Let's keep doing them.
Me : So yeah, my friends are waiting back there, so let's exchange numbers and we'll talk again later.
There was a bit of silence that made me go into my head for a bit, but it didn't affect me too much.
So they are tourists actually, staying for only 2 days.
Me screaming : Ohhh NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!! XD
They laughed, that was very funny and I was self amusing myself.
Me : I'm sorry, but no threesome for you girls, I'm sorry to disappoint!
So I tap them on the back both of them, they kept laughing and I really liked the vibe. They were clearly receptive. Though, I then ejected and told them to have a nice day.
So cool natural buddy kept watching girls in VERY obvious ways but didn't approach any of them.
He was about to approach that
set of 3 HB8,5s (yes, ALL of them were that hot).
I didn't know that he was going! But then I just kept walking forward, and then I saw them. I skipped them AGGHHH!! He did too... he told me that he was going to go, but because I was close to him, he didn't go! He actually told me to keep walking the other side of the street, but I joined him anyway because I didn't know that he was going to approach.
Whatever, lol.
Conclusion
- Sexual jokes, suggesting threesomes : YES, DO IT! IT'S COOL AND IT WORKS! Don't be afraid guys! Once you get reference experiences with these, you'll keep doing these.
- HANG OUT WITH NATURALS! THEY PUT YOU IN STATE INSTANTLY!
- MOMS DON'T BITE! They actually like it when you approach their daughter. Also, use it as an excuse not to flirt with her sexually. You can still escalate physically subtly, that's cool.
