NorwegianDJ
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Apr 8, 2010
- Messages
- 2,562
- Reaction score
- 83
Dude this is so ****ing great. Im damn proud of you bro! That breakdancing? Dude, you just took such a big step. YES!
Journal - Approaches on street, at mall, etc.
- Thread starter Mindgamez
- Start date
Hey man thanks for support!
I actually felt more confident at school today. I feel like my voice and body language changed more. I gotta talk to people from my school more!
I opened 2 girls I used to talk to 3 years ago. I though that they didn't really like me, but when I said hi, their faces lighted up like if I went out of my cave for the first time after 3 years.
I actually felt more confident at school today. I feel like my voice and body language changed more. I gotta talk to people from my school more!
I opened 2 girls I used to talk to 3 years ago. I though that they didn't really like me, but when I said hi, their faces lighted up like if I went out of my cave for the first time after 3 years.
Sunday, June 3rd
Not many updates with girls lately!
I studied like crazy for my piano exam that happened today. It went great! I think I never practised that much in my whole life... I literately practised 9 hours almost non-stop XD.
I danced for an hour afterwards. Breakdance and I tried C-Walk too. I want to learn shuffle too! Dancing helped to boost my confidence a bit. When I walk, I feel more confident for some reason. It's just the vibe with the dance I guess.
Epic summer coming up. I'll be doing music videos and short films. I'll compose my music. I'll dance with my friends (and I'll try to attend some big parties hopefully!). I'll go to the amusement park often, since I have my season pass (GREAT place to pick up girls). And I'll be doing the bootcamp for sure.
I have reasons why I shouldn't feel needy around girls. I have great other things going on in my life. Fawk video games! Such a waste of time. Guys, learn to dance and do music. Yeah
Not many updates with girls lately!
I studied like crazy for my piano exam that happened today. It went great! I think I never practised that much in my whole life... I literately practised 9 hours almost non-stop XD.
I danced for an hour afterwards. Breakdance and I tried C-Walk too. I want to learn shuffle too! Dancing helped to boost my confidence a bit. When I walk, I feel more confident for some reason. It's just the vibe with the dance I guess.
Epic summer coming up. I'll be doing music videos and short films. I'll compose my music. I'll dance with my friends (and I'll try to attend some big parties hopefully!). I'll go to the amusement park often, since I have my season pass (GREAT place to pick up girls). And I'll be doing the bootcamp for sure.
I have reasons why I shouldn't feel needy around girls. I have great other things going on in my life. Fawk video games! Such a waste of time. Guys, learn to dance and do music. Yeah
Monday, June 4th
Did a personality test. Very very interesting!
I read about it fully, and I can really connect with it. I realized that it's confusing how I love talking to people but how I also need my alone time to think and meditate about things. I can be perceived as an extrovert sometimes, but I'm actually introverted for real. I'm a daydreamer, I like to think, and I find true happiness from within.
Didn't understand all of it because English isn't my 1st language, but I agree a lot with the second text at the bottom.
INFJ Profile
I feel like I know myself better now. I understand myself.
You guys should maybe take the test too, it's interesting.
Personality test based on Jung and Briggs Myers typology
Did a personality test. Very very interesting!
I read about it fully, and I can really connect with it. I realized that it's confusing how I love talking to people but how I also need my alone time to think and meditate about things. I can be perceived as an extrovert sometimes, but I'm actually introverted for real. I'm a daydreamer, I like to think, and I find true happiness from within.
Didn't understand all of it because English isn't my 1st language, but I agree a lot with the second text at the bottom.
INFJ Profile
I feel like I know myself better now. I understand myself.
You guys should maybe take the test too, it's interesting.
Personality test based on Jung and Briggs Myers typology
NorwegianDJ
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Apr 8, 2010
- Messages
- 2,562
- Reaction score
- 83
As long as you keep in mind not to identify too much with anything, as everything is subject to change; nothing is permanent.
Thursday, June 7th
I'm going no contact with Laos.
I'm not even talking to her, looking at her, anything like that. I talked to H, and damn he's such a fun guy. He's always so happy and he always give good emotions. There's no way I want to be mean to a guy like that. He doesn't deserve that... He has a crush on Laos, and I'm pretty sure it won't work out with the both of them but hey, bros before hoes right?
I though about it, and I'll just go to prom alone. HB big boobs, **** that! She might be funny sometimes, but she's a ***** and she's often in a bad mood these days. HB Blonde? I can still ask her to go to prom, but we friendzoned hard because I didn't care about getting her. HB Frizzy? I thought about it and she's not that pretty. She's getting friendlier and I'll just stay friends with her. Crazy how tastes can change sometimes.
I'm going to the big party for 11th grades in a week. It will be kickass! At least 150 people from my grade will be there. Too bad it's only people I know, but hey it will be fun anyway.
I'm feeling excited about tomorrow.
I'm going at the movie theaters with some buddies and I plan on picking up girls on the way. After the movies we will chill around the town and I'll do approaches.
I'll go with my nerdy friends and N, the guy I was hanging out with during the Boston trip. Also, there's this guy I used to do approaches with before. Actually, it was my first time going to the mall with the intent of approaching and getting rid of my fear. I was so terrified and I did so little... He though that we were pussies haha!
I talked to him about getting girls, and he's feeling kind of down for approaching too. But I'll be going first, and I will hopefully record myself too! Thing is N invited Drunky to come over after the movie to chill in town with us, and I just hope that she won't ****block me, because she likes to do her little attitude these days. I'll approach solo, but she and my friends can still make comments.
Truth is, if I fail they'll laugh, but if I succeed they'll be shocked. Whatever, I don't care if I get a number or not! As long as I approach, it is totally alright. It's not whenever I get good reactions from girls that I should feel good. I should feel good when I push my limits to the ****ing max.
I'll be wearing my **** YEAH T-Shirt tomorrow. **** yeah.
This video motivates me to get numbers for some reasons. Damn I want women like that
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FIfbghHdG1s
I'm going no contact with Laos.
I'm not even talking to her, looking at her, anything like that. I talked to H, and damn he's such a fun guy. He's always so happy and he always give good emotions. There's no way I want to be mean to a guy like that. He doesn't deserve that... He has a crush on Laos, and I'm pretty sure it won't work out with the both of them but hey, bros before hoes right?
I though about it, and I'll just go to prom alone. HB big boobs, **** that! She might be funny sometimes, but she's a ***** and she's often in a bad mood these days. HB Blonde? I can still ask her to go to prom, but we friendzoned hard because I didn't care about getting her. HB Frizzy? I thought about it and she's not that pretty. She's getting friendlier and I'll just stay friends with her. Crazy how tastes can change sometimes.
I'm going to the big party for 11th grades in a week. It will be kickass! At least 150 people from my grade will be there. Too bad it's only people I know, but hey it will be fun anyway.
I'm feeling excited about tomorrow.
I'm going at the movie theaters with some buddies and I plan on picking up girls on the way. After the movies we will chill around the town and I'll do approaches.
I'll go with my nerdy friends and N, the guy I was hanging out with during the Boston trip. Also, there's this guy I used to do approaches with before. Actually, it was my first time going to the mall with the intent of approaching and getting rid of my fear. I was so terrified and I did so little... He though that we were pussies haha!
I talked to him about getting girls, and he's feeling kind of down for approaching too. But I'll be going first, and I will hopefully record myself too! Thing is N invited Drunky to come over after the movie to chill in town with us, and I just hope that she won't ****block me, because she likes to do her little attitude these days. I'll approach solo, but she and my friends can still make comments.
Truth is, if I fail they'll laugh, but if I succeed they'll be shocked. Whatever, I don't care if I get a number or not! As long as I approach, it is totally alright. It's not whenever I get good reactions from girls that I should feel good. I should feel good when I push my limits to the ****ing max.
I'll be wearing my **** YEAH T-Shirt tomorrow. **** yeah.
This video motivates me to get numbers for some reasons. Damn I want women like that
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FIfbghHdG1s
apocolipto
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- May 14, 2012
- Messages
- 400
- Reaction score
- 1
Just go ahead and approach bro,and don't brag at this N chick about playing,or your friends.Chances are that if you fail,your gonna hear about it.
Other than that,rock the town
PS: nice video
Other than that,rock the town
PS: nice video
apocolipto
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- May 14, 2012
- Messages
- 400
- Reaction score
- 1
Lol it seemed N is a chick.
Anyway,being seen in action is cool.Last time I "bragged" about approaching the chick,I didn't really succeed.Not rejected,but not succeed,if you know what I mean.
Anyway,being seen in action is cool.Last time I "bragged" about approaching the chick,I didn't really succeed.Not rejected,but not succeed,if you know what I mean.
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
Just read about your talent show. You're awesome dude.
Man thanks for support!
What sucks is that I cannot feel like that anymore when I'm at school. It's like, I go back to my old self and I can't act like I'm the social guy anymore. It feels like it's only when I have the opportunity to start fresh all over again that I can allow myself to be the *new* me, more like the real me!
I can't wait til next year. I'll go to Cegep (in Canada, it's 2 years of school right before university) and meet tons of new people. The only thing is that it's harder to communicate in English (I'm French) because it's my second language. Whatever, I'll have to deal with this.
About the other night when I went to the movie theaters, I didn't approach any girl. I didn't see many girls of my age, and there were mainly adults because we were late at night (around 10:30 PM). I saw few young girls, and HB9s! I feel intimidated by girls that look too good, it's retarded. I give myself the excuse that she's too attractive to be approached, which doesn't make any ****ing sense. Lol...
Next day afternoon, went to the mall. Zero approaches again, and this really started to piss me off. I haven't approached random girls in a mall in weeks and I wasn't feeling that one. I felt like a ***** when I came back home. I have to get back on track and I promise myself that I'll do as soon as I can. I will ****ing own.
Talked to H and told him the truth. I actually lied to myself when I told him that I didn't like Laos. Lying to myself closed many opportunities to flirt, to escalate, and ignoring her was not good. I actually was interested, and suprisingly he didn't take it bad. He told me to go for it, even though I know he's probably in love with her a LOT more than me. I'm actually not in love at all, just attracted. I've been talking about her for SO ****ING long on this journal. This is over guys, this is over. Over! Over. For real. Like ****ing real. It's over. I have no excuses. NONE. H is alright with that. I'll just go, because H is too scared to do his move. I've been way too kind with my friends. I've let my friend have this girl, then again with Laos. And you know what? I was the one doing good with the girl! I was the first one to flirt. And what I did is I gave her up to my friend. Generosity is great, but to some limits. If I penalize myself, it's not good. Some of you guys told me to forget her, but how can I give up on her if I haven't even tried for REAL? Time is getting short. I have not many days left. GO
What sucks is that I cannot feel like that anymore when I'm at school. It's like, I go back to my old self and I can't act like I'm the social guy anymore. It feels like it's only when I have the opportunity to start fresh all over again that I can allow myself to be the *new* me, more like the real me!
I can't wait til next year. I'll go to Cegep (in Canada, it's 2 years of school right before university) and meet tons of new people. The only thing is that it's harder to communicate in English (I'm French) because it's my second language. Whatever, I'll have to deal with this.
About the other night when I went to the movie theaters, I didn't approach any girl. I didn't see many girls of my age, and there were mainly adults because we were late at night (around 10:30 PM). I saw few young girls, and HB9s! I feel intimidated by girls that look too good, it's retarded. I give myself the excuse that she's too attractive to be approached, which doesn't make any ****ing sense. Lol...
Next day afternoon, went to the mall. Zero approaches again, and this really started to piss me off. I haven't approached random girls in a mall in weeks and I wasn't feeling that one. I felt like a ***** when I came back home. I have to get back on track and I promise myself that I'll do as soon as I can. I will ****ing own.
Talked to H and told him the truth. I actually lied to myself when I told him that I didn't like Laos. Lying to myself closed many opportunities to flirt, to escalate, and ignoring her was not good. I actually was interested, and suprisingly he didn't take it bad. He told me to go for it, even though I know he's probably in love with her a LOT more than me. I'm actually not in love at all, just attracted. I've been talking about her for SO ****ING long on this journal. This is over guys, this is over. Over! Over. For real. Like ****ing real. It's over. I have no excuses. NONE. H is alright with that. I'll just go, because H is too scared to do his move. I've been way too kind with my friends. I've let my friend have this girl, then again with Laos. And you know what? I was the one doing good with the girl! I was the first one to flirt. And what I did is I gave her up to my friend. Generosity is great, but to some limits. If I penalize myself, it's not good. Some of you guys told me to forget her, but how can I give up on her if I haven't even tried for REAL? Time is getting short. I have not many days left. GO
Thanks for support coolkid! And about my game, I try to be authentic and myself and I believe it's the best thing you can ever do. Really good natural game? Well it can be pretty good some days but I still need practice!
Friday, June 15th
GRADUATION! + PARTY!
Yesterday was my graduation. All girls wore high heels and I used that as an opener. Talked to that girl that went to H's party a while ago, she's an HB6.5. We had a practice for the ceremony and it was long and boring... Nothing special.
Now, the real ceremony!
Just before the ceremony, all people from my grade gathered near the classrooms and I hugged and shook hands with people. We were all in a very happy state and it was cool! Then I saw Laos and I lost my cool as I went into my head again. I was anxious. Didn't approach. I talked to a bunch of other people and friends, and I finally approached when I felt good. I came into their little group with a welcoming smile. Said hi and she told me that I looked good today. I thanked her and complimented her back. I took a picture with her and that other cool asian friend. She seems shy, that's for sure. She was pretty today, with her eyelashes done.
Went to the classroom and whoa! HB Frizzy was a lot prettier than usual.
Me : Hey HB Frizzy, you look beautiful today.
Her : Well, **** you XD
Me : What, is that how you take a compliment?
Her : Well you told me that I'm beautiful TODAY, means that I wasn't pretty before?
Me : Haha, well of course you are but you're prettier today.
Her : Oh okay haha!
HB Blonde was hot too today. I learned that she's now in a relationship with a friend of mine. She's such a kind, respectful, polite and quite shy girl when it comes to relationships, and my friend is that kind of direct confident guy but he never studies and he can be kind of a jerk sometimes. I couldn't imagine how their personalities could match! Shows how girls are attracted to confidence right at the beginning.
The graduation ceremony was long as hell but it was still very memorable and symbolic. I enjoyed it even though it was boring. After we threw our graduation hats in the air, I hugged my friends and congratulated them and they did the same for me. Took nice pictures with people and I went upstairs in the school for the ****tail. Talked to more people and it was fun, but usually people I knew well. Then, me and my friend got ready to go to the party. I wore my flashing t-shirt that would flash light to the beat.
I went outside and saw Laos. I asked her if she was going to the party and she said that no because she was going to chill with H's friends at his house. I said alright, we hugged (she kept a little distance but rubbed her head on mine kind of). She seems either shy or uninterested. I don't know why I was feeling nervous at this point. When I think about it right now, I was ****ing too needy with her. What's with that? She's not that prettier than the rest.
We headed to the party and I chatted with the president of our school. He's probably the guy with the highest value and popularity in our grade and school! We were walking very chill and stuff, and that car passed by with a girl that screamed Goodbye to us. I didn't recognize her, but my friend told me she was Laos. She was screaming to me because she didn't know who the other guys were. I then ran to the car just for the fun of it screaming : Heey, come back! It was funny.
THE PARTY
We arrived early. Kind of disappointed because nobody was there yet! Nobody was dancing so we just ate some chocolates and candies while we waited.
Later, like at midnight, people arrived and we started dancing. At first I was a little nervous to join the group of girls and dance with them and I was overthinking. I was sticking with my guy friends and danced a little apart from the girls, even though they were next to us. I didn't know how I could fit in at first. But after a while, I told myself : NO, you're a boss and this is your party. Have fun tonight, and there is nothing else but today. There's nothing else but right now. I remembered how yesterday didn't matter, how tomorrow doesn't mean **** either, for right now at least. My lips started smiling by themselves and I entered a good state. I went in the middle of their little circle and danced with the girls as some of them cheered me. I did ridiculous moves like the chicken and other nonsense. They were all HB5-6s, maybe up to 7. My flashing T-Shirt drew a lot of attention and a lot of people commented on how my shirt was cool. I felt great and I was feeling good with being the center of attention. At some point, my friend N had his flashing T-Shirt on too, and we did a little breakdance battle. People were all watching and it was a cool experience. I wasn't feeling that anxious and I just enjoyed the moment as I danced and showed off my moves a bit. People cheered and it was fun. N was so anxious and told me that my shuffle dancing was too noobish to be done in public! I did and people though it was great, and I didn't practice that much. I didn't care about being good or not. I was just in my own world, doing my thing. I assumed that this good feeling was coming from deep inside. Not from the people cheering me, not from the music, not from the ambience, but it was coming from me. And the little anxious feelings too were caused by me. The world inside, is so much more than the world outside (thanks to self-hypnosis mp3s!).
I started joining other groups of girls dancing, and I had anxiety a bit because I didn't know if they were cool with that or not. They looked at me quick and continued dancing without really looking at me. I was anxious at first, but then I assumed that they were just shy, which was probably the case. I continued to look at the girl, didn't looked away and when our eyes met I smiled and she smiled back. I didn't know the girl but she was totally cool with it. She was shy! I was about to come close to grind her a bit, but then I just chickened out and left haha! She was an HB6.5 anyway. There was also that tall HB6.5 I talked to before (at the beginning of the post) and we held eye contact. She enjoyed it and I can bet that she kind of liked me. She seemed a little shy too, same goes for her other girl friend HB6.5 too (they were all 6.5s, not pretty enough to be 7s, or I was just too picky). Her friend danced in front of me pretty close, as if she was waiting for me to grind her or something. I just didn't do it. At some point, I was rubbing on some girl (Another 6.5) and she looked at me with a little smile. The girls I danced with were all HB5-6-7s for the most, and the hot HB8-9s were all the popular girls. I didn't really attempt to join them but I danced with the popular guys a bit.
My horniness level? ZERO. Almost absolute zero and even though I was touching girls, mostly by accident, I felt nothing sexual. I was just dancing for the fun of it, enjoying my time and feeling the music at the present moment. I felt like the girls were not good enough for me, that they were too unattractive. I was looking at their imperfections and not enjoying them. I didn't feel like I could approach the popular hot girls because they were surrounded by the guys and stuff. HB Blonde and Frizzy were the prettiest ones but I didn't dance as close to them as I did with the other ones. Blonde was taken anyway, and Frizzy is not my type in terms of personality. I became so picky, what the ****! Lol...
I talked to the bartender and asked for water. I couldn't order beer because I wasn't major haha. That hot popular girl HB8.5 came next to me to order something too. I looked at her, our eyes met and her face lit up as she said hi to me. I was feeling in total control and relaxed.
Her : Hey! How's it going!
Me : Very good, what about you?
Her : Yeah.
Me : So, are you enjoying your time here?
Her : Haha yeah! I came here because my friend of mine tried to introduce me to that guy I don't even like, and I decided to come here instead to get some water.
Me : Haha, so you prefer the water to the guy XD
Her : Haha no, blablalbal
Me : I don't like when people try to make couples.
Her : Yeah!
Me : I mean, it's way better if it happens naturally.
We talked a bit more. I felt like I could've flirted a little with her at least, but I didn't because I was worrying about my reputation and how she would reject me. Then her hot popular friend arrived and I just left. I didn't know who she was haha.
Near the end of the party, my friend HB5 was always sticking to me and touching me like crazy. Touching my legs, arms, and asking me random things. She was totally drunk but I was repulsed by her. I took her by the shoulders and sat her down so she could calm the **** down haha. I asked her if I could take a sip of her water and she screamed and said no. I then asked politely again and she spilled water on my jeans... I was kind of mad but it dried off fast because temperature was hot. I sat next to that HB6, a friend, and she was pretty touchy and close to me too. She wasn't drunk she told me, and she asked me if I wanted to dance with a girl. I said no, she asked why, told her I didn't feel like dancing with a girl. She kept playing with my hands and stuff, told me that she wished that her boyfriend was here. She was still very close to me and the tall HB6.5 girl looked at me like she was jealous. The guy came and putted all the lights on. The party was over and we all had to leave. Hugged all my girl friends before leaving.
Friday, June 15th
GRADUATION! + PARTY!
Yesterday was my graduation. All girls wore high heels and I used that as an opener. Talked to that girl that went to H's party a while ago, she's an HB6.5. We had a practice for the ceremony and it was long and boring... Nothing special.
Now, the real ceremony!
Just before the ceremony, all people from my grade gathered near the classrooms and I hugged and shook hands with people. We were all in a very happy state and it was cool! Then I saw Laos and I lost my cool as I went into my head again. I was anxious. Didn't approach. I talked to a bunch of other people and friends, and I finally approached when I felt good. I came into their little group with a welcoming smile. Said hi and she told me that I looked good today. I thanked her and complimented her back. I took a picture with her and that other cool asian friend. She seems shy, that's for sure. She was pretty today, with her eyelashes done.
Went to the classroom and whoa! HB Frizzy was a lot prettier than usual.
Me : Hey HB Frizzy, you look beautiful today.
Her : Well, **** you XD
Me : What, is that how you take a compliment?
Her : Well you told me that I'm beautiful TODAY, means that I wasn't pretty before?
Me : Haha, well of course you are but you're prettier today.
Her : Oh okay haha!
HB Blonde was hot too today. I learned that she's now in a relationship with a friend of mine. She's such a kind, respectful, polite and quite shy girl when it comes to relationships, and my friend is that kind of direct confident guy but he never studies and he can be kind of a jerk sometimes. I couldn't imagine how their personalities could match! Shows how girls are attracted to confidence right at the beginning.
The graduation ceremony was long as hell but it was still very memorable and symbolic. I enjoyed it even though it was boring. After we threw our graduation hats in the air, I hugged my friends and congratulated them and they did the same for me. Took nice pictures with people and I went upstairs in the school for the ****tail. Talked to more people and it was fun, but usually people I knew well. Then, me and my friend got ready to go to the party. I wore my flashing t-shirt that would flash light to the beat.
I went outside and saw Laos. I asked her if she was going to the party and she said that no because she was going to chill with H's friends at his house. I said alright, we hugged (she kept a little distance but rubbed her head on mine kind of). She seems either shy or uninterested. I don't know why I was feeling nervous at this point. When I think about it right now, I was ****ing too needy with her. What's with that? She's not that prettier than the rest.
We headed to the party and I chatted with the president of our school. He's probably the guy with the highest value and popularity in our grade and school! We were walking very chill and stuff, and that car passed by with a girl that screamed Goodbye to us. I didn't recognize her, but my friend told me she was Laos. She was screaming to me because she didn't know who the other guys were. I then ran to the car just for the fun of it screaming : Heey, come back! It was funny.
THE PARTY
We arrived early. Kind of disappointed because nobody was there yet! Nobody was dancing so we just ate some chocolates and candies while we waited.
Later, like at midnight, people arrived and we started dancing. At first I was a little nervous to join the group of girls and dance with them and I was overthinking. I was sticking with my guy friends and danced a little apart from the girls, even though they were next to us. I didn't know how I could fit in at first. But after a while, I told myself : NO, you're a boss and this is your party. Have fun tonight, and there is nothing else but today. There's nothing else but right now. I remembered how yesterday didn't matter, how tomorrow doesn't mean **** either, for right now at least. My lips started smiling by themselves and I entered a good state. I went in the middle of their little circle and danced with the girls as some of them cheered me. I did ridiculous moves like the chicken and other nonsense. They were all HB5-6s, maybe up to 7. My flashing T-Shirt drew a lot of attention and a lot of people commented on how my shirt was cool. I felt great and I was feeling good with being the center of attention. At some point, my friend N had his flashing T-Shirt on too, and we did a little breakdance battle. People were all watching and it was a cool experience. I wasn't feeling that anxious and I just enjoyed the moment as I danced and showed off my moves a bit. People cheered and it was fun. N was so anxious and told me that my shuffle dancing was too noobish to be done in public! I did and people though it was great, and I didn't practice that much. I didn't care about being good or not. I was just in my own world, doing my thing. I assumed that this good feeling was coming from deep inside. Not from the people cheering me, not from the music, not from the ambience, but it was coming from me. And the little anxious feelings too were caused by me. The world inside, is so much more than the world outside (thanks to self-hypnosis mp3s!).
I started joining other groups of girls dancing, and I had anxiety a bit because I didn't know if they were cool with that or not. They looked at me quick and continued dancing without really looking at me. I was anxious at first, but then I assumed that they were just shy, which was probably the case. I continued to look at the girl, didn't looked away and when our eyes met I smiled and she smiled back. I didn't know the girl but she was totally cool with it. She was shy! I was about to come close to grind her a bit, but then I just chickened out and left haha! She was an HB6.5 anyway. There was also that tall HB6.5 I talked to before (at the beginning of the post) and we held eye contact. She enjoyed it and I can bet that she kind of liked me. She seemed a little shy too, same goes for her other girl friend HB6.5 too (they were all 6.5s, not pretty enough to be 7s, or I was just too picky). Her friend danced in front of me pretty close, as if she was waiting for me to grind her or something. I just didn't do it. At some point, I was rubbing on some girl (Another 6.5) and she looked at me with a little smile. The girls I danced with were all HB5-6-7s for the most, and the hot HB8-9s were all the popular girls. I didn't really attempt to join them but I danced with the popular guys a bit.
My horniness level? ZERO. Almost absolute zero and even though I was touching girls, mostly by accident, I felt nothing sexual. I was just dancing for the fun of it, enjoying my time and feeling the music at the present moment. I felt like the girls were not good enough for me, that they were too unattractive. I was looking at their imperfections and not enjoying them. I didn't feel like I could approach the popular hot girls because they were surrounded by the guys and stuff. HB Blonde and Frizzy were the prettiest ones but I didn't dance as close to them as I did with the other ones. Blonde was taken anyway, and Frizzy is not my type in terms of personality. I became so picky, what the ****! Lol...
I talked to the bartender and asked for water. I couldn't order beer because I wasn't major haha. That hot popular girl HB8.5 came next to me to order something too. I looked at her, our eyes met and her face lit up as she said hi to me. I was feeling in total control and relaxed.
Her : Hey! How's it going!
Me : Very good, what about you?
Her : Yeah.
Me : So, are you enjoying your time here?
Her : Haha yeah! I came here because my friend of mine tried to introduce me to that guy I don't even like, and I decided to come here instead to get some water.
Me : Haha, so you prefer the water to the guy XD
Her : Haha no, blablalbal
Me : I don't like when people try to make couples.
Her : Yeah!
Me : I mean, it's way better if it happens naturally.
We talked a bit more. I felt like I could've flirted a little with her at least, but I didn't because I was worrying about my reputation and how she would reject me. Then her hot popular friend arrived and I just left. I didn't know who she was haha.
Near the end of the party, my friend HB5 was always sticking to me and touching me like crazy. Touching my legs, arms, and asking me random things. She was totally drunk but I was repulsed by her. I took her by the shoulders and sat her down so she could calm the **** down haha. I asked her if I could take a sip of her water and she screamed and said no. I then asked politely again and she spilled water on my jeans... I was kind of mad but it dried off fast because temperature was hot. I sat next to that HB6, a friend, and she was pretty touchy and close to me too. She wasn't drunk she told me, and she asked me if I wanted to dance with a girl. I said no, she asked why, told her I didn't feel like dancing with a girl. She kept playing with my hands and stuff, told me that she wished that her boyfriend was here. She was still very close to me and the tall HB6.5 girl looked at me like she was jealous. The guy came and putted all the lights on. The party was over and we all had to leave. Hugged all my girl friends before leaving.
We went to McDonalds to meet with my buddies and some of the girls we danced with. My friend accused me of ****blocking him but he wasn't mad because I didn't know he was going for that girl haha. We made some sexual jokes and I hugged the girls before leaving. I asked the HB5.5's name :
*hug*
Me : Hey, what's your name?
Her : _____, and you are... Mindgamez is that right?
Me : How you know, you're a stalker?
Other girl laughs
Her : Haha nah! Well we talked about you for like 3 hours when you weren't here.
Me : Oh I see haha, that's interesting
*smiles*, then I don't remember what I said.
That's pretty much it.
Now that I'm home writing about this, I was thinking about something. I could ruin H's prom by taking Laos. That would be terrible. At the same time, I feel guilty for liking her. Because I don't have real reasons to like her. If you ask me why I was needy, my only argument is that she's kind of pretty. She has a cute face and smile, HB7, 7.5 max.
CONCLUSION
When it comes to dancing, I can have a load of fun and just enjoy myself. I realized how I wasn't needy around the girls in general and how it allowed me to just have fun. I didn't act mostly because I wasn't feeling horny and not in a sexual mode. I started being picky and I though that the girls weren't good enough for me. This means my confidence is growing and that I'm starting to set standards naturally. At the same time, I couldn't approach the popular hot girls because I didn't feel like I could fit in. Still had a lot of fun dancing, feeling the music and being with my friends. It was a great night. Realized that being non-needy and having my own fun makes me more attractive, even though I knew that already. I had the experience, that's the difference.
The girls I rated 6.5, I though they were HB7s and up before no kidding, but I just became so picky for some reason. I want to see new faces, I'm tired of seeing the same girls all the time! It's been 5 years haha.
I completed 4 days of No Masturbation and I'm at my 5th day today. Though, I'm not feeling the need to masturbate at all. Is this normal?
*hug*
Me : Hey, what's your name?
Her : _____, and you are... Mindgamez is that right?
Me : How you know, you're a stalker?
Other girl laughs
Her : Haha nah! Well we talked about you for like 3 hours when you weren't here.
Me : Oh I see haha, that's interesting
*smiles*, then I don't remember what I said.
That's pretty much it.
Now that I'm home writing about this, I was thinking about something. I could ruin H's prom by taking Laos. That would be terrible. At the same time, I feel guilty for liking her. Because I don't have real reasons to like her. If you ask me why I was needy, my only argument is that she's kind of pretty. She has a cute face and smile, HB7, 7.5 max.
CONCLUSION
When it comes to dancing, I can have a load of fun and just enjoy myself. I realized how I wasn't needy around the girls in general and how it allowed me to just have fun. I didn't act mostly because I wasn't feeling horny and not in a sexual mode. I started being picky and I though that the girls weren't good enough for me. This means my confidence is growing and that I'm starting to set standards naturally. At the same time, I couldn't approach the popular hot girls because I didn't feel like I could fit in. Still had a lot of fun dancing, feeling the music and being with my friends. It was a great night. Realized that being non-needy and having my own fun makes me more attractive, even though I knew that already. I had the experience, that's the difference.
The girls I rated 6.5, I though they were HB7s and up before no kidding, but I just became so picky for some reason. I want to see new faces, I'm tired of seeing the same girls all the time! It's been 5 years haha.
I completed 4 days of No Masturbation and I'm at my 5th day today. Though, I'm not feeling the need to masturbate at all. Is this normal?
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
Waiting to start dancing threw you off. If you had owned the dancing from the beginning, when the popular kids started to join in, you encourage them and use that as an opener. After confidently opening at the first opportunity, everyone becomes much more likely to dance with you.
Yeah, I have to be in state since the beginning! But it's hard to start off high energy at first when the ambience is not really present. I have to do it regardless of the environment.
Sunday, June 17th
Aww man! I hate ****blocking parents and sister...
Man, I just can't feel like I can flirt when there are parents everywhere around. I was at my piano concert today and I started off not really in the best mood. I was feeling a little anxious about my performance but also about talking to people. I socialized with the parents a bit, and then the girl arrived. She looks HB8.7 on her facebook pictures which is pretty damn good But with a little too much make up she was an HB8. Beautiful ass! She kind of reminds me of Cameron Diaz. Same kind of eyes, lips, but straight hair : http://www.makems.com/graphic/cameron-diaz-3.jpg
She opened me first and she was the one to ask me multiple questions about which school I wanted to attempt later, what program I'll study. We chatted a bit and she was very receptive the whole time. During the actual concert, we didn't talk much because I though that it wasn't the best moment to talk to her. Also, I didn't want to disturb the kids doing their performance. Was I just making excuses? Probably... lol.
Later during that day, I saw her again and we started chatting one on one. She has a nice welcoming smile. It was kind of fluff talk, but I was comfortable with it. She was getting a little touchy and I was ready to throw some compliments, then my sister and her boyfriend arrived right next to me. Her mom, then her kid, then my dad, then my mom. Ugh **** haha! Man I swear that if they weren't there I would've done something about it. I though about isolating her, but I didn't because I feel awkward when my parents are right next to me. I never talk about girls, relationship or sex with my parents. Though, one day they asked me if I was going to prom with a girl, which made me a little uncomfortable. I don't know why I feel like that with my parents. They are my parents after all, good people I can trust! Whatever lol.
The girl left to go see my piano teacher. I could've followed her but I didn't do **** because my parents where there. Excuses again! We left the place together and I didn't even had the opportunity to say goodbye to her. I feel bad now, but whatever.
Sunday, June 17th
Aww man! I hate ****blocking parents and sister...
Man, I just can't feel like I can flirt when there are parents everywhere around. I was at my piano concert today and I started off not really in the best mood. I was feeling a little anxious about my performance but also about talking to people. I socialized with the parents a bit, and then the girl arrived. She looks HB8.7 on her facebook pictures which is pretty damn good But with a little too much make up she was an HB8. Beautiful ass! She kind of reminds me of Cameron Diaz. Same kind of eyes, lips, but straight hair : http://www.makems.com/graphic/cameron-diaz-3.jpg
She opened me first and she was the one to ask me multiple questions about which school I wanted to attempt later, what program I'll study. We chatted a bit and she was very receptive the whole time. During the actual concert, we didn't talk much because I though that it wasn't the best moment to talk to her. Also, I didn't want to disturb the kids doing their performance. Was I just making excuses? Probably... lol.
Later during that day, I saw her again and we started chatting one on one. She has a nice welcoming smile. It was kind of fluff talk, but I was comfortable with it. She was getting a little touchy and I was ready to throw some compliments, then my sister and her boyfriend arrived right next to me. Her mom, then her kid, then my dad, then my mom. Ugh **** haha! Man I swear that if they weren't there I would've done something about it. I though about isolating her, but I didn't because I feel awkward when my parents are right next to me. I never talk about girls, relationship or sex with my parents. Though, one day they asked me if I was going to prom with a girl, which made me a little uncomfortable. I don't know why I feel like that with my parents. They are my parents after all, good people I can trust! Whatever lol.
The girl left to go see my piano teacher. I could've followed her but I didn't do **** because my parents where there. Excuses again! We left the place together and I didn't even had the opportunity to say goodbye to her. I feel bad now, but whatever.
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
Facebook! Salvage this!Mindgamez said:
Your message could be: "It was great meeting you, but you never said bye!" then when she responds you lead the conversation toward a one-on-one date.
Jack Wealthy
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 6, 2010
- Messages
- 824
- Reaction score
- 10
I think a lot of your problem is you're too nice guy. If you want to get laid you have to be honest to your intentions and that can mean being a **** sometimes. One of the easiest things is change the topic of your sexual jokes to yourself and make them ****ier:
MG: Haha, so you prefer the water to the guy XD
VS
MG2.0: Oh, so you like me better then.
MG : What, is that how you take a compliment?
Her : Well you told me that I'm beautiful TODAY, means that I wasn't pretty before?
MG2.0: Yes.
just be more of an ******* as well as more direct and girls will get more turned on. I don't know why. The important thing is after you say something like this, regardless of the girls reaction, continue onwards. I've gotten shocked expressions, been told I'm a **** and been told to **** off. I've pulled all of those through. By sticking by what you've said you show you're a strong person and sincere. If you apologise she'll think you're a suck up. Walk off if the reaction is legit bad. Or look at her funny.
MG: Haha, so you prefer the water to the guy XD
VS
MG2.0: Oh, so you like me better then.
MG : What, is that how you take a compliment?
Her : Well you told me that I'm beautiful TODAY, means that I wasn't pretty before?
MG2.0: Yes.
just be more of an ******* as well as more direct and girls will get more turned on. I don't know why. The important thing is after you say something like this, regardless of the girls reaction, continue onwards. I've gotten shocked expressions, been told I'm a **** and been told to **** off. I've pulled all of those through. By sticking by what you've said you show you're a strong person and sincere. If you apologise she'll think you're a suck up. Walk off if the reaction is legit bad. Or look at her funny.
I asked him how he ran that fast, and he told me that all the motivation I needed is in my mind. “Imagine your own world and blot out everything else.”
So I asked, “What do you imagine?”
He replied, “What do you?”
I told him that to run faster, I imagine I am being chased by a wolf.
With a cold and sinister stare he answered, “In my mind, I am the one chasing the wolf.”
Wednesday, June 20th
Yesterday night, I was studying but I said that I'll catch up on the next morning even though I wasn't finished yet. I went to bed earlier.
I laid in the bed and started thinking. I remembered that story I read earlier about the two friends racing against each other. Was I being chased by the wolf, or was I chasing the wolf? I took a time to look at fear. For real, I dared to look at fear in the eye. Who was the one leading me? Fear was. I was running away from fear. I ran away from fear probably my whole life. This is all I did. I tried to escape bad situations as much as possible.
It was enough for me. I want to end this forever.
I though about every single opportunity I missed, every shot I could've taken, everything. I was disappointed.
I took things to lightly. How bad do I want it? I want to reach a mastery level of confidence so ****ing bad. As bad as I want to breathe. My desire's so strong that there's no way fear will block my way. I then remembered my purpose in all of this. I don't particularly want a girl. My purpose is to become a good conversationalist, to be confident, and to become a leader. I know that the more pain, the more fear I have to go through, the better I get. SO BRING IT ON! I'm not afraid of fear. You can come any day. I'm not afraid of pain. I don't fear you anymore.
When I arrived to school the next morning, I had to catch up on my studying. I talked to some people but I had to leave and go upstairs. When I was finished, I went back to the lockers. Talked to the people a bit for fun and I signed couple of year books. I made friends with that new girl. She's only a 6 but still nice. When I was talking to her, Laos was glancing at a me couple times. Told myself : No ****ing excuses, just ****ing go.
Talked to her a bit but it was about the exam that was coming up. We smiled at each other often and it was pleasant.
Her : Okay well, it's time to go upstairs for the exam.
Me : Yeah
*she walks, and I follow*
Her : Oh, you're coming too?
Me : Yeah, you're my favorite stalker!
Her : *giggles*
Two random guys cut in front of me, separating us. I though about a way to go back next to her with ease. She was then walking a little faster. Thought about all the times I pussied out to talk to her. It was enough. Told myself **** IT NO EXCUSES. JUST GO. I pushed the guys and just ran next to her. We chatted a bit, told her she was my pretty Laos, and I don't remember the rest.
We arrived at the classrooms's floor.
Me : So, you're going to prom with H right?
Her : Yeah it's been a long time.
Me : At first I wanted to go with you.
Her : Oh really?
At this point, she smiled as she looked at me. Her face lit up.
Me : But when H told me that he was going with you, I though that it would really suck for him if I went with you.
Her : Ohh
Me : So that's why I was kind of keeping a distance from you.
Her : Ohh okay
When I said those last 2 sentences, I was a little nervous so I wasn't really looking at her. Didn't see her reaction but it doesn't matter to me.
We turned the corner, so we split up.
Her : Well Imma go do my exam now, bye!
Me : Bye!
Feels liberating. Wanted to chat with her again after the exam but she wasn't here. Tomorrow I'll sign her year book and leave my number so she'll just call me if she feels like it.
I said what I had to say, and I didn't betray H. He's a good guy and he doesn't deserve that. Prom is something important to most of us, even though I think it's overrated. Hope that it works out for H and Laos. At the same time, I want to **** her though HAHAHA! But in a non-needy way.
I felt different today. I feel like I want to conquer my fears an save the world. If I become a good conversationalist, I'll make a good leader. If I'm a good leader, I'll be a good movie director. If I'm a good movie director, I'll make a lot of money. So I'll have a lot of money to donate to poor people. I know that this is going pretty far, but if you look beyond, you find better motivation. This is why I feel great right now.
Tomorrow is a great day. Last day of high school, for life. I'm ending a chapter, and starting a new one. This is over guys, this is OVER!
Then, I'll go approaching at the mall with a wing I met on this forum.
GOAL : Do my 10 approaches tomorrow and hold them for 30 seconds for each of them at least. I will attempt number closes and I will go direct.
I think I never felt as motivated about this before. I'm evolving.
So I asked, “What do you imagine?”
He replied, “What do you?”
I told him that to run faster, I imagine I am being chased by a wolf.
With a cold and sinister stare he answered, “In my mind, I am the one chasing the wolf.”
Wednesday, June 20th
Yesterday night, I was studying but I said that I'll catch up on the next morning even though I wasn't finished yet. I went to bed earlier.
I laid in the bed and started thinking. I remembered that story I read earlier about the two friends racing against each other. Was I being chased by the wolf, or was I chasing the wolf? I took a time to look at fear. For real, I dared to look at fear in the eye. Who was the one leading me? Fear was. I was running away from fear. I ran away from fear probably my whole life. This is all I did. I tried to escape bad situations as much as possible.
It was enough for me. I want to end this forever.
I though about every single opportunity I missed, every shot I could've taken, everything. I was disappointed.
I took things to lightly. How bad do I want it? I want to reach a mastery level of confidence so ****ing bad. As bad as I want to breathe. My desire's so strong that there's no way fear will block my way. I then remembered my purpose in all of this. I don't particularly want a girl. My purpose is to become a good conversationalist, to be confident, and to become a leader. I know that the more pain, the more fear I have to go through, the better I get. SO BRING IT ON! I'm not afraid of fear. You can come any day. I'm not afraid of pain. I don't fear you anymore.
When I arrived to school the next morning, I had to catch up on my studying. I talked to some people but I had to leave and go upstairs. When I was finished, I went back to the lockers. Talked to the people a bit for fun and I signed couple of year books. I made friends with that new girl. She's only a 6 but still nice. When I was talking to her, Laos was glancing at a me couple times. Told myself : No ****ing excuses, just ****ing go.
Talked to her a bit but it was about the exam that was coming up. We smiled at each other often and it was pleasant.
Her : Okay well, it's time to go upstairs for the exam.
Me : Yeah
*she walks, and I follow*
Her : Oh, you're coming too?
Me : Yeah, you're my favorite stalker!
Her : *giggles*
Two random guys cut in front of me, separating us. I though about a way to go back next to her with ease. She was then walking a little faster. Thought about all the times I pussied out to talk to her. It was enough. Told myself **** IT NO EXCUSES. JUST GO. I pushed the guys and just ran next to her. We chatted a bit, told her she was my pretty Laos, and I don't remember the rest.
We arrived at the classrooms's floor.
Me : So, you're going to prom with H right?
Her : Yeah it's been a long time.
Me : At first I wanted to go with you.
Her : Oh really?
At this point, she smiled as she looked at me. Her face lit up.
Me : But when H told me that he was going with you, I though that it would really suck for him if I went with you.
Her : Ohh
Me : So that's why I was kind of keeping a distance from you.
Her : Ohh okay
When I said those last 2 sentences, I was a little nervous so I wasn't really looking at her. Didn't see her reaction but it doesn't matter to me.
We turned the corner, so we split up.
Her : Well Imma go do my exam now, bye!
Me : Bye!
Feels liberating. Wanted to chat with her again after the exam but she wasn't here. Tomorrow I'll sign her year book and leave my number so she'll just call me if she feels like it.
I said what I had to say, and I didn't betray H. He's a good guy and he doesn't deserve that. Prom is something important to most of us, even though I think it's overrated. Hope that it works out for H and Laos. At the same time, I want to **** her though HAHAHA! But in a non-needy way.
I felt different today. I feel like I want to conquer my fears an save the world. If I become a good conversationalist, I'll make a good leader. If I'm a good leader, I'll be a good movie director. If I'm a good movie director, I'll make a lot of money. So I'll have a lot of money to donate to poor people. I know that this is going pretty far, but if you look beyond, you find better motivation. This is why I feel great right now.
Tomorrow is a great day. Last day of high school, for life. I'm ending a chapter, and starting a new one. This is over guys, this is OVER!
Then, I'll go approaching at the mall with a wing I met on this forum.
GOAL : Do my 10 approaches tomorrow and hold them for 30 seconds for each of them at least. I will attempt number closes and I will go direct.
I think I never felt as motivated about this before. I'm evolving.
