Jayer's 100 Approach Journal (Will Finish 100 approaches no matter what)

[SickAgain]

You realize that this approach journal has become a date journal. Go back to approaching. And you have no choice but to next the girl since you blew her off with that last comment. So if you hit her up again she will lose all (remaining) respect for you.

 

[Alphamale1821]

Well jayer i must say i'm impressed, you've really come a long way. Your attitude seems to be quiet well. Just focus on whats important to you and go from their. You've already decided that you want to NEXT the biitch so be decisive and stick with your decision. Your doing good, and don't worry about CnF just be natural and you will know when to turn it up an down. Now go out their and approach some more biitches.

 

[Ever onward]

I was like "well I'm on my way out so I don't know when I'll be able to talk to you.... if you're show is more important than talking to me you take that chance...."

I wouldn't recommend giving women ultimatums like that. I'm not sure how it goes but there is a quote that says something about the only people that give ultimatums are the powerless.

And I know you got other options Jayer but clearly you already had made some emotional investment in this situation. Speaking of being too emotional...

She says something like in a very direct manner "ya know my whole thing is I like to go out and have a good time. I can't honestly say that I drove all the way out to see you and I had a good time..... "

OUCH, that was a cold comment. I probably would have reacted like you did.

Well DJ's like with a lot of my moves..... you are either going to say I did the right thing or rip into me..... but as soon as she said this I just hung up the phone....

Like I said, I probably would have let my emotions get the better of me too. But I think the best move would have been to end the call politely. Don't let her know she got to you. As soon as you did it she probably thought "ohhh I hurt the little boy's feelings". Women sure are cold sometimes.

It felt good....... I mean from my point of view this girl wasn't worth the efforts... She is basically saying she wants a guy that supplicates..... and you know what.... she should have met met me like 5 years ago if thats the case......

I'm sure it did feel good. You took a stand. You don't need her. Just don't give her the satisfaction of knowing she got to you is all...

I respond with "hopefully those guys you meet in the club will show you more respect...."

That's a weak statement right there man. It shows that you're insecure. I mean you weren't in an exclusive relationship were you? Nooo you weren't. And if you want to get serious with a girl, you got to ask yourself what kind of girl you want. Do you want a club girl that goes out a lot? Hmmmm. Regardless, don't carry that fear of loss with you. Having a fear of loss with a particular girl is almost a guarantee that you will lose her.

and that was that.... I took her off my Myspace and she hasn't responded since.... I expected like some cursing out or some departing insults but nothing.....

That's an iffy move taking her off Myspace....

I don't know about you but I don't let just anybody on my Myspace. I keep it for my personal friends. But what about you Jayer? Are you using it to be a player and to build an awesome social life? If so then it might not have hurt to leave her on there...who knows, if you had left her there she might message you to get together sometime (assuming you ignored her after leaving her on her list). And assuming you just wanted to use her for sex (and not a relationship). As this girl has proven to you that she isn't relationship material already.

Finally, taking her off Myspace again says to her that you were emotionally hurt by her actions....just something to think about there...

But ultimately, it's up to you to decide who you want on your friends list. If you would rather not deal with her ever again and would rather not have someone like her on her friends list, then you did make the right move.

Anyway, gotta give you props buddy! You have my vote for Sosuave's most improved of 2007. Keep rollin' DJ!

 

[Reyaj]

You realize that this approach journal has become a date journal. Go back to approaching. And you have no choice but to next the girl since you blew her off with that last comment. So if you hit her up again she will lose all (remaining) respect for you.

I am actually just logging everything that comes out of the approach to try and learn the most out of my experiences.

I did 6 approaches last week and got laid with HB 7 I've been talking to you... I will post all the details in a bit....

I have yet to call back any of the numbers and hopefully the next time I post to this report I will have... I have a feeling some of them might not be legit but we'll see.

AlphaMale

I agree. I did 6 approaches last week I need to post about here.

EverOnward

You may be right about jumping the gun too soon... but I honestly felt she insulted me and it was at that moment I decided to next her.

I have a feeling she might have taken me off the myspace anyway... but I just did first. Still it was also safety..... you never know what girls do out of anger. Maybe she would have contacted other plates I was spinning on my page and try and block me.

Anyway I have very interesting results to post back on here regarding approaches and scoring I hope to do so later if not tomorrow as it all has kept me very busy

 

[joe12345]

Ok so I respond with simply this

"wow so thats your intrperation of me driving out of my way to take you to a nice theater...... thanks"


She responds with some other bs.... but whatever I don't even care at this point because I had a bowling date with the other HB 7 who I have been at least hooking up with a bit.



So anyway she actually texts me while i'm on my date so I respond "hey I'll call you tomorrow I'm out bowling right now"

She responds "ok whatever you say"


So anyway I basically had a bunch of drinks and on my way home I end up talking to her on the phone as she is out with her friends going to some club or what not.

She says something like in a very direct manner "ya know my whole thing is I like to go out and have a good time. I can't honestly say that I drove all the way out to see you and I had a good time..... "


Well DJ's like with a lot of my moves..... you are either going to say I did the right thing or rip into me..... but as soon as she said this I just hung up the phone....

It felt good....... I mean from my point of view this girl wasn't worth the efforts... She is basically saying she wants a guy that supplicates..... and you know what.... she should have met met me like 5 years ago if thats the case......


So she texts me and says "I didn't hang up....."


I respond with "hopefully those guys you meet in the club will show you more respect...."



and that was that.... I took her off my Myspace and she hasn't responded since.... I expected like some cursing out or some departing insults but nothing.....



What do you all think?

you did the right thing...move on..dont let a get make u act like a clown...and never date someone farther then 30 minutes

 

[nando]

As true as that might be.... I wasn't going to get any from her anyway. At least it made me feel better and maybe she will think twice about disrespecting the next guy. I take 1 for the team

LOL! good stuff bro! keep it up

 

[Reyaj]

Ok now time for the field report on the 6 approaches I did last Thursday and the HB 7 I have been seeing which I finally beded!

Lets start with the approaches. I did a total of 6 last Thursday. I will admit right now that the details are going to be a bit hazy as I was drinking heavily. None the less something made me go out and approach this club like I have never done so before.

So basically after a while of drinking with some friends I decided to move in on some girls on the dance floor to warm up.... My wings came with me and I opened the set by approaching 1 girl i was attracted to in particular. I opened up with the "excuse me you just bumped into me" line and took it from there.... THIS DOES NOT COUNT as one of my approaches because as the girl wasn't showing me very high IOI I decided not to ask for the number but to part ways ambically when her friends dragged her away.... I did this to a few others who just gave fluff talk but not strong enough IOI

I just did this as a warm up.... now that my confidence was starting to kick into gear lets get to the real approaches where I went for the digits.......

I see a girl standing by the beer with a 2 set that she isn't heavily talking to. I decide to move in

Me: Hey what does that stamp on your hand mean?
Her: It just means that I paid my entrance..
Me: That's cool.... so what's your name?
Her: I'm HB 7, you?
Me: I'm Jayer nice to meet you
Me: where are you from.... how old are you etc......

*Note I lied about my age since most of the girls in this place were younger.. we will see how this plays out
Me: let me get your number we should talk some time
Her: (sort of hesitant) okkk
I pulled out cell phone and she put her number in. She told me her name and it was somewhat weird....

I actually called it privately the other day and the name on her voice mail was different.... but we'll get to why I have waited this long to call because I've experienced some unfortunate circumstances which may have cost me any chance with any of these girls. We will see though when i call them later.

Ok so I decide to scope the scene a bit more and I head onto the dance floor. I see this HB 8.5 Blonde Blue Eyed Girl dancing.... I decide to move in confidently and start dancing with her.

She sticks her hand in my face and says "no sorry"

Me: What.... you don't like my hair or something lol....
Her: Its not that, I just don't go out with guys from clubs sorry
Me: Well thats good you shouldnt. I'm not like other guys though....
Her: (laughing) of my God thats what you all say.....
Me: lol its true.... so anyway whats your name, what you do etc...
Her: (after telling me all that) do you know how old I am?
Me: No how old?
Her: 18.........
Me: wow you look very mature...
Her: thanks... hey can you buy me some water I'm thirsty
Me: Well you have to come with me to the bar......
Her: ok.....

She starts walking towards bar but I lose her in the crowd. When I find her she looks at me and is like "I'm sorry I can't do tihs.. I have to go find my friends" and she walks away....

I end up seeing her leaving later on at the night and I went up to her

Me: Hey let me get your number before you leave
Her: I'm sorry I don't give that out.... I have to go...
Me: Come on... I just want to get to know you better
Her: sorry... I'll see you here next time....

She leaves and thats that.


Ok but anyway in all the time before that 4 other approaches were made!

 

[Reyaj]

So the next girl I see is an HB 8 standing around talking to her friend and I'm standing nearby talking to mine.... I decide to move in

I approach her face to face

Me: Hey I like your shirt....
Her: oh thank you....
Me: just being honest, whats your name?
Her: I'm HB 8
Me: nice to meet you... where you from how old etc..

Well it turns out this was another young one and she actually goes to school out of state and was on semester break

She then ends up getting dragged back into the crowd with her friends talking to them.

So I go back to chilling with my friends.... One of my friends was like "you didn't get her number!" I'm like well I was going to but she got dragged away...

Now I don't know what happend to me at that moment but I saw her on the side talking to her friends and I decided to walk right back to her....

Me: so when do you go back to school?
Her: oh not for a few weeks....
Me: sounds like a lot of time we should hang out sometime
Her: yeah that would be cool
Me: Whats your number I'll give you a call (pulling out my phone)

She gives me the number and I kiss her on the cheek.

My confidence is up pretty high right now!

Ok so I continue hanging out drinking and chilling..... I then notice a girl standing near the exit..... don't ask me how/why but I move in again like natural instinct........

Me: You're leaving already.... I didn't even get a chance to talk to you... you should give me your number...
Her: (looking a bit taken back) oh no no I'm just waiting for some friends I'm not leaving yet don't worry
Me: Well you should still give me your number, it would be nice to talk
Her: (contemplating for a few seconds) ok.......
Me: (pull out my cell phone) what is it, whats your name

We then go on making some small talk and I tell her I'll call her soon... Now here's where something interesting happens...

I end up walking around some more and I find a new set of chicks to approach. I move in and approach a girl I see while my friends talk to her friends....

I then all of a sudden see the girl I just number closed to my left..... and it turns out she is part of the same click of the girls I just approached with my friends.....

I'm not used to this situation..... but I start talking to her playing it off like I did nothing wrong...... she seems friendly but I don't know what she's thinking..... She then says excuse me one minute... and I see her go up to some tall guy and hug and kiss him on the cheek. They then start talking.... I basically move away from the scene and don't see this girl again for the rest of the night....

Ok so onto approach number 5 of the night....

 

[Reyaj]

Ok so this next one is probably the fastest number close I ever pulled. I just did this for sport as I was feeling very confident at this point.

I am standing around with some friends and I see a different girl near the exit. I go to my friend... want to see my number close that chick real fast. He dared me and I moved in.

Me: Hey you're leaving?? I didn't even get a chance to talk to you yet...
Her: (looking surprised) yeeeeah I gotta get going
Me: Well you should give me your number I'd like to talk and get to know you better
Her: (looking real surprised and taken back) umm
Me: I mean I know I just met you but I think it would be cool to talk some time
Her: ok....

I pull out my phone and put the number in and get her name....


Now some of these numbers may be fake or what not... but ok whatever onto Approach Number 6 of the night my last one.

I see a girl sitting down by herself wearing a Christmas costume. I sit down right next to her.

Me: hey I really like your costume
Her: ohh thank you
Me: no problem whats your name?
Her: I'm HB 7 you?
Me: I'm Jayer... nice to meet you too where from what do you do etc....

Well it was another young girl so I lied about my age blah blah but anyway suddenly I was like

Me: so do you have a boyfriend?
Her: no I don't.....
Me: I'm surprised... you are so pretty and you seem really nice
Her: Would you like for me to call you sometime?
Me: Yeah definitely...
Her: Ok I left my phone in the car but let grab my friend's phone and I'll store your number

(Now it came to my mind that this could be a defensive move and that you should always get the girl's number....)
Me: Well I have my phone right here.. whats your number I'll put it right in

Well she took my phone and put her number in and dialed it..... so it rang.... I told her it was nice meeting her and kissed her on the cheek.


On paper it looks like I went 5 of 6.... but it's going to be interesting because some of the numbers might not be legit.... Also, because I have been ill I have not called these girls yet and it will be a week later. I did send out a text message saying I was ill but only got 2 responses.

I am going to call them hopefully later and leave messages if there is no answer. I knwo in my experiences leaving messages never does good but this is all about the experiment....

Oh and yes I did finally have sex with that HB 7 I was seeing. She had invited me to her house for a family party. It was a very rough time as she wasn't a great host.... but I held my own for hours on in. We had plans to come back to my place when it was done but was it was late she tried to reschedule it for the next day. I told her I'd like to see her tonight... and did my best to hold my anger in if she was going to flake out though I could tell she might have been a little upset.

I drove her to my empty house which was rare... watched some tv... end up kissing, feeling, grinding, hand down pants.... up to my bedroom and the rest is for wack off memories for the next month


Ok but anyway so far it looks like

Approaches: 33
Numbers: 22
F-Close: 1

Still I think these number may be adjusted if the numbers I dial end up being fake. I could care less though... I am finally starting to feel good about this whole thing. I feel like that if it doesn't work out with one girl I can always approach another and another and another..........

Thanks for all the support!

 

[j0n024]

"and the rest is for wack off memories for the next month" I dont know man the way your going and improving you will probably be having "Other" things on your mind then thinking about the 7...good luck and keep updating!!!!

 

[Reyaj]

Ok here is the scoop on the numbers I closed.... I must say its not looking very promising at the moment...

Last Wednesday I dialed each girl

First was the 18 year old that was wearing a costume... I called her but some other girl picked up the phone and started talking. She said she was the girl's aunt even though she was 21... there was a whole backstory to it. I heard the girl in the background, and she said she would have her call me back. Well she never did..... I texted her the next day saying "thanks for calling me back lol" but I never heard any word.... Being that is only 18 and thats way young I didn't bother trying again.



Ok so next girl is the one I did my record close in..... I was expecting the number to be fake but to my surprise she answered. She remembered me and we talked for a bit even though she was at her job. I told her I was going to eat something and I had to go but that I'd call her the next day. Now this girl was only 20... but still she seemed to be interested on the phone.... Well the next day I texted her "hey hope you're having a good day"

Well she didn't respond to that..... (I know it sounds like I'm supplicating with the texts.... but I've had success with sweet messages sparingly) Anyway later on that night I callled her again but she didn't answer.

Well she texts me about an hour later saying "hey whats up" I texted her back saying "just felt like calling"

She responds "ohh I was watching a tv show thats why i didnt answer"

I texted her back "sooo a tv show is important than me......"

She responds back "lol yes its a good show"

Well I end up texting her "I think you owe me a phone call tomorrow"

She responds "lol"

Well of course she didn't call me...... Now I know all of this looks like low IL but when we did talk on the phone she seemed cool and told me a lot about her..... but ok whatever next girl.....

So I call the girl I approached that had the stamp on her hand.... She answered and we ended up talking for a bit before I said I had to go eat... to which she said ohh well you can call me after you're done eating... and I said I'll just call you tomorrow and she said great call me after 5. I told her I might text her too and she said thats cool. So I texted her saying it was nice talking to her...

Well I call her the next day and there is no answer... I end up doing a numeric page.... Well she doesn't call back or anything. However around midnight she sends me a text saying something like "hey sorry for getting back to u so late. i worked all day and then did laundry etc... call me tomorrow after 5"

Well the next day which was Friday I called her back around 5:30 but there was no answer. I didn't leave a message or anything this time. No more follow up texts either. She never called back or texted me either. So yesterday I was out and so bored that I sent her a text saying "hey whats up"

She responded back quickly saying "i'm out getting drunk lol you? I responded back "me too lol.. I called u yesterday" Well she didn't respond. I then followed up with a text of "i think u owe me a drunk dial" She responded back "its so loud in here lol"

And that was that........ No word from her today and I didn't contact her either...

 

[Reyaj]

Ok so the next girl was the one who I hit on her friend not knowing they were in the same click... Well I called her wednesday and actually left her a voice mail saying "hey this is Jayer sorry i didnt call u sooner i was ill call me back when u get a chance"

Well of course I didn't get a call back. The next day just for the hell of it I texted her "just because we aren't the same nationality doesn't mean you can't call me back lol" Well she responds to the text quickly "lol you called me"

I responded "yeah I left you a voice mail yesterday" She responds "oh I never check those lol"

Well whatever I didn't respond to that. Later I texted her "so are we just going to talk through texting" she responded "whatever lol"

So the next day I was bored at work and I texted her to see how her day was going and she texted me back saying she went to the same club we met at but something bad happend etc...... I finally texted her "so if I call you are you going answer lol" She responded after a bit "yeah but i'm probably going to be at work so i can't talk long"

I texted her today "hey are you busy at work?" No response....

Ok so the last girl is the one who goes to school out of state. She is also 20 so again I feel weird relating to her but whatever.... I called her Wednesday just like I did to the rest but she didn't answer. A few minutes later I get a text from her "hey Im at the movies with my mom and sister, whats up" I responded "just felt like talking, call me when you are out"

Well several hours later at nearly 11pm she called me and we talked briefly... I basically just started chatting with her assuming the sale you know.... She said she had to go hang with her sister but said I could call her tomorrow.

Well I called her the next day and she didn't answer. She texted me hours later sying "what's up" Ok whatever... after some dumb text dialogue I texted her "so hopefully you will pick up tomorrow when I call lol" She responded "dont worry I will"

Well I called the next day... she didn't answer but called me back shortly after saying she was in a bad reception area but would call me back. Well a half hour later she called me back... we made small talk and she asked what I was doing this weekend. Well I then quickly responded "well I was going to ask you if you wanted to hang out, we could get coffee or something" She's like "yeah that would be cool, Im actually going to my friends house tonight for a party but i should be back tomorrow, i could use my moms car if anything" I told her I had a party on Saturday night but could meet her during the day and all seemed well.

Ok well today rolls around and I call her around 3:30... no answer. She doesn't call back either.... So at 4:30 an hour later I text her "are you still sleping lol" She responds back like a half hour later via text "im still at my friends house" So I respond back "cool, do you still want to hang out later"

She responds back like an hour later "i dont know what time im going to get home cause we still have to drop another friend off" I respond back "thats ok, I have a party later so we should probably reschedule. Are you busy tomorrow" She responds "tomorrow sounds good, call me"


And thats that......

I think I will call the digits 1 more time tomorrow and kick the tires as the say. if they are flat.... well whatever I guess I need to read my journal here and come up with some conclusions.... That or just get out and do more approaches of course!

 

[Stéphane]

Good journal Jayer, but I think you let these ladies string you along too much. Yes I agree, you should build rapport first, but you could try getting to the point quicker (the date.)

 

[Reyaj]

Ok update on the numbers I've been dealing with.....

So the 18 year old... I left a voice mail for... she never called me back. She is done...

Ok so the girl i was supposed to go out with that goes to school out of state... I called her and she answered and said she was in a store but would call me back.. She calls me back like 10 minutes later and she is looking or her car.... I told her to just call me back when she gets home.. Well since the weather was bad and I had another date with the HB 7 I've been seeing I messaged her and said "hey the weather sucks" She responds "yeah it does, we should postpone" Then she texts me "I am going out of state so it will have to be some time after Thursday" Well I text her back "wow out of state, I hope you don't forget about me " well she never texted back...

Well since I knew she was going to be gone for a bit... i decided to try calling her later on that night... I called around 9:30 and she answered. I asked if she was busy and she was like "well I'm packing can I call you back when I'm done" I said "sure no problem" Well she never called me back...

so the next day just for the heck of it I texted her "ya know just cause you are stunningly beautiful doesnt mean you can't call me back" Well she responded later and was like "hahah Im so sorry I just got off the plane now, its been mad hectic... what are you doing tonight"" Well I texted her back and then last night on New Yeras she actually called and was like "hey just called to wish you a happy new yera in case its too crazy to talk to you later" then she said "so who are you going to kiss etc.." it was a very short convo as I told her I had to go. She did say we should definitely go out when she gets back..... I told her I'd call her today but I don't think I will..... I'm tired lol


Ok so anyway as for the HB 7.5 that I hit on her friend in front of her. I called her Sunday.. and to my surprise she answered. I was like "wow its a miracle" and she's like "yea I actually was opening my phone at the same time you called" I am like" ohhh so it was accident I see how it is lol..." but anyway we talked for a few mins... but then she was like "ok listen this is going to sound bad but I dont really remember you.... there were 2 guys that I gave my number too... one was annoying" I am like "well I'm the better looking one... but seriously I dont want to be annoying if thats what you thought "

She's like "oh no... I mean whatever I'm just curious as to which one you are... I know how I can narrow it down. Were you born here....." I said yes... and she's like "ok you arent the annoying one.. he was from another country..."

Now even though she said this... I'm not so sure I believe her.... well anyway she arrived at her brother's job and had to go we left it as we will talk soon.

So anyways the next day I texted her "good morning"

She responded back and was like "you mean good afternoon" I texted her that I just woke up... She didn't respond...

I asked her what she was doing... and she took a while to respond but said "I'm at work unfortunately...." I didn't respond and there was no more communication. I don't know.. but I have a feeling I may have been the guy she found annoying at the club.. but whatever.. I'll kick those tires tomorrow and see how it's going.


Ok so the girl who is also 20... the one I did my record number close in.... she actually texted me on sunday morning randomly asking "hey whats up" I texted back.... and then didn't respond for a few hours and asked "so what are your new years plans..." She never responded....


Ok for the other girl that I texted "you are harder to reach than the president" I also texted her "you know just because you are stunningly beautiful doesn tmean you can't call me back" She responds fast saying " how are you"

We exchange a few texts back and forth... and then she says she is bartending at this club and says I should come.... I never respond....


As for the HB 7 which I f'd... I started going AFC just as an experiment since she claims she was mistreated by her ex...... Yeaterday we hung out and she's like "i'm not looking for a relationship right now... I like taking things slow...". just saying a bunch of random stuff.... then she said something interesting "you have to make me ready "

Now I never even mentioned the relationship word... so I get the feeling this is reverse psychology. Still this girl is a party animal player..... and I'm very cautious...... Hopefully I can tap it again.

 

[Reyaj]

Ok so the HB 8 thats out of state right now... I texted her saying hi. She responded back pretty quick asking about my new year.... I texted her back saying it was good and asked about hers... she texted me back telling me it was good and I didnt respond after that.

The HB 7.5 who might think I was annoying... well I called her yesterday but got no answer. I texted her a little later saying "just because you are beautiful doesnt mean you cant answer my call"

Well she responded back a little later saying "lol shut up im at work"

Well I responded back with "you should live there" She responds back a little later "lol yeah I know" I then ask her when she isnt working

She responded back like hours later saying "sunday"

I then responded "do you like coffee" She didnt respond

So a few hours later I texted her "i guess u didnt like that question lol"

She texted back pretty fast "what question... when im off"

I texted her back saying "i asked if u liked coffee"

She texted back "oh i didnt get that one... no i dont drink coffee sorry"

I texted back "what... what kind of person doesnt like coffee"

She never responded....

Well today I texted her "good morning sunshine"

She responded "good morning "

I then texted her something in a different language and she responded quick correcting me.... Thats where it stands now...


Ok for the fastest girl I ever closed... I called her yesterday around 5 but she didn't answer. A few minutes later I get a text "Hey I'm at work, whats up"

I text back saying "just wanted to say hi, call me when you're out"

Well she texts back "ok ill be out in a half hour, talk to u then"

Well she calls me around the time she said she would and we talk for like 10 mins.. during the time all I hear is this girl brag about what a party animal she is etc... well suddenly i just burst in

"so we should hang out sometime"

She seeming surprised "yeeaah"

there was silence

I started laughing and she was like "why are you laughing at me" I told her its cause of the silence.... but anyway i said I had to go and that I'd talk to her soon. Today I texted her seeing how she was and she texted me back asking what I did last night. I texted her suddenly "so when are we hanging out"

she responded pretty fast "idk lol"

and thats that.....

The girl with 3 jobs... well I texted her yesterday as youk now saying I called her twice but her phone was off. No response.

Today I texted "good morning beautiful"

She responded "buenos dias lol"

I texted her "so when am I going to see your pretty face"

No response.....

I texted back "i need a hair cut and I'm a good tipper " No response...

She is nexted too

 

[Microphone Fiend]

aye wats up? The progression is definitely snowballing, you are really more decisive and take no sh!t, You have options when it comes to women and it is shows, Jayer for Mayor, haha. If there was one thing I would have to critique about your last two posts, I think it's that you need to kill all of that fluff talk via text messages. I like how you text the girls to let them know subtlely that you remember them and are thinking of them, and I really like the "Just because you are good looking doesn't mean you can ignore my calls", consider that stolen, lol. But the conversing afterwards could use a bit of tightening up, like when you texted her asking if she likes coffee, hahaha. If you want to take her out to coffee, just ask her, don't beat around the bush.

But yea, I'm digging the progression, keep it going

 

[Reyaj]

aye wats up? The progression is definitely snowballing, you are really more decisive and take no sh!t, You have options when it comes to women and it is shows, Jayer for Mayor, haha. If there was one thing I would have to critique about your last two posts, I think it's that you need to kill all of that fluff talk via text messages. I like how you text the girls to let them know subtlely that you remember them and are thinking of them, and I really like the "Just because you are good looking doesn't mean you can ignore my calls", consider that stolen, lol. But the conversing afterwards could use a bit of tightening up, like when you texted her asking if she likes coffee, hahaha. If you want to take her out to coffee, just ask her, don't beat around the bush.

But yea, I'm digging the progression, keep it going

Thanks MF. What I've been finding is that a lot of these girls are more comfortable texting. Do you think its ok to ask out a girl via text message? What is your opinion on that? Thats why I didn't do it because I feel like setting up a date over text isn't very concrete...

 

[Bible_Belt]

So the 18 year old... I left a voice mail for... she never called me back. She is done...

Rock on! Notice that you didn't get angry - very good. Being successful involves wading through the small failures like they are no big deal.

 

[Reyaj]

Rock on! Notice that you didn't get angry - very good. Being successful involves wading through the small failures like they are no big deal.

haha thanks... Ironically I read this post and texted her just for the hell of it and she responded.. Girls are so weird. But yeah she is definitely nexted. Now the other ones are being shady too... but yeah i'm definitely keeping my cool. This journal is all about experimenting and learning.

 

[Reyaj]

Ok update...

So I texted the fast close girl today saying "hey you what are you up to today"

No response....

I called the HB 7.5 girl that I text.... and no answer. I texted her hours later saying "you must be working right"

She responded "yeah unfortunately, and I'm having a bad night"

I texted her back "aw whats wrong"

no response...

I then followed up with "well whatever it is I hope you're ok. You're too nice and pretty to have a bad night"

Well hours later she responded "sry i just got out of work. its my brother, he backed into my car"

I didn't respond...

I called a little later... but nothing....

The girl from out of state got back today..... I called and she answered. She asked what I was doing tonight and I said I was going to hang out with some friends. She said she was really tired but she was going to go out to. I said "well what are you doing this weekend, I'd definitely like to see you" She's like yeah me too, lets definitely plan something... I suggest coffee for tomorrow afternoon and she agreed.

Well anyway she texted me later tonight sying where she was going and i didnt respond. She then called but i didnt answer... I texted her back a while later saying "you were near me"

Well she calls again and I answer' She was like "yeah I called you earlier, my friends all turned in so I was going to ask if you wanted to hang out tonight"

I told her I just got home but tomorrow would be better. So we'll see what happens tomorrow.

I'm going to be honest.... this girl is probably the hottest girl I ever got digits from. She is an HB 8.....and is very popular....... What is going to be challening for me is that she's considerably younger.... She is 20 and I am in my late 20's.... I'll post back what happens tomorrow

I'm conflicted whether I should be agressive or show respect...... lets see just how much my DJ training comes out naturally..... I may take a few drinks b4 meeting up with her and add it to my social experiment which I have posted on the forum...