How often are you actually getting laid ?

[Romanemp22]

Once in a week approximately, sometimes none sometimes two, three times but since summer is here I'm hoping for more lays. I also have high standards and I just couldn't fvck everything that have a puzzy.

 

[Lookatu]

2-3 times a week by my choice. I haven't had a dry spell for the last 4-5 years.
I have kids, hobbies, job so that takes up a lot of time. I can theoretically have it every day if I wanted though. But at my age, I'd rather go for the quality of sex than the quantity. Currently have 4 stable plates which is inhibiting my time and drive to seek out new ones though...

 

[corrector]

I've never had problems with security in doing grocery store and mall approaching. I have heard it can happen. I don't spend more than 1 hour in any grocery store in an approach session. Malls pre-pandemic were so crowded that most mall approachers could do their thing uninterrupted by security. Toronto might be a little different since it is a feminist/SJW nirvana with numerous white knight males succumbing to their desires.

What year did you do this pre-pandemic? I did it back in 2006 and did not have any problems with security. Its just allot of time lingering around and thinking of something clever enough to say if you do meet someone that way. This board had allot of "Boot Camp" threads where people would have these assignments each week (i.e. eye contact assignments, approach assignments, and eventually number close, I guess it was a baby step approach. The eye-contact challenge was to look at a woman to get eye-contact and see if you can hold it before she breaks it. Something like that. Hardly see these Boot Camp threads on here anymore...I guess they didn't work that well, or they did work, it worked before 2013/2015....don't know. Maybe there might be a resurgence of red-pill threads like that as people get more fed up with the depressing black-pill threads and pandemic social distancing.

 

[In2theGame]

Many times. GF wants it all the time but I sometimes need a fvckin break.

 

[Lookatu]

Many times. GF wants it all the time but I sometimes need a fvckin break.

That's a good situation to be in. Better that way than the other way around.

 

[SW15]

You're right. There was a huge flood of women in April 2020 on the apps, and then it all went quiet after a few months.

Also, most girls I cold approach say they have a BF. This may or may not be true, but this is the most common response I am getting post-lockdowns.

95% of my rejections have been "I have a BF". I guess the virus made females all sacred, and seeked out the betas for security. I wonder how long until the resentment gets them to monkey branch?

Are you guys using boyfriend destroyer lines when you hear that shiit?

What year did you do this pre-pandemic? I did it back in 2006 and did not have any problems with security. Its just allot of time lingering around and thinking of something clever enough to say if you do meet someone that way. This board had allot of "Boot Camp" threads where people would have these assignments each week (i.e. eye contact assignments, approach assignments, and eventually number close, I guess it was a baby step approach. The eye-contact challenge was to look at a woman to get eye-contact and see if you can hold it before she breaks it. Something like that. Hardly see these Boot Camp threads on here anymore...I guess they didn't work that well, or they did work, it worked before 2013/2015....don't know. Maybe there might be a resurgence of red-pill threads like that as people get more fed up with the depressing black-pill threads and pandemic social distancing.

Into the second half of the 2010s. No problems. I didn't read Roosh's "Day Bang" until the early 2010s.

 

[forcerecon01]

What are you doing to change that?

been over six years.

 

[MatureDJ]

Ever since I came back to the USA during COVID, I've been incelibate.

 

[Snag87]

Have had sex with 6 different girls over the last year. Last had sex 40 days ago. Had a girl offer a friends with benefits deal a week ago but rejected the proposition. Just wasn't feeling it.

 

[Focal core]

Getting laid was not my priority during covid.. But lord things are getting so bored from lockdown to another lockdown. I cant even had my starbuck for breakfast.. This is suck compared to not having puzzy

 

[Realthangpoon]

Sunday with a girl I’ve been seeing for the last 2 months. It was the last time though (very awkward situation), she was getting oneitis and I broke it off for her sake. I’ve hurt women before by ****ing them despite them being in love and I’m not doing it anymore. My interest was declining anyway.

I also hope tomorrow as I have a 2nd date with a really hot/cool chick. We’re gonna visit this huge inflatable thing and I said we could go off the ground there (a saying which means to have sex in my language). she replied ‘can’t wait’ so I’m pretty positive.

 

[TheNewStyle123]

Just started seeing a girl exclusively. We hangout usually 2-3x/week and buck 3-4 times every time I see her. Before that, I would say I was spinning 2-3 plates at a time and banging them weekly over the course of a few months. I wasn't too concerned with COVID tbh ahaha.

 

[BeExcellent]

Whenever I say yes.

So that was last night. Right now on a business trip & I’d rather behave. I’ve no need to get laid just for the sake of getting laid.

Been that way ever since the first BF when I was in my 20s. I could have a Charlie Sheen kill count if I entertained many offers. It’s head spinning. Distracting really. Beautiful women need to have the character to say “No” the overwhelming majority of the time...

And don’t get me wrong I very much appreciate a good lover. But I’m going to be patient and choose from men who exhibit a genuine (beyond just sex) interest in me. Just in the past 6 months I’ve turned down men ranging in age from 23 to 75. Good looking men with their act together. And that is outside the men I do have interest in, who I do date. That is the group I choose lovers from...

So getting laid is a given IF I decide I want too.

It’s a very different landscape than most men experience.

And that’s not to brag. It’s so you guys understand why really hot good quality women are hard to bang. They have too much choice & can pick & choose.

 

[BeExcellent]

Try doing steroids, you'll be singing a different tune.

Lol. I’m a woman. That would mess me up royally. Trust me I have a high enough libido as is.

 

[BeExcellent]

I know you're a woman. That's why I said it. To experience what it is like being a man. Who needs to get laid just to get laid. In the book of pook he states how a female felt like she was going to die if she didn't have sex constantly while she was on steroids.

I dunno. I know any number of men who get laid for the sake of getting laid. Until they get utterly tired of it. Like anything else done too excessively and merely for pleasure it has its downside. Ask any addict who is addicted to anything...gambling, fvcking, partying, gaming, whatever.

Personally I’m not trying to fulfill myself chasing pleasure at the expense of everything else. But that’s where addicts to anything end up. So no, no steroids for me, lol.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

I guess what I'm really trying to say is that... You're on a self help site for men who have a need to have sex that are trying to learn how to fulfill that need. Being a female, which automatically excludes you from having these problems to begin with. Talking about the virtues of not partaking in the act just to do it.

This is like going onto a site full of starving africans tyring to learn how to farm. Then you come on saying "well being that I have access to food from the grocery store, I have no need to eat at every opportunity". It's insulting.

I don't think females could ever understand it from our perspective. Just trying to satisfy a need so we can go on about our day.

And of course it will inflate their view of themself if all kinds of guys are wanting to fvck them. How could it not?

 

[BeExcellent]

@DonJuanjr its like this. I am well aware that men have a physiological need for sex due to testosterone and so forth. I never turned my husband down for sex. Ever. The man I’m seeing now knows to wake me up if he gets a rise in the middle of the night. I’m delighted to please him...but that is because I have genuine desire for him and also because I love to feel desired by him. That is not sex just for the sake of sex. It’s deeper than that. There’s more to it. That’s all I’m saying.

Smart women know men actually need sexual release and if they desire their man they are all about satisfying him thoroughly (great for them too.)

What I’m saying is more along the lines of this. If you just finished a wonderful steak dinner you are full. Satiated. You aren’t hungry but rather your need is met. Do you go eat another steak dinner (or any other meal) immediately after your steak dinner? No. You’re already full.

When your sexual needs are met, and/or you know you can easily get them met, you relax and aren’t focused on THAT constantly. You have an abundant mind set. You know you can obtain and enjoy sex just as you know you’ll eat another great meal. And you act from a place of abundance rather than from a place of scarcity and lack.

I have an abundance mindset. I know men with an abundance mindset. I know men who can get laid with 2 or 3 different women in the same 12 hour day! I have zero desire to do that myself...but know men who can and do. And eventually they get so much abundance that they are “over it”. Then it becomes about meaning. About something deeper. I’ve been there in that mindset myself a long time.

It’s an abundance mindset Im seeking to illustrate. Which top tier men have just as I have.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

@DonJuanjr its like this. I am well aware that men have a physiological need for sex due to testosterone and so forth. I never turned my husband down for sex. Ever. The man I’m seeing now knows to wake me up if he gets a rise in the middle of the night. I’m delighted to please him...but that is because I have genuine desire for him and also because I love to feel desired by him. That is not sex just for the sake of sex. It’s deeper than that. There’s more to it. That’s all I’m saying.

Smart women know men actually need sexual release and if they desire their man they are all about satisfying him thoroughly (great for them too.)

What I’m saying is more along the lines of this. If you just finished a wonderful steak dinner you are full. Satiated. You aren’t hungry but rather your need is met. Do you go eat another steak dinner (or any other meal) immediately after your steak dinner? No. You’re already full.

When your sexual needs are met, and/or you know you can easily get them met, you relax and aren’t focused on THAT constantly. You have an abundant mind set. You know you can obtain and enjoy sex just as you know you’ll eat another great meal. And you act from a place of abundance rather than from a place of scarcity and lack.

I have an abundance mindset. I know men with an abundance mindset. I know men who can get laid with 2 or 3 different women in the same 12 hour day! I have zero desire to do that myself...but know men who can and do. And eventually they get so much abundance that they are “over it”. Then it becomes about meaning. About something deeper. I’ve been there in that mindset myself a long time.

It’s an abundance mindset Im seeking to illustrate. Which top tier men have just as I have.

It's not anything worth bragging about for a female to say she has an "abundance mindset." It's literally saying nothing.

And I always question guys who say they do because most people's tough talk falls apart when pressed for details.

 

[pipeman84]

I know you're a woman. That's why I said it. To experience what it is like being a man. Who needs to get laid just to get laid. In the book of pook he states how a female felt like she was going to die if she didn't have sex constantly while she was on steroids.

Actually, the need is to unload...now how you go about that speaks a lot about who you are and your level of maturity. If one subjugates his life to that need by (depending on how much money/time one has) being a Dan Bilzerian wannabe/a regular to the local brothel/spending all his time on swipe apps or nightclubs trying to score then it shows one's pretty low quality. It's like the people who subjugate themselves to the need to eat by constantly eating junk. Poisons both the body and the mind. Or one could cook for himself healthy foods while tending to one's life and bettering oneself till one magnetizes a great woman into his life. Who will then tend to both of those needs.