How often are you actually getting laid ?

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That precisely is the problem. By the time there is an approach opportunity, so much time has been spent lingering, you just don't feel like doing anything since you are already in a comfort zone by the time the opportunity comes up. In fact, security can start eyeing you and think you are up to something.
I've never had problems with security in doing grocery store and mall approaching. I have heard it can happen. I don't spend more than 1 hour in any grocery store in an approach session. Malls pre-pandemic were so crowded that most mall approachers could do their thing uninterrupted by security. Toronto might be a little different since it is a feminist/SJW nirvana with numerous white knight males succumbing to their desires.
 

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Once in a week approximately, sometimes none sometimes two, three times but since summer is here I'm hoping for more lays. I also have high standards and I just couldn't fvck everything that have a puzzy.
 

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2-3 times a week by my choice. I haven't had a dry spell for the last 4-5 years.
I have kids, hobbies, job so that takes up a lot of time. I can theoretically have it every day if I wanted though. But at my age, I'd rather go for the quality of sex than the quantity. Currently have 4 stable plates which is inhibiting my time and drive to seek out new ones though...
 

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I've never had problems with security in doing grocery store and mall approaching. I have heard it can happen. I don't spend more than 1 hour in any grocery store in an approach session. Malls pre-pandemic were so crowded that most mall approachers could do their thing uninterrupted by security. Toronto might be a little different since it is a feminist/SJW nirvana with numerous white knight males succumbing to their desires.
What year did you do this pre-pandemic? I did it back in 2006 and did not have any problems with security. Its just allot of time lingering around and thinking of something clever enough to say if you do meet someone that way. This board had allot of "Boot Camp" threads where people would have these assignments each week (i.e. eye contact assignments, approach assignments, and eventually number close, I guess it was a baby step approach. The eye-contact challenge was to look at a woman to get eye-contact and see if you can hold it before she breaks it. Something like that. Hardly see these Boot Camp threads on here anymore...I guess they didn't work that well, or they did work, it worked before 2013/2015....don't know. Maybe there might be a resurgence of red-pill threads like that as people get more fed up with the depressing black-pill threads and pandemic social distancing.
 

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Many times. GF wants it all the time but I sometimes need a fvckin break.
 

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95% of my rejections have been "I have a BF". I guess the virus made females all scared, and seeked out the betas for security. I wonder how long until the resentment gets them to monkey branch?

Edit: Meant scared not sacred
 
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You're right. There was a huge flood of women in April 2020 on the apps, and then it all went quiet after a few months.

Also, most girls I cold approach say they have a BF. This may or may not be true, but this is the most common response I am getting post-lockdowns.
95% of my rejections have been "I have a BF". I guess the virus made females all sacred, and seeked out the betas for security. I wonder how long until the resentment gets them to monkey branch?
Are you guys using boyfriend destroyer lines when you hear that shiit?

What year did you do this pre-pandemic? I did it back in 2006 and did not have any problems with security. Its just allot of time lingering around and thinking of something clever enough to say if you do meet someone that way. This board had allot of "Boot Camp" threads where people would have these assignments each week (i.e. eye contact assignments, approach assignments, and eventually number close, I guess it was a baby step approach. The eye-contact challenge was to look at a woman to get eye-contact and see if you can hold it before she breaks it. Something like that. Hardly see these Boot Camp threads on here anymore...I guess they didn't work that well, or they did work, it worked before 2013/2015....don't know. Maybe there might be a resurgence of red-pill threads like that as people get more fed up with the depressing black-pill threads and pandemic social distancing.
Into the second half of the 2010s. No problems. I didn't read Roosh's "Day Bang" until the early 2010s.
 

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Are you guys using boyfriend destroyer lines when you hear that shiit?
She responds with "I have a boyfriend." I say "Yeah? I have a pit bull." She says, "You have a pitbull huh. I have a boyfriend and a cat." I say "Well since we're giving useless information." while she's saying "So my hands are full" I then say "Why don't you take my number, in case you get bored with him, you can give me a call." She declines I then say "well have a good day."
 

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Ever since I came back to the USA during COVID, I've been incelibate. :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad:
 

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Have had sex with 6 different girls over the last year. Last had sex 40 days ago. Had a girl offer a friends with benefits deal a week ago but rejected the proposition. Just wasn't feeling it.
 

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Getting laid was not my priority during covid.. But lord things are getting so bored from lockdown to another lockdown. I cant even had my starbuck for breakfast.. This is suck compared to not having puzzy
 

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Sunday with a girl I’ve been seeing for the last 2 months. It was the last time though (very awkward situation), she was getting oneitis and I broke it off for her sake. I’ve hurt women before by ****ing them despite them being in love and I’m not doing it anymore. My interest was declining anyway.

I also hope tomorrow as I have a 2nd date with a really hot/cool chick. We’re gonna visit this huge inflatable thing and I said we could go off the ground there (a saying which means to have sex in my language). she replied ‘can’t wait’ so I’m pretty positive.
 

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Just started seeing a girl exclusively. We hangout usually 2-3x/week and buck 3-4 times every time I see her. Before that, I would say I was spinning 2-3 plates at a time and banging them weekly over the course of a few months. I wasn't too concerned with COVID tbh ahaha.
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Whenever I say yes.

So that was last night. Right now on a business trip & I’d rather behave. I’ve no need to get laid just for the sake of getting laid.

Been that way ever since the first BF when I was in my 20s. I could have a Charlie Sheen kill count if I entertained many offers. It’s head spinning. Distracting really. Beautiful women need to have the character to say “No” the overwhelming majority of the time...

And don’t get me wrong I very much appreciate a good lover. But I’m going to be patient and choose from men who exhibit a genuine (beyond just sex) interest in me. Just in the past 6 months I’ve turned down men ranging in age from 23 to 75. Good looking men with their act together. And that is outside the men I do have interest in, who I do date. That is the group I choose lovers from...

So getting laid is a given IF I decide I want too.

It’s a very different landscape than most men experience.

And that’s not to brag. It’s so you guys understand why really hot good quality women are hard to bang. They have too much choice & can pick & choose.
 

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I know you're a woman. That's why I said it. To experience what it is like being a man. Who needs to get laid just to get laid. In the book of pook he states how a female felt like she was going to die if she didn't have sex constantly while she was on steroids.
 

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I know you're a woman. That's why I said it. To experience what it is like being a man. Who needs to get laid just to get laid. In the book of pook he states how a female felt like she was going to die if she didn't have sex constantly while she was on steroids.
I dunno. I know any number of men who get laid for the sake of getting laid. Until they get utterly tired of it. Like anything else done too excessively and merely for pleasure it has its downside. Ask any addict who is addicted to anything...gambling, fvcking, partying, gaming, whatever.

Personally I’m not trying to fulfill myself chasing pleasure at the expense of everything else. But that’s where addicts to anything end up. So no, no steroids for me, lol.

;)
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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