How often are you actually getting laid ?

Bingo-Player

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How often are you banging plates or getting ONS at the moment ?

Have you noticed a heavily decline since the covid stuff started ?

i split up with GF in jan and have been dry since then

2 single mothers have made attempts to schedule sex but my standards are high and i wasn't really up for either of them .....

Lockdown restrictions are only now coming to an end in the UK clubs still remain shut making things 50x harder

but i am hoping hoping to realistically bang 3 maybe 4 chicks this summer although looking at current landscape that could be ambitious ...
 

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I don't think I've had sex in about 11 months and have not touched a woman in about 10 months.

Covid restrictions and a current injury leaving me on crutches has alot to do with that.
 

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I am in the UK.. Lockdown & restrictions has seriously hampered the dating game for most people here.

Back in March 2020 I ended up getting super ill with Covid19 (Long Haul Covid) it literally took me around 8 months to recover!

December 2020 is when I got laid with a plate after nearly a year of zero sex!

Since then I have been very selective about who I bang. I don't want to deal with another round of Covid again, so I am selective & tend to bang lower risk girls who are not taking the D all over the place.

My last lay was was about 2 months ago.
 

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I am in the UK.. Lockdown & restrictions has seriously hampered the dating game for most people here.

Back in March 2020 I ended up getting super ill with Covid19 (Long Haul Covid) it literally took me around 8 months to recover!

December 2020 is when I got laid with a plate after nearly a year of zero sex!

Since then I have been very selective about who I bang. I don't want to deal with another round of Covid again, so I am selective & tend to bang lower risk girls who are not taking the D all over the place.

My last lay was was about 2 months ago.
Where in the UK?
 

Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.

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FraUnderRadaren

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It's been about two years since my last lay. Not going to lie, it's been pretty miserable.
 

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****ed a proz end of april. Had an old plate come by yesterday.

Nothing else basically since january!

Longest dry spell in about 9 years.
 

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I'm in Texas, and last night. Girls are very open right now about it. Went to the club, made out with a girl on the dance floor. She came up to me and initiated.
 

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I have a couple of ex’s that I recycle from time to time (they aren’t being used because they know that nothing will redevelop).

In the past month, there’s only been one new bed partner (met a two others, but it didn’t work to my favor). This new girl isn’t very good in bed, but she’s a great cook, fun to be around and a homebody (little out of pocket expense on my end).

I’ve had better months and I’ve had worse.
 

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I personally think women are withholding the V again, Im getting a few bail on me right before the 3rd date. good job I know to spend less than 30 quid on a date etc

and Im deffo on the lower edge of the top 20% of guys in my area.

you only have to look at red pill videos, handsome guys are now doing them who shouldnt have a problem getting laid,and they are.
 

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I will admit, I've watched guys get turned down currently. Even fit looking guys. It feels like girls are being far more sketchy or willingly disinterested, and I feel social media has a lot to blame for this. It's really aggravating cause you have these guys who actually are doing approaches, but then the girls will humor them for a moment, then they just walk off from them. Usually this is done when the girls are together, but when are they never.
 

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I will admit, I've watched guys get turned down currently. Even fit looking guys. It feels like girls are being far more sketchy or willingly disinterested, and I feel social media has a lot to blame for this. It's really aggravating cause you have these guys who actually are doing approaches, but then the girls will humor them for a moment, then they just walk off from them. Usually this is done when the girls are together, but when are they never.
This is why isolation is crucial. Non-bar venues are stronger for isolation.
 

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Couple of years, last person I had sex with was my wife in approx Jun 19.
As much as there are a few girls I know who I feel some attraction for, I'm in not a good
place mentally to want to take a shot at any of them. I also help out in my friends ****tail
bar if Amazon gives me a weekend night off, I work in exchange for free beer. It's interesting
to see the difference in how girls feel far more ok to approach and flirt with guys they think
are working in the place where they are drinking. Meh. I'm just there for the beer.
 

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We're just opening after like 3 months of lockdown, the puss b free for the next 3 weeks maybe, the desperation is in the air because we'll likely be in lockdown again within a month
 

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If you're not getting her close to sex by the first date then you should most probably Next her, and save yourself even more time.

I usually follow this model - first date I'll try to bang her. If I'm unsuccessful, but I get close, then I'll do a second date. If I get even closer on the 2nd date then I'll do a third date. 3 dates absolute max. I usually get it done in 1 or 2 dates.

If a girl is sexually attracted to you then you should be able to bang her on date 1.
Maybe but what's the rush? These rules only end up hurting you in the long run.
 

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