Sorry if I'm being naive but how would you define disrespect? Can you give some examples please.
I will give you a couple of examples that happened to me.
01. Had a date setup with my ex 5pm Friday. The night prior to the date, she went to a friend's house and began drinking alcohol, got absolutely drunk and slept through the entire day and didn't show up for the date.
She messaged me later in the night of the date, asking me how my day has been? No mention of the date, no acknowledgement that she didn't show up.. Absolutely no apology.
I ignored her text, and she lost her mind, called me 22x then showed up at my door wanting to speak to me. Only after I had to explain to her what she did, only then did she acknowledge any wrong doing and apologized.
02. Had a little disagreement with her.. She tells me to "Shut The Fack Up" I walk away from her, she sends a text message and ENDS the relationship. I agree with the break up.. She loses her mind, starts blowing up my phone, claiming she ended it out of anger and didn't mean it.
You can call this disrespect and or drama.. To me it felt like obvious Disrespect.