oldmanofthesea
Master Don Juan
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It's true, many girls won't come back when you walk away. For those girls who don't come back, there was nothing you could have done - they simply had low IL or were the type of girl who think they want to lead the relationship and will never be happy (they won't be happy leading because women simply aren't happy in that situation, and they won't be happy if you cave to all their fussy demands because they will see you as weak and not masculine).Don’t get me wrong here: I regularly block and walk away from girls who don’t play ball or who are being less enthusiastic than I’d like, however, I’ve only had like 1-3 times (some are debatable) where a girl actually come into me after I walked away.
if the definition of attractive is to make girls attracted to you I.e. come after you, then I’d have to disagree that walking away is attractive.
It’s a good ego boost for yourself, but not an effective strategy to attract girls imo
So in the face of this, you have two options:
1. Cave to her demands
2. Not cave to her demands and be willing to walk away if she gives you an ultimatum (which can be an indirect ultimatum by her simply not letting the issue go)
Of the above two options, the only one that even has a chance of the girl sticking around is #2.
But the bigger point is that you don't walk away to attract a girl. You walk away for yourself, and in doing so, you have the knowledge that if there WAS any hope for you and this girl, your walking away was it. You can't control her response to your walking away. Bottom line, you are making all the right decisions you can.