Deus ex Pianoforte said:
if the woman thinks you are ugly, nothing will work.
Yeah, I'm sure that fat 70 year-old man that my friend saw making out with a hottie 18 year-old in the elevator in Vegas was just being friendly.
oh, so youre not the witness? "youre friend" is......
Id say thats some weak eyewitness evidence you have there. It almost sounds like you made that up.
If youre too afraid to ask her for her number, or dont know how to create chemistry with her, things will be too akward between the both of you, and nothing will happen.
Summary: Without courage, or game, you're screwed no matter how good-looking you are.
Well, that doesnt mean looks DONT matter! hey, personality can be a factor, but that still doesnt mean looks arent one. Just becuase it can be established that personality is a factor doesnt mean looks are NOT a factor. You act like its either/or without considering the possibility that both are a factor. We can establish that personality is a factor, and "
looks matter, alot!" can still be a true statement! the "looks matter" is the part of the all explaining supertheory that you people have trouble grasping, not the part that personality is a factor.
I dont cover this part becuase most people dont have trouble grasping the idea that personality plays some role, so why cover something that is already established? What people seem to have trouble with is the idea that looks do matter. This is why god created 'looks matter threads' (no, Im not talking in 3rd person!). Personality does matter, but not as much as alot of people think it does. As long as your personality doesnt suck, ie. social anxiety, a quiet personality etc. and you have the ability to create chemistry with a woman, which should be a natural ability that most people posses then youll have no problem in the personality department. Usually, its the 'looks' that are the culprit in most cases where a guy gets rejected, not the personality. And is the significant reason a hot girl hooked up with a guy, becuase she liked how he looked, not that he had an amazing personality. Most guys dont have amazing personalities, yet many guys still get hotties with there "average" personalities. These guys typically all have something in common: the hotties the hooked up with liked how they looked.
Glad we're on the same page.
Not exactly, you still beleive 'looks dont matter' dont you? then were not on the same page then.
If shes not seeing the good looks, nothing you do will have any effect on her. shell just resist and resist untill she cries rape or something.
Maybe you just haven't been saying the right things or acting the right way. I've had girls admit to me that even though the guy hitting on them was ugly, they slept with him because he pushed all the right buttons.
um part of the looks matter theory says that it really only applies to attractive women. Becuase attractive women are typically shallow, while unattractive women are not (they cant afford to be if they want to have a BF).
So what this means is that there are some women who will sleep with guys they consider ugly, you know, the non-shallow/non-attractive women. So this observation of yours is perfectly consistent with the looks matter theory I give.
Damn, I would really like you to provide links to all this research you speak of
And you assume I posted my findings on the internet because...?
Dont make claims of such evidence existing if you cant prove that such evidence exists. :nono:
actually, your "correcting of looks matter threads" would be considered sabataging one's success with women. Nothing truthful about spewing BS about looks NOT mattering.
Totally man. Telling guys that they have no chance with women unless they rank a certain level on the looks scale is MUCH more conducive to success with women.
I know youre not talking about my 'looks matter' theory. Thats not exactly what mine says. My theory does not say: "you have zero chance with women if your not good looking enough". <--it does not say this.
What it actually says is this: "if the woman personally thinks youre ugly AND shes attractive, you have no chance. However, women have different tastes in what they find attractive, so youre pretty much guaranteed to find a good looking women who personally finds you attractive in her eyes, so you still have a chance, theres still hope for 80% of men out there".
See the difference? good
