Guy69JackBlue
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Some of the worst 2.5 years of my life living in Cambs.
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That makes me a little sad, because I have absolutely zero interest in getting any tattoos, and I'm sure not getting any just to impress some random women. Take it or leave it, girls. But I could see them drawing more interest, because it's practically a form of peacocking. Men don't have a huge selection of accessories, so I suppose tattoos fill that void. It's also possible that the type of women who are attracted to tattoos are more aggressive and will initiate more conversations.My success rate with women would skyrocket if I’d get some visible tattoos. Last year I went to a huge Halloween party and I dressed up wearing a plain white t-shirt, jeans, bought some really nice fake tattoos and put one that was under my shirt coming up to my neck, and the rest I did on one arm. When I tell you I had more women come up to me and initiate conversation “so what are you supposed to be?” I’m not kidding.
They are also trashier.That makes me a little sad, because I have absolutely zero interest in getting any tattoos, and I'm sure not getting any just to impress some random women. Take it or leave it, girls. But I could see them drawing more interest, because it's practically a form of peacocking. Men don't have a huge selection of accessories, so I suppose tattoos fill that void. It's also possible that the type of women who are attracted to tattoos are more aggressive and will initiate more conversations.
The people who say getting fit doesn't work never put in the work to prove it. And if they say they're fit, they're lying through their teeth.I think the aesthetic bodybuilding movement (Zyzz, Jeff Seid, etc.) has proved that once you're shredded, girls are way easier. If you're jacked, the only thing that can really hurt your dating life is a lack of game.
I don't think I can agree with this. If that were true, every guy who was in shape would have girls swarming all over him. Different guys have different issues with women, they may be socially awkward for instance, or have an unattractive face. Even the post before yours said lack of game can hurt you if you are fit.The people who say getting fit doesn't work never put in the work to prove it. And if they say they're fit, they're lying through their teeth.
But being fit is still an in regardless. It doesn't have to be a guarantee. What matters is that now you're in the game. I can make the most awkward guy into a muscle head, and his chances will still go up. That is the point of this thread and point of being a man. Women are drawn to physically fit men.I don't think I can agree with this. If that were true, every guy who was in shape would have girls swarming all over him. Different guys have different issues with women, they may be socially awkward for instance, or have an unattractive face. Even the post before yours said lack of game can hurt you if you are fit.
Agreed. They do what they think is just good enough, and then complain.They are also trashier.
The people who say getting fit doesn't work never put in the work to prove it. And if they say they're fit, they're lying through their teeth.
Just as often...I don't think I can agree with this. If that were true, every guy who was in shape would have girls swarming all over him. Different guys have different issues with women, they may be socially awkward for instance, or have an unattractive face. Even the post before yours said lack of game can hurt you if you are fit.
I think the looking insecure part comes down to how you carry yourself. If someone looks a bit uptight, or awkward and expects women to flock to you on that alone then its not going to help you much. I can usually tell pretty quickly about someone judging by their body language, how they're behaving and women tend to be much more perceptive. Like you say, it's not always someones size/physique that indicates someones dominance. You get the vibe of all shapes and sizes that they're not be messed with.Just as often...
Getting jacked can make a guy look very insecure. Most gym rats that I see hang out with each other. Some may be with girls, but not any more than skinnier guys who are still in shape.
Heck, I've even seen obese broke guys with attractive girls because they gave off a dominant vibe that might scare lots of other guys.
People on this forum are way too black and white thinking.
Just as often...
Getting jacked can make a guy look very insecure. Most gym rats that I see hang out with each other. Some may be with girls, but not any more than skinnier guys who are still in shape.
Heck, I've even seen obese broke guys with attractive girls because they gave off a dominant vibe that might scare lots of other guys.
People on this forum are way too black and white thinking.
Every guy who is fit cannot have hot girls, as being fit is only one part (important) part of the component to doing well with women.I don't think I can agree with this. If that were true, every guy who was in shape would have girls swarming all over him. Different guys have different issues with women, they may be socially awkward for instance, or have an unattractive face. Even the post before yours said lack of game can hurt you if you are fit.
Indeed mate. One of the main angles is that it takes up most your life, which it really doesn;t have to. I struggle to believe most of those that complain are doing more productive stuff all the time.Every guy who is fit cannot have hot girls, as being fit is only one part (important) part of the component to doing well with women.
You need other attributes too. But the being fit/jacked will definitely gain you more smv points than a scrawny or average/obese dude.
Why is this so complex to understand.
Awww.Jacked men tend to know many other jacked men.. Social circles etc.. Pretty much every jacked/ripped dude I know is super confident..
Again the dudes you are talking about are the outliers.. Expexctions to the rule.
Exceptions do not make the rule. You do realise you are debating like a female right now? By continuly pointing out oddities!
That's a very female strategy of debate (clutching straws) The lack of T running through your body is more likely the root cause of this.
Well I run a business non-stop.Indeed mate. One of the main angles is that it takes up most your life, which it really doesn;t have to. I struggle to believe most of those that complain are doing more productive stuff all the time.
I lift more often, but seems I'm one of the few that enjoys it. I do it regardless of women, thats an extra bonus. It definitely makes a difference, amount of comments, women grabbing my arms when out, being blatantly stared at by women in that way etc. To discard it indicates you probably never been in top x% in physical appearance.
Oh yeah, that's me alright. Few friends, but I make friends with dogs with ease. I really like dogs,I don't think I can agree with this. If that were true, every guy who was in shape would have girls swarming all over him. Different guys have different issues with women, they may be socially awkward for instance, or have an unattractive face. Even the post before yours said lack of game can hurt you if you are fit.
Well,yes...its the whole Raison d'etre of this site of course.And im glad thats the case,because its helpful reading everyones view,and coming to your own conclusionsThis thread is like a relay race for members on this site to argue their points.
Dude you’re utterly topped off with excrement.lol... 5'9 with 8-9% bf, 205 pounds and "natural". Serge Nubret was 6'0 with a 200 pound competition weight and 212 pound offseason weight as a pinnacle steroid user. Get the fvck outa here.
This is what im talking about. I recognize being talked to like im stupid because i have dealt with fake natties in real life. I know the game. Fake naturals know that the steroid use isnt the problem, it's their lying. But if they didnt lie they wouldnt feel special or receive the adulation they want from other people.
That's basically what I'm saying. It's one important part, but as @B80 said above, it's no golden bullet. It could be for some guys, I bet there are many guys who get in shape and it's like flipping a switch. It depends on what holds them back in the first place.Every guy who is fit cannot have hot girls, as being fit is only one part (important) part of the component to doing well with women.
You need other attributes too. But the being fit/jacked will definitely gain you more smv points than a scrawny or average/obese dude.
Even if you didn't get much improvement with the girls... So what.That's basically what I'm saying. It's one important part, but as @B80 said above, it's no golden bullet. It could be for some guys, I bet there are many guys who get in shape and it's like flipping a switch. It depends on what holds them back in the first place.