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Yes. can't find it. just tell me here. it's ok
I can't find it either, because it isn't there.

My bad.

Been hitting the gym 3 months strong.

Lifting heavy.

And it's paid off for true previously given reasons.
 

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game money and muscles
How much money do you think is needed for a man to be considered someone with money, in an age in which low six figures is a nothing-burger in big cities?

I have been with a moderate amount of women for an ordinary-status man. I am middle class. I never “gamed” any women I was with. Though I do have a good deal of muscle for my frame, and it is evident.

I once had a season-long fling with a woman who made a high salary, a fling I call “porn come to life,” when I was unemployed.
 
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How much money do you think is needed for a man to be considered someone with money, in an age in which low six figures is a nothing-burger in big cities?

I have been with a moderate amount of women for an ordinary-status man. I am middle class. I never “gamed” any women I was with. Though I do have a good deal of muscle for my frame, and it is evident.

I once had a season-long fling with a woman who made a high salary, a fling I call “porn come to life,” when I was unemployed.
Enough to do whatever he wants and need to do.

You could probably calculate an estimate, and argue that every DJ needs approximately that amount of money.

You wanna have money for :comfortable housing, food, vacation, investments, hobbies, loved ones, money for harder times, physical procedures Didn't even mention women and dating. If you go on dates 365 days a years you might need more money than a man who dates twice a year.

Money is just a tool we can use to bring out the best version of ourselves. E.g a cheap tshirt vs a rather expensive one won't hold up. The quality of the more expensive items will be better. Same with food, furniture ect.
 
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I'm not going to say whether bulking or lean is the best. All I will say is that when I was bulking, I got noticed a lot more. When I was cutting, I had to wear a S or even an XS to show off my muscles. Or those muscle shirts or a tanktop. That's the only way my gains were visible. Even my barber noticed I had shrunk and wondered if I had gotten sick. No, I was just starving myself to bring in my cut sculpture.

Be lean if you're going to be able to show off your body more, especially at places like the beach or photography. Bulk is better for scenarios where you're wearing more clothing. That's where bulky guys shine. Bulky guys also do good in real world situations. For instance, guys and girls will be less likely to threaten or pull up on a bulky guy. Or when there's danger or some kind of stressful situations, weak men and women tend to move toward the bigger guy for safety. Being tall helps, too, but skinny tall is not going to get you anywhere.
 

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Thats it. I need to quit splitting my focus and fvcking around.
I’m 6’1 with solid definition. I just need to slap on a few more slabs of muscle. Just bought a tub of whey isolates and packed up my fridge.
Im going back to the gym on Monday. Ima groove in with light but brutal workouts don’t wanna burn out to quick.
tomorrow ima do prison 8 count navy seal burpees that I picked up in the pen and some bear crawls as a warm up in back yard. This flickered the switch.
Whey protein is nonsense bro, it is only a supplement, there is no replacement for real food.

Whey is a plant based protein, our body can use about 17% of plant based proteins and the rest is converted into carbs, having carbs isn't a bad thing alongside your protein persay but you need actual protein, just Whey alone is not nearly good enough.

Maybe your aware of all this idk but I'd stop buying it and buy some egg whites instead, crack a single yolk onto the whites, mix and you'll get a much better protein count than Whey.
 

Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.

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I do not know.

Im sure that clinically speaking, I am obese.

I carry my weight well on my 6'3 frame along with dedicated, consistent weight lifting.

This is not me telling myself this.

This is what I get told in some form or fashion on a daily basis.
Do you have visible abs?
 

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At 6'3 300lbs of course you will command respect. Everyone is scared you will either sit on them or eat them;)

One my best friends 230 and pretty lean he is 6'5 tho. I could never imagine carrying that amount of mass. I could probably add another 5 to 10 lbs according to Steeve Reeves estimate, thatd be it. Don't think there are much more hidden gains to be unlocked really. Im 180 at 5'11.
 

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I'm 6'2 and I initially cut from 215 to 180 and struggled to get into the 170s so I just trained 4-6 days a week eating healthy introducing more carbs with lots of protein now I'm 195lbs. I want to put on another 20lbs of muscle over the next couple of years. But I can't imagine being 230lbs even at my height. 300lbs I would look like a house.
 

Well I'm here to tell you there is such a magic wand. Something that will make you almost completely irresistible to any woman you "point it" at. Something guaranteed to fill your life with love, romance, and excitement.

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At 6'3 300lbs of course you will command respect. Everyone is scared you will either sit on them or eat them;)

One my best friends 230 and pretty lean he is 6'5 tho. I could never imagine carrying that amount of mass. I could probably add another 5 to 10 lbs according to Steeve Reeves estimate, thatd be it. Don't think there are much more hidden gains to be unlocked really. Im 180 at 5'11.
I recently decided to go for a somewhat leaner look. I used to be a big guy, but honestly it's not a great look when you are 5ft8

Decided to diet, one Meal a day. Lost some weight, however kept lifting heavy.

Now I look leaner without losing hardly any muscle mass.
 

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I recently decided to go for a somewhat leaner look. I used to be a big guy, but honestly it's not a great look when you are 5ft8

Decided to diet, one Meal a day. Lost some weight, however kept lifting heavy.

Now I look leaner without losing hardly any muscle mass.
I am around 6ft-6ft 1, used to do the bulking/lift heavy and got too fat and hated it. Slimmed down to 14-15% BF, look good enough to be complimented by strangers, can eat relatively whatever I want within reason, and can still lift decent.
 

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I am around 6ft-6ft 1, used to do the bulking/lift heavy and got too fat and hated it. Slimmed down to 14-15% BF, look good enough to be complimented by strangers, can eat relatively whatever I want within reason, and can still lift decent.
Yeah, I think lower bf is 100% the way to go.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

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