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savi0r

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Niceee.

What do you do for shoulders?
I do dumbell overhead press, military press, lateral raises, and some isolation excercises for the front and back of the shoulders. What made a difference, i think, is that i superset the lateral raises and i am very strict about the movement. Last year i dropped some of the weight on all exercises and focused more on the movement. I experienced some good growth this way. Ego is one big enemy in the gym. Thinking about it now, i did got alot of compliments last year ,mostly from the guys, but i was kinda fat. I was big, but also somewhat fat. Didn't feel right. I play soccer, table tennis and other sports regularly and it was affecting my performance. I find it really interesting you don't look fat at that weight.
 

soulforge

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I am around 6ft-6ft 1, used to do the bulking/lift heavy and got too fat and hated it. Slimmed down to 14-15% BF, look good enough to be complimented by strangers, can eat relatively whatever I want within reason, and can still lift decent.
Yeh that big bulky look isn't great.

I have slimmed down recently, lost most of the belly fat.. worked on the arms/triceps so they pop out more.

Also like t throw in some cardio twice a week
 

obelisk

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I concur savior. We're usually our own worst enemies in the gym due to ego myself included. I usually get far better results when I drop the weight a bit and focus on good form vs trying to impress those around me (who really don't care in the first place). The desire for boulder shoulders keeps me going.
 

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low six figures is a nothing-burger in big cities?
I agree with you that low six figures is a nothing burger in big cities. We even had a thread on this.


In my city, $150,000 annual salary might be the bare minimum to impress women. It might even be $175,000 or $200,000.

Big muscles can offset any sort of salary deficiencies.
 

Manure Spherian

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Big muscles can offset any sort of salary deficiencies.
That’s me in my picture. I highly doubt if I were single I could compete with men of vast means. I make low six figures. Anyway, I never bothered with women who were not a potential good match. I was never rich, so I didn’t bother with women of higher socioeconomic status.
 

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Yeah, @We_ArE_VeNOM has a physique that would definitely be intimidating and get him noticed. But his advice is just not applicable to many people. Many people at his weight would look extremely obese. I couldnt get to 300 pounds, not even 250, even if I ate to full capacity every day, my metabolism is too fast.
 

We_ArE_VeNOM

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Yeah, @We_ArE_VeNOM has a physique that would definitely be intimidating and get him noticed. But his advice is just not applicable to many people. Many people at his weight would look extremely obese. I couldnt get to 300 pounds, not even 250, even if I ate to full capacity every day, my metabolism is too fast.
Reading comprehension, sir (respectfully).

No where did I advise or insinuate for anyone to try and get to 300lbs.

I simply said to build muscle on whatever frame you are lugging around.

Lean muscle, bulk muscle; doesn't matter.

But the keyword; muscle.

Build it.
 
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