Example of My Convo Skills

[SargeMaximus]

With my suggestion, it was transitional to sexual talk after you had general chitchat. A couple of back and forth texts of general talk, then seize the opportunity to take it sexual.

How do you suggest I do that? I can’t stand chit chat

 

[DonJuanjr]

How do you suggest I do that? I can’t stand chit chat

Just recognize the opportunities to take something she says and turn it sexual after a couple back and forths. I think had you turned it sexual when I suggested, the convo wouldn't have been considered boring. The amount of familiarity talk would have been fine.

How would you have felt @catsmeow had he responded with what I said with my first reply?

 

[SargeMaximus]

Just recognize the opportunities to take something she says and turn it sexual after a couple back and forths. I think had you turned it sexual when I suggested, the convo wouldn't have been considered boring. The amount of familiarity talk would have been fine.

How would you have felt @catsmeow had he responded with what I said with my first reply?

I’ll give it a try next time but that’s hardly authentic. It’ll just feel like I’m doing some fake politeness to get to the “good stuff”

 

[DonJuanjr]

I’ll give it a try next time but that’s hardly authentic. It’ll just feel like I’m doing some fake politeness to get to the “good stuff”

The women may not interpret it like that. In your conversation, my suggestion would have been after her seventh response to your general talk. Just use that as a guide line... Have some familiarity talk, get 5-7 responses from them, and around that time see if you can pick something out to turn sexual. If they ghost before you have an opportunity, then lower the responses to 4-6.

 

[Striker_93]

OP, If it makes you feel better I just got rejected/ghosted by two different girls I tried to hit on via Facebook so go figure.

I experience the same things average looking men experience, I get rejected, ghosted, flaked on ect I'm not speaking from a high horse and if I came off that way that wasn't my intention.

Iife has humbled me, I'm not the most handsome guy in the world lol I have friends that look better than me and when we go out sometimes they get more attention than me, so trust me, I know how everyone of you guys feel sometimes, I may not experience it as often but it does happen.

Just don't give up and keep working bruh,

Pull your skirt down and fix you're attitude because the way you are coming at some of the people who continously give you advice is not called for.

Don't ask for help while acting like a d!ck at the same time.

 

[SargeMaximus]

The women may not interpret it like that. In your conversation, my suggestion would have been after her seventh response to your general talk. Just use that as a guide line... Have some familiarity talk, get 5-7 responses from them, and around that time see if you can pick something out to turn sexual. If they ghost before you have an opportunity, then lower the responses to 4-6.

I don’t like it but I’ll try

 

[Velasco]

This isn’t relevant

I suggest Striker and Modern Man Advice provide real life examples of normal conversation. So that you can observe patterns and pick out what you notice they do. Not the actual sentences (that's pickup lines. Bro I used your same line and it didn't work"). Obviously them saying "dude just be normal" isn't very helpful advice.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Shades of Cyrano…

 

[SargeMaximus]

I suggest Striker and Modern Man Advice provide real life examples of normal conversation. So that you can observe patterns and pick out what you notice they do. Not the actual sentences (that's pickup lines. Bro I used your same line and it didn't work"). Obviously them saying "dude just be normal" isn't very helpful advice.

What line? I have a theory which is that different things work for different people hence why my lines work for me and why other guys lines don’t work for me

 

[Velasco]

What line? I have a theory which is that different things work for different people hence why my lines work for me and why other guys lines don’t work for me

But they aren't at the moment, no? Think you mentioned you haven't been getting laid all that much. Please correct me if I'm wrong.

But yea I want you to get away from this line of thinking that it's all about pickup lines. It's not helpful.

WHY did you say that? -> Well because xyz.

Then we attack this ("because xyz") line of reasoning. See a pro's (just someone who gets laid a lot from cold approach) analysis of what he saw based on the context and why he responded the way he did. Compare his response with how'd you respond were you presented with the same scenario. You'll notice "ohhhhh see thats where I fvcked up with tinder girl #69. I thought she meant X with that. so I responded Y. When she was actually just trying to see if I would Z. smh..."

 

[SargeMaximus]

But they aren't at the moment, no? Think you mentioned you haven't been getting laid all that much. Please correct me if I'm wrong.

But yea I want you to get away from this line of thinking that it's all about pickup lines. It's not helpful.

WHY did you say that? -> Well because xyz.

Then we attack this ("because xyz") line of reasoning. See a pro's (just someone who gets laid a lot from cold approach) analysis of what he saw based on the context and why he responded the way he did. Compare his response with how'd you respond were you presented with the same scenario. You'll notice "ohhhhh see thats where I fvcked up with tinder girl #69. I thought she meant X with that. so I responded Y. When she was actually just trying to see if I would Z. smh..."

I said it because it has worked in the past but yeah it’s not going so well atm. But as we just saw, doing the whole “convo” thing doesn’t work.
So what are you suggesting? I don’t want to use lines but I don’t naturally enjoy conversations with girls because they are shallow and non logical

 

[Zimbabwe]

 

[SargeMaximus]

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Exactly. Convo doesn’t work you gotta be direct and sexual and they either dtf or next them and onto the next one

 

[SargeMaximus]

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[Velasco]

So what are you suggesting?

Start here:

Compilation of posts that formed my core text game philosophy

As promised to members in the chat, here's a compilation of the posts that helped form my text game philosophy when I was starting out. --------------------------------------------------- Don't give milk away for free Make a better impression in the initial interaction and then keep the txting...

www.skilledseducer.com

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Doesn't say anything about went on from the day he set up the date and him showing up on the date. It's 4Chan so I assume he showed up on the date, not texting anything in between the days he set up the date and the day of the actual date.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Start here:

Compilation of posts that formed my core text game philosophy

As promised to members in the chat, here's a compilation of the posts that helped form my text game philosophy when I was starting out. --------------------------------------------------- Don't give milk away for free Make a better impression in the initial interaction and then keep the txting...

www.skilledseducer.com

Doesn't say anything about went on from the day he set up the date and him showing up on the date. It's 4Chan so I assume he showed up on the date, not texting anything in between the days he set up the date and the day of the actual date.

Thanks but that’s too “dancing monkey” for my style. I’m not like that at all in person so even if I could manage to be that way in text, she’d know I wasn’t as soon as I met her and would be a huge waste of my time since she’d next me

 

[Konada]

Different take here. OP is autistic, understanding the nuances of human interactions is basically something he will never in his lifetime internalize because his brain isn't wired that way.

If go direct works for you, then continue doing it. Results speak, no need to listen to posters telling you the right way to text if you have found the working formula for yourself.

Come back when you have difficulty banging hotter women with the kind of routine you are running.

 

[Velasco]

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Does disqualifying then trying to get them to hard qualify to you ever work for you? Seems like something you'd read in mystery method.

"Just trying the dating app thing"
Sarge: how are u liking it so far?"

Not only is that normal, but gives you an opportunity to Segway into sexualizing and contrasting yourself from the other dudes

 

[SargeMaximus]

Come back when you have difficulty banging hotter women with the kind of routine you are running.

That’s why I’m here. and I’m not autistic just close. I was formally tested for it and didn’t make the spectrum

 

[SargeMaximus]

Does disqualifying then trying to get them to hard qualify to you ever work for you? Seems like something you'd read in mystery method.

"Just trying the dating app thing"
Sarge: how are u liking it so far?"

Not only is that normal, but gives you an opportunity to Segway into sexualizing and contrasting yourself from the other dudes

I’ve tried a similar line “how’s that going for you?” Or sometimes I even open with that in the form of “how goes the fishing ?”