Example of My Convo Skills

[DonJuanjr]

I've done that plenty of times in the past. You can read my old posts.

You have over 3000 posts.... What should I type in, to narrow to the convos of you showing what to type in someone's texting examples?

 

[Zimbabwe]

This is my point. Whenever I go direct you geniuses tell me to be less direct and have a conversation. Bull rapport, etc. So gtfo

I purposely did this because I knew it wouldn’t work but I needed an example for you guys to show you your advice doesn’t work.

also, why is it she ghosts me when I want to talk about the dating aspect but not when we talking about food eh?

You: What you up to

Her: Just cleaning and you?

You: Just got back from an epic session at the gym hit a new PR today

Her: wow that's awesome, where do you workout at?

You: The BBC Gym, you know there's this new cafe that opened up nearby I'm actually heading down there this evening, you should come join me

Her: Great what Time?

You: X time, bring a nice dress and some heels

 

[SargeMaximus]

This is my point. Whenever I go direct you geniuses tell me to be less direct and have a conversation. Bull rapport, etc. So gtfo

You: What you up to

Her: Just cleaning and you?

You: Just got back from an epic session at the gym hit a new PR today

Her: wow that's awesome, where do you workout at?

You: The BBC Gym, you know there's this new cafe that opened up nearby I'm actually heading down there this evening, you should come join me

Her: Great what Time?

You: X time, bring a nice dress and some heals

So go direct like I usually do, got it. What epic advice

 

[SargeMaximus]

Fwiw (as a woman), skip the food talk, or any small talk, sorry that was a huge YAWN @SargeMaximus .

Better to start off direct - "what brings you to POF, what are you looking for"?

Most women love a man diving in deep like that straight away.

There was a previous poster @da dynamically who would post his text game on this site. Search TEXT GAME under topics and you will find.

He was very direct, no BS small talk, and would quickly escalate to sexual.

It really worked well for him, from what I read, he was quite successful with the ladies.

He had a boyish charm and style even though a self-admitted sociopath, not in a malicious way.

Lol, I cannot believe I just posted that, but it's true!

Wow you guys really are clueless, don’t you realize that the whole reason I did this post is because people were telling me I was being too direct. And I knew this would be the reaction I would get but I posted it here just because I was always telling me you got actually have conversations first. So here it is now lo and behold you’re all telling me that I have to be more direct. This is the most hilarious BS ever

 

[Striker_93]

Some people just don't have it, everybody doesn't make to the NBA, everyone doesn't become rich and successful ect.....

Maybe you're not that physically attractive ?

One of the reasons this aint working for you is because you keep trying too hard, thinking too deep into it, constantly worrying about "game" or saying the right thing and dumb sh!t like that.

Just act like a normal fvcking human and talk. There's is no right way to talk to women, there is no magic words or techniques which is what you keep asking for, you not gone find it.

The biggest truth that is often ignored by individuals like yourself is there no need for strategies and game tactics, they lied to you, there's no need for it.

I'm 28 years old at this point I'm too old to be running attraction games on women, it's corny, I'm not in high school anymore.

When I interact with women I'm not trying to game them lol i engage with them like a normal person and I let them be attracted to my demeanor, my personality, my vibe and energy not my "game tactics"

If all else fails then maybe you just don't have it and you will either acquire it or not, that's life.

That's why I hate that "game" talk because It causes inexperienced guys to overthink which is counter-productive to your success.

Talking/interacting with women is not a fvcking chess match

 

[DonJuanjr]

When I interact with women I'm not trying to game them lol i engage with them like a normal person and I let them be attracted to my deamonor, my personality, my vibe and energy not my "game tactics"

Seeing as how you're gifted looks wise, any game advice you give is irrelevant anyways...

 

[SargeMaximus]

One of the reasons this aint working for you is because you keep trying too hard, thinking too deep into it, constantly worrying about "game" or saying the right thing and dumb sh!t like that.

Just act like a normal fvcking human and talk. There's is no right way to talk to women,

That’s exactly what I was doing. Please you and @catsmeow block me because I don’t want you giving me anymore advice, I’ll do the same. You’re both missing the whole point of this post which is to prove that doing what you suggest doesn’t work! I WAS having a normal fvcking conversation and got ghosted so fvck right off with your useless advice

 

[MissouriMark]

Just because she hasn't responded in a few hours doesn't necessarily mean she ghosted. Give it a few days to see if she responds. If she doesn't then move on. Don't double message.

 

[Velasco]

ou’re both missing the whole point of this post which is to prove that doing what you suggest doesn’t work

Who told you to talk to her like your her gay best friend? Tbh I don't even think her gay best friend talks to her this lamely

 

[SargeMaximus]

Just because she hasn't responded in a few hours doesn't necessarily mean she ghosted. Give it a few days to see if she responds. If she doesn't then move on. Don't double message.

I blocked her already she was boring

Who told you to talk to her like your her gay best friend?

Next time, play it cool, banter a little, sexualize a bit, and then make plans to hang. Not saying prolong the texting, but it is extremely rare for a woman to see sex (unless that's her profession) as a transaction.


Modern Man Advice

That’s who.

And all of you to be very honest.

 

[Velasco]

I blocked her already she was boring

She? Brother look in the mirror

 

[SargeMaximus]

She? Brother look in the mirror

yes my conversation as boring because I wasn’t being direct like I normally am. @Modern Man Advice said I gotta be chill, that other guy who I blocked said I just have to have a normal conversation. What’s more normal than talking about food? The advice you guys give me doesn’t work and is absolute garbage then you call me boring when I use it. Fvck right off

 

[DonJuanjr]

@Velasco What do you think about my initial response to sarge on the first page? Cringe?

 

[Velasco]

I like it.

Like, "hmmm what other guilty pleasures do you have"

But with the flirting smirk emoji instead of the winky face. Like being super suggestive what I'm hinting I want her response to be.

If her answer is boring I'd punish that with some teasing.

But good idea of noticing a transition into sexual, getting away from boring conversation

 

[Striker_93]

Seeing as how you're gifted looks wise, any game advice you give is irrelevant anyways...

Fair enough.....

 

[SargeMaximus]

I like it.

Like, "hmmm what other guilty pleasures do you have"

But with the flirting smirk emoji instead of the winky face. Like being super suggestive what I'm hinting I want her response to be.

If her answer is boring I'd punish that with some teasing.

But good idea of noticing a transition into sexual, getting away from boring conversation

So go sexual like I have been! You guys are a riot!

 

[Striker_93]

That’s exactly what I was doing. Please you and @catsmeow
I WAS having a normal fvcking conversation and got ghosted

Nothing works all the time.

You got you're panties in a bunch throwing a temper tantrum like a 9 year old girl because you got ghosted a couple times?

This is why you won't be successful, you not built for this, too sensitive.

Take care and good luck.

 

[Velasco]

@Modern Man Advice said I gotta be chill, that other guy who I blocked said I just have to have a normal conversation

You may want this give this a read:

The OP on a gifted writer giving cliche advice, similar to Striker/Modern Man Advice:

"Speaking of writing, this post was prompted by Sasha Chapin’s post How to Crush it on Twitter When You Don’t Want to Do That. Sasha only gives a few pointers, one of them is:

"Think Less

All of the tweets I do that perform really well have one thing in common. Which is that I didn’t think about them too hard".

But of course, Sasha is a successful writer and writing coach. As for people who aren’t, they rarely produce perfectly crafted, viral tweets without trying. It takes many years of thinking hard to not have to think hard!"

Rules for Noobs

Beginners need explicit rules, masters need to forget them. I propose a general model of learning, ask you not to “be yourself”, speculate on AI, and teach you how to crush it on Twitte…

putanumonit.com

 

[SargeMaximus]

You may want this give this a read:

The OP on a gifted writer giving cliche advice, similar to Striker/Modern Man Advice:

"Speaking of writing, this post was prompted by Sasha Chapin’s post How to Crush it on Twitter When You Don’t Want to Do That. Sasha only gives a few pointers, one of them is:

"Think Less

All of the tweets I do that perform really well have one thing in common. Which is that I didn’t think about them too hard".

But of course, Sasha is a successful writer and writing coach. As for people who aren’t, they rarely produce perfectly crafted, viral tweets without trying. It takes many years of thinking hard to not have to think hard!"

Rules for Noobs

Beginners need explicit rules, masters need to forget them. I propose a general model of learning, ask you not to “be yourself”, speculate on AI, and teach you how to crush it on Twitte…

putanumonit.com

This isn’t relevant

 

[DonJuanjr]

So go sexual like I have been! You guys are a riot!

With my suggestion, it was transitional to sexual talk after you had general chitchat. A couple of back and forth texts of general talk, then seize the opportunity to take it sexual.