Example of My Convo Skills

[Zimbabwe]

 

[SargeMaximus]

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Exactly. Convo doesn’t work you gotta be direct and sexual and they either dtf or next them and onto the next one

 

[SargeMaximus]

@DonJuanjr Not working pics below

 

[Velasco]

So what are you suggesting?

Start here:

Compilation of posts that formed my core text game philosophy

As promised to members in the chat, here's a compilation of the posts that helped form my text game philosophy when I was starting out. --------------------------------------------------- Don't give milk away for free Make a better impression in the initial interaction and then keep the txting...

www.skilledseducer.com

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Doesn't say anything about went on from the day he set up the date and him showing up on the date. It's 4Chan so I assume he showed up on the date, not texting anything in between the days he set up the date and the day of the actual date.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Start here:

Compilation of posts that formed my core text game philosophy

As promised to members in the chat, here's a compilation of the posts that helped form my text game philosophy when I was starting out. --------------------------------------------------- Don't give milk away for free Make a better impression in the initial interaction and then keep the txting...

www.skilledseducer.com

Doesn't say anything about went on from the day he set up the date and him showing up on the date. It's 4Chan so I assume he showed up on the date, not texting anything in between the days he set up the date and the day of the actual date.

Thanks but that’s too “dancing monkey” for my style. I’m not like that at all in person so even if I could manage to be that way in text, she’d know I wasn’t as soon as I met her and would be a huge waste of my time since she’d next me

 

[Konada]

Different take here. OP is autistic, understanding the nuances of human interactions is basically something he will never in his lifetime internalize because his brain isn't wired that way.

If go direct works for you, then continue doing it. Results speak, no need to listen to posters telling you the right way to text if you have found the working formula for yourself.

Come back when you have difficulty banging hotter women with the kind of routine you are running.

 

[Velasco]

@DonJuanjr Not working pics below

Does disqualifying then trying to get them to hard qualify to you ever work for you? Seems like something you'd read in mystery method.

"Just trying the dating app thing"
Sarge: how are u liking it so far?"

Not only is that normal, but gives you an opportunity to Segway into sexualizing and contrasting yourself from the other dudes

 

[SargeMaximus]

Come back when you have difficulty banging hotter women with the kind of routine you are running.

That’s why I’m here. and I’m not autistic just close. I was formally tested for it and didn’t make the spectrum

 

[SargeMaximus]

Does disqualifying then trying to get them to hard qualify to you ever work for you? Seems like something you'd read in mystery method.

"Just trying the dating app thing"
Sarge: how are u liking it so far?"

Not only is that normal, but gives you an opportunity to Segway into sexualizing and contrasting yourself from the other dudes

I’ve tried a similar line “how’s that going for you?” Or sometimes I even open with that in the form of “how goes the fishing ?”

 

[BackInTheGame78]

There is a way to be interesting and exciting even through text but talking about food and going to the gym isn't it.

 

[SargeMaximus]

There is a way to be interesting and exciting even through text but talking about food and going to the gym isn't it.

Obviously

 

[Zimbabwe]

There is a way to be interesting and exciting even through text but talking about food and going to the gym isn't it.

Can you provide OP and the rest of us with a little example of what that might be?

 

[zekko]

Yeah but here’s my issue: when I’m in conversation mode, I’m not sexual. It’s like the blood is either in my dlck or in my brain, but not both.

That's an interesting observation. I've noticed that when the hormones are flowing, it's almost like I enter a different state of mind entirely. I might even find myself craving things that would normally repel me.

The only other thing I want to say is that conversations skills and texting skills are not necessarily the same thing. Some guys can do one, but not the other. Some guys can do both, some can do neither. My personal philosophy is to be as natural as possible when texting (close to the way I talk), but I can't be quite as loose because sometimes without the body language and inflections they might take something meant as a joke as serious, or stuff like that.

 

[SargeMaximus]

That's an interesting observation. I've noticed that when the hormones are flowing, it's almost like I enter a different state of mind entirely. I might even find myself craving things that would normally repel me.

The only other thing I want to say is that conversations skills and texting skills are not necessarily the same thing. Some guys can do one, but not the other. Some guys can do both, some can do neither. My personal philosophy is to be as natural as possible when texting (close to the way I talk), but I can't be quite as loose because sometimes without the body language and inflections they might take something meant as a joke as serious, or stuff like that.

Yeah I’m a good conversationalist but not a good seducer I think is the right distinction. I work in sales and greet many people every day and often have good convos so that’s not a problem. But that’s not why I’m here.

it’s definitely a different mindset and I can’t do both.

@DonJuanjr I hope you didn’t feel I was lashing out at you, just had to post. I get what you’re saying but you can see in the pics she didn’t give me much choice, it just kinda went that way

 

[SargeMaximus]

Nah I didn't think that. We're good. Remember that a proper test needs more than 1 result. I tried my "you've been selected to apply for fwb" line like 40 times. Only 2 responded, one that liked it, and the other that was offended. So due to having the amount of tests(40) I'm certain to say that it doesn't work well enough to bother with it. Atleast with bad pics and bio. Maybe if I changed those variables I would get a better reception with the line.

Yes I agree, testing is crucial. Hence why I won’t even entertain approaching women anymore because I’ve done that hundreds of times back in the day

 

[Dr.Suave]

Some girls are gonna ghost/flake. Its part of the game

 

[Modern Man Advice]

Girl just ghosted me so there you go @Modern Man Advice , perfect example of me not being direct and sexual and losing the girl

I have an honest question for you, are you genuinely seeking advice (and willing to be receptive) or are you looking for an outlet to express your frustrations or validate your approach?

If it's the former, I'd be happy to continue to offer my perspective. If it's the latter, then I wish you the best.

As I mentioned in my last comment in your other thread, the real key is learning how to read each woman and moment uniquely. You can't expect to have the same approach for all women and for it to work 100% of the time. Or even if you tailor each interaction to be successful 100%, it just doesn't work like that.

I agree that being direct is better than passive. Even more so if the conversation is about food. I mean let's get real here for a second, that conversation or any conversation like that isn't going anywhere.


Modern Man Advice

 

[SargeMaximus]

I have an honest question for you, are you genuinely seeking advice (and willing to be receptive) or are you looking for an outlet to express your frustrations or validate your approach?

If it's the former, I'd be happy to continue to offer my perspective. If it's the latter, then I wish you the best.

As I mentioned in my last comment in your other thread, the real key is learning how to read each woman and moment uniquely. You can't expect to have the same approach for all women and for it to work 100% of the time. Or even if you tailor each interaction to be successful 100%, it just doesn't work like that.

I agree that being direct is better than passive. Even more so if the conversation is about food. I mean let's get real here for a second, that conversation or any conversation like that isn't going anywhere.


Modern Man Advice

It’s the former, but I’ll only take advice if you guys can admit when it doesn’t work. Otherwise you are just as close minded as you claim I am.

i tried it didn’t I? I could have kept gaming her like I normally do. And that’s not the only time I’ve done this method. As I’ve said ad naseum, I’ve done pua style hundreds of times, and never once got laid using it.

explain to me how I can get laid doing “what doesn’t work”? If you can answer me that I can meet you halfway, but if you just gonna ignore and invalidate my experiences to protect your narrative, then I’m not interested. Never been an echo chamber boy and don’t intend to start now.

this community should be about growing and learning what works for us as individuals, not parroting the accepted views just to fit in.

 

[SargeMaximus]

The problem is all these advice givers aren't typing what they would say in place of your responses. It's not that hard to do. It always seems to be esoteric after-the-fact you didn't do it right comments.

Agreed. It’s easy to claim to know it wouldn’t work after you see it hasn’t worked. I don’t take those type of comments seriously. And I really don’t take the “do what never worked for you because we say so!” Comments even less seriously.

 

[Barrister]

It’s the former, but I’ll only take advice if you guys can admit when it doesn’t work. Otherwise you are just as close minded as you claim I am.

i tried it didn’t I? I could have kept gaming her like I normally do. And that’s not the only time I’ve done this method. As I’ve said ad naseum, I’ve done pua style hundreds of times, and never once got laid using it.

explain to me how I can get laid doing “what doesn’t work”? If you can answer me that I can meet you halfway, but if you just gonna ignore and invalidate my experiences to protect your narrative, then I’m not interested. Never been an echo chamber boy and don’t intend to start now.

this community should be about growing and learning what works for us as individuals, not parroting the accepted views just to fit in.

It does work though - you clearly just are struggling to implement it. You say it doesn't work for you but all you do is send these screenshots where you are sending cringe-level texts to chicks. Maybe I have missed it because admittedly I have not read every one of your posts, but I see very little of you implementing any strategies on here that have been given to you. Quite the opposite: I see you trying to do what you have always done (be overly direct in asking for sex immediately) and continually say what people say here doesn't work.

Agreed. It’s easy to claim to know it wouldn’t work after you see it hasn’t worked. I don’t take those type of comments seriously. And I really don’t take the “do what never worked for you because we say so!” Comments even less seriously.

You are caught in a self-fulfilling prophecy. It is like saying the correct form on a golf swing has never made you eagle a shot so it doesn't work and you stick to your own f*cked up form that makes you perform horribly. Makes no sense.