She is already sending me texts she must be bugged about that coffee date but she didn't ask me about it directly so I don't plan on mentioning I nixed it.Francisco d'Anconia said:
Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Absolutely true. :yes:evelsteve said:
All we have is time remaining, so let's make it PUA time, not AFC time!evelsteve said:Thanks,Francisco. And furthermore, think about all the precious TIME you're wasting remaining an AFC. More time could be spent on making social connection, upping your possibilities, friends,etc. Hell, while we we're at it, adventures, opportunities, goals being met, not to mention GREAT sex. To me, life is like a hotel. I'd rather stay at the Waldorf Astoria than Motel 6
Francisco d'Anconia said:
You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Two whole days???My Name is Nobody said:
She could have had a baby with another guy during that time! C'mon, are you guys married or what?Francisco d'Anconia said:Two whole days???
Francisco d'Anconia said:
The really hot ones usually will play games/sh*t test. Remember Eddie Murphy's famous routine about "what have you done for me lately?" The girl in the routine was referring to having the man buy her something, but I look at it more as "what alpha male qualities have you displayed to me lately?" Hence the sh*t tests. It's simple biology. The female wants to see if the the mate she picked is as good as she hopes he is. As males, we only need one glance to know if she's hot and BAM! she's our mate (for a while at least), but the female, on the other hand needs constant reinforcement concerning her man's alpha male qualities. So, go ahead and ALPHA! They LOOOOOVE it. When she starts giving you a hard time, or when you think you're losing her interest, it's actually time to pass her **** tests. Now, if all fails, for some reason, and if you like her (not as oneitis, but a milder form) and want her to stick around a while longer, then keep reminding her you can leave at any minute. That usually works. Remember, women always want to be validated. Leaving is dis-validation for them.My Name is Nobody said:
If you want to talk, talk to your friends. If you want a girl to like you, listen to her, ask questions, and act like you are on the edge of your seat.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
My Name is Nobody said:
If I were you, I'd ALWAYS keep in mind that you have to be willing to lose the girl. Never come back like a puppy dog with his tail between his legs. They'll never forget an incident like that, and they'll lose respect for you. In other words, they'll never think of you the same way and try to play you further.My Name is Nobody said:
).evelsteve said:Besides an Alpha male doesn't fear loss/rejection, because he can always get another woman. I've come to learn that the more women you interact with, the more chances you'll get to meet the "right one" (for me, the right one is an attractive, outgoing woman, who LOVES to give head, is bi-sexual, and is a GOOD friend at the same time, believe me, I've met and had a couple
If anything, turn the tables and send her a picture on your phone of you and a hot babe, hamming it up at a club. Or text her: "I'm at a club with (fill in the blank with a woman's name, real or fake) stop by, and hang out" like nothing happened. Otherwise she'll see you as needy, and it's all over, my friend. The message you're sending to her, and frankly ANY potential mate, is that you WANT her, but you don't really NEED her. Make an attempt to make her need YOU by informing her about all the FUN she won't have by not being with you.
Hey, you said it, not meMy Name is Nobody said:
evelsteve said:Hey, you said it, not me
As far as the photo thing being childish, honestly, that sounds more like the AFC than the Alpha Male. It's your call, but women usually ALWAYS want a guy who's good with other women, or especially guys that can GET hot women. I've seen it, time and time again. I stopped wagging the AFC finger and started beating the Alpha Male chest. Again, don't be afraid to Alpha. THEY LIKE IT!
