Francisco d'Anconia said:
I could be wrong but it sounds as if your interest isn't based on who she is, it's about who she isn't. It's as if scarcity makes her a more attractive package.
I've come back down to Earth today. The worse thing I could possibly do in this situation is start acting AFC.
We are still practically strangers and face it how many guys in College are AFC's? Probably all of them, and I bet she is surprised I haven't contacted her yet today. Even after she told me SHE would call, but she hasn't yet, and an AFC would be getting antsy right about now. Maybe she is testing the waters to see how I will act. I am assuming women do this often to see if the guy is AFC?
I remember when we were hanging out the other day I called her "baby", and she goes "I'm not your baby YET"...
I just said it out of habit, I don't want her to think I am going to tie her down, or get jealous and psycho over her. She can do what she wants, and I will continue doing what I want which will be meeting new women.
So there you have it... after all this drama and messing up my relationships I think I am approaching the DJ mind frame. And it's just in time too, because everything that has happened I am glad because if it didn't happen I wouldn't be where I am now.
Edited to Add: BOOZE brings out the AFC in me and probably everybody. Getting drunk is a DJ killer. Just look at all my posts in this thread most of them were while drinking. I made this post completely sober do you notice a difference?