My Name is Nobody
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Me neither. I'm just bored at work I hope this isn't monitored.
That still sounds like you're bitter.My Name is Nobody said:I have decided if she contacts me again I am going to turn her down. I'll tell her she had her chance and I've moved on.
Yep, you're still bitter.My Name is Nobody said:I've always wanted to do that to a woman like this.
Why?My Name is Nobody said:It would probably make her want me more than ever.
Write this down and put it in your wallet.My Name is Nobody said:Not saying I think she will contact me, but just sayin'...Thanks for kicking some sense into me.
Going back to her after this would be a horrible move and it would go against everything this site stands for. I have to set a good example.
reset said:You're going to IM her first aren't you.
Men frequently err by talking too much. They often monopolize conversations, droning on and on about topics that bore women to tears. They think they're impressing the women when, in reality, they're depressing the women.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
***sigh*** OK, watch this clip. It's a short, metaphoric skit about what you went through. FLUSH THAT LAST CHUNK!My Name is Nobody said:You think I should block her and remove her from my IM? I have this strange curiosity because I can tell she has NOT deleted me from her IM...
I hear you man I hear you.. it's easy for you to say you are probably banging 20 different women. I have 4 new #'s, a vacation coming up next week and hopefully some action. We'll see but in the meantime it really would be nice getting the upper hand back in this situation.. I don't think it will happen soon.. it will probably take weeks and by that time I shouldn't even care I'll have some plates. But you never know...I don't see the problem keeping her on BLOCK and if she pops online I can pop online and see if she initiates a conversation. What's the problem?Francisco d'Anconia said:***sigh*** OK, watch this clip. It's a short, metaphoric skit about what you went through. FLUSH THAT LAST CHUNK!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sz_A6K9rSko
reset said:Yeah it sucks. You're having all these fantasy scenarios in your head of "what ifs" and none of them are real.
Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
reset said:Yeah I should probably bow out of this thread. I think it may help you to re-read this entire thing and let it sink in.
The only way to "win" is to just move on and rise above the situation.
That's hard to do but I doubt any of the guys here would say there's a better strategy than being the bigger man and just putting this behind you.
Good luck dude.
MikeYikes122 said:I went back in my posting history and found this: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=28732
I remember even changing the ages and details in that original post because I was so damn nervous and insecure that someone I knew might see it. That thread used to be painful for me to read. About two years ago, I was just trying to forget about it. Now, it's just funny to me.
The moral of the story is we have all freaked out on here before. Guys who don't post on Internet forums just use different avenues for their breakdowns. Your skin will get thicker over this and you'll grow as a man. You just have to let this experience help you to grow.
Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
reset said:Actually, this isn't really funny. I don't know if this is the first time you've had problems with a chick at work--but yes she's going to keep coming by your desk and being dramatic and trying to get a reaction out of you, and this is a professional setting with your reputation at stake and you could end up doing something really stupid so commit now to just forgetting this chick exists and go about your business as if NOTHING happened.
Ultimately that will drive her insanse, so if your ego is at stake then yes you will "get the upper hand" but you only do that by refusing to interact with her or play games of any fashion whatsover.
The story I told you was probably one of the worst experiences of my life and the only reason I've been posting is to just remind you not to do anything stupid.
If you believe you will do that then my work is done.
Is it help desk? I sense help desk. Help desk is definitely not a career. The problem with these jobs is that they often get outsourced to illiterate foreigners. I'd definitely look for something that pays gooder.:rockon:My Name is Nobody said:Dude trust me this job sucks and it is NOT a career and I am trying to find a way out already. It's a desk job answering phones all day. Fire me, I don't give a ****.
As for ignoring her yes, I will do exactly that. Hell for her, this probably is a career. It doesn't pay good and I am just working there because it was what was available at the time. I can and have done much better than this job.
Eddie417 said:Is it help desk? I sense help desk. Help desk is definitely not a career. The problem with these jobs is that they often get outsourced to illiterate foreigners. I'd definitely look for something that pays gooder.:rockon:
At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.