Dating Sites Question About Incentives

[davidsonj73]

Which dating sites have their incentives aligned with men's best interests? Whether that is to just get laid, find a significant other, or even get married. Which dating sites actually want men to succeed, not just get our money without us even meeting women from them?

 

[BPH]

Just go out and talk to women dude.

 

[corrector]

That's a wierd question since the success on dating sites depends on how much traction you have with the women there rather than the dating app or website policies. They are just the messenger and don't really have anything much to do with your success or lack of it. Generally if your picture and profile stands out (in a good way) compared to other guys then you should find success. I don't use dating apps/online dating much myself because I know I don't have a good profile or pics to use and will be wasting my time.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Any app or site that allows direct messaging (i.e. doesn't rely strictly on looks-based matching so you're not reduced to a physical commodity) and also anything not owned by the Match group as they are too ban-happy.

 

[Lean Baby Face]

Doesn't really matter, desperate thirsty men will always find their way to flood any dating website with an active female user base, even if its target group are traditional women. And, if it has a free messaging option, expect it to be overrun by scammers and bots as well.

Actually, this year I tried out a dating website/app I hadn't used since 2021, and the amount of fakes writing perverted messages to me with weird-looking links in them got so extreme and tiring that I had to delete my profile again.

I think the websites where you have to pay to do everything are slightly better because it centers the serious people (the ones that are left at least) more at one place and also keeps the fake profiles away.

 

[CornbreadFed]

All of them, now start swiping