Dating Sites Question About Incentives

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Or you can cry about women being too picky, without getting out of your boxers and taking a shower.

Real men go commando.

Throughout history, average women have always accepted average men for who they are. Only in our modern times, have average women been conditioned to think average men "suck"

This is all for the better. You are forgetting the purpose of your existence, which is being a good little consumer so the greedy can make their billions and you can strut around with a status symbol to attract gold diggers. So you have to work harder and earn more money to please these dissatisfied women. You may not like the rift between the genders, but the entire purpose of the whole gender revolution is to disrupt society. These upheavals are necessary to fill the coffers of the rich.

 

[BeExcellent]

Appreciate the dissertation on hygiene @Slowhandluke as you enlighten me about the time of Shakespare's tragedy concerning the Montagues and the Capulettes. English literature lesson aside, we reside in the 21st century now gentlemen.

Of course average begets average in the dating realm. Even today you can readily observe happily married or partnered average men with average women. This is not a great revelation for as we know, water seeks its own level.

Therefore if you are average, why bother right? Ah. This begs the question why are you here at all? To improve with women and dating? To complain and commisurate? To lampoon others? You see if a man undertakes to improve himself insofar as he is able, and if he does this with a genuine desire for his own development, then he rises above the ranks of the average into the above average. In so doing he will also elevate his dating/mating opportunities. That is the natural progression of things.

Look. There are women who will give the time of day and desire each man on here in a sexual way. Look at who you ARE attracting. That is the best way to ascertain where you fall on the SMV continuum my friend.

If you don't want the women who ARE attracted? You think they are ugly or fat or weird? How are such men any different than the delusional women who think they deserve Chad?

There are many men here who have leveled up and have the dating/mating results to show for it, including the Dutchman who one could argue is average looking. So what? He has levelled up in other areas, stayed fit and trim, and his dating/mating results are exceptional as a result.

My dating/mating results are also exceptional (and my husband would tell you his are too).....

So I will continue to promote improvement of the individual man. We should all aspire toward the exceptional in our individual lives.

The world does not care about you or me or anyone other than the exceptional. The world cares sbout results. Aspire toward the exceptional. Either rise above mediocrity or accept it without complaint if you choose not to make an effort.

 

[Solomon]

Which dating sites have their incentives aligned with men's best interests? Whether that is to just get laid, find a significant other, or even get married. Which dating sites actually want men to succeed, not just get our money without us even meeting women from them?

The only dating apps that would have this incentive is an app that raises the barrier of entry for women(and men)like "The League". Let me explain any app that makes the barrier of entry low will have a lot of riff-raff not just on the women's side but also the men. This brings a lot of low-quality trash and this is why apps like Tinder which was exclusive only for colleges until it became public have slowly now turned into a cesspool we now know it to be

If the entry is a higher barrier the apps tend to be more quality i.e. The League (however if you don't meet that barrier your SOL)

 

[Slowhandluke]

Of course average begets average in the dating realm.

This is not true. To believe this is to be a fool. Take for example, the average college, female student. She's literally (and figurative) "swiping away" all her average male peers. She's dating only the top 5% to 1%. The average begets the Chad (at least for a little whiles until she gets dumped).

Its a numbers game. Yes, we are in the 21th century - feminism has taught women to be tremendously picky to the point of self harm to their own lives. Hopefully, this current generation of fathers and moms of daughters can correct this. And tell their daughters the truth: "she's not all that". Most likely, she's average. Get over herself.

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