AmsterdamAssassin
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I'm not ecstatic.If a man had thousands of average broads orbiting him, he'd be ecstatic.
I'm not ecstatic.If a man had thousands of average broads orbiting him, he'd be ecstatic.
We'd all be ecstatic, if we didn't have to work ten times harder and more cunningly than our attractive young female colleagues do, in order to get ahead in our careers... Not even guys with male model looks are sympathized with as readily as beautiful young women areIf a man had thousands of average broads orbiting him, he'd be ecstatic.
Umm, I'm a man, yet I could easily get ahead in my career if it weren't for the fact my mental illnesses/ASD prevent me from being able to handle a promotion.We'd all be ecstatic, if we didn't have to work ten times harder and more cunningly than our attractive young female colleagues do, in order to get ahead in our careers... Not even guys with male model looks are sympathized with as readily as beautiful young women are
Alas, this(men having to expend effort in order to fulfill our desires, that is) ain't the way life operates, and no amount of protesting or fantasizing over such things coming to pass will ever change that
I can't speak for other men on here.It's not that hard to attract or pull "average" women. Mid women are everywhere and not that interesting. Most of the men here complaining about the "abundance" women have would probably turn their nose up at an average woman who came onto him.
Umm, I'm a man, yet I could easily get ahead in my career if it weren't for the fact my mental illnesses/ASD prevent me from being able to handle a promotion.
My mental illnesses and ASD aren't excuses; mere facts of life.Hard time holding onto a woman
I've mentioned on this forum before that most of the free sex I've had came from Craigslist (and other than the married woman I had the monthlong affair with from Craigslist, every Craigslist escapade was a one night stand). It's been suggested on this forum that even though a non-Chad might get...www.sosuave.net
Agree with GM. That is simply not true. While I do have limits (if the woman is into something demonic or occultic then I would pass), I dont have much in preference. I have even subbed a fat hor on OF. It shows that I am not that picky.It's not that hard to attract or pull "average" women. Mid women are everywhere and not that interesting. Most of the men here complaining about the "abundance" women have would probably turn their nose up at an average woman who came onto him.
You and I view abundance very differently. And women will view it even more differently, because (despite incels blathering about women riding the penis carousel) women are more interested in whose penis they let in. Most women won't stoop to dumpster diving.The abundance thing is real by the way. Even an average woman has suitors galore on swipe apps. No way does an average man have the same degree of abundance.
You're absolutely right. They aren't excuses. You just use them as excuses.My mental illnesses and ASD aren't excuses; mere facts of life.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Most human beings are susceptible to psych disturbances of some sort, hoss. You really aren't that specialMy mental illnesses and ASD aren't excuses; mere facts of life.
Are you open to getting married ever again?Agree with GM. That is simply not true. While I do have limits (if the woman is into something demonic or occultic then I would pass), I dont have much in preference. I have even subbed a fat hor on OF. It shows that I am not that picky.
Plenty of attractive men get overlooked by broads for whatever reason. Not just me. Vice made a short YouTube documentary about an attractive incel.You and I view abundance very differently. And women will view it even more differently, because (despite incels blathering about women riding the penis carousel) women are more interested in whose penis they let in. Most women won't stoop to dumpster diving.
Abundance means the availability of ATTRACTIVE intimate partners, because when getting sex is no longer difficult, you want the improved version. Starfishes need not apply.
I'd say majority of men that use OLD happen to be below 5s, at least when it comes to appearance. I once tried to do a search for males just to see what they looked like, and damn, no wonder why a woman would only reply to the top 5% of all men approaching her if that's what the average man on OLD looks like.A lot of these "unattractive" men are really average.
If a man had thousands of average broads orbiting him, he'd be ecstatic.
The vast majority of the female population will never find an autist sexually exciting. That's a fact.You're absolutely right. They aren't excuses. You just use them as excuses.
Perhaps in Europe, it's mainly below average men (in terms of looks) using online dating/hookup platforms.I'd say majority of men that use OLD happen to be below 5s, at least when it comes to appearance. I once tried to do a search for males just to see what they looked like, and damn, no wonder why a woman would only reply to the top 5% of all men approaching her if that's what the average man on OLD looks like.
I remember in the past I actually had a few women writing to me "Are you real?" as their first message. Taking care of your appearance and making an effort to look good on photos can do wonders, at least when trying to catch a woman's attention. Once you got her attention though, that's when looks starts becoming less important, sadly...
Yes. However, I'm not in a financial position to get married and would be unable to be a provider in any traditional type of marriage. As marriages don't really work unless you have money, it becomes a silly thing ask since it's not a realistic option.Are you open to getting married ever again?
When you are broke, fat, older, and struggling to suvive, you are not attractive to the opposite sex, then it doesn't matter whether I refuse or not since there is nothing to refuse in the first place. Whether you want to get laid, or get married doesn't matter if you are rejected by women in the first place.GoodMan32 said:Asking because your refusal to partake in sex outside of marriage puts you in a unique position compared to the vast majority of men on here.
My question was a lead-up to what I'm going to say next.Yes. However, I'm not in a financial position to get married and would be unable to be a provider in any traditional type of marriage. As marriages don't really work unless you have money, it becomes a silly thing ask since it's not a realistic option.
It's like saying, if I'm open to travel to the Philippeans when I'm just about broke.
When you are broke, fat, older, and struggling to suvive, you are not attractive to the opposite sex, then it doesn't matter whether I refuse or not since there is nothing to refuse in the first place. Whether you want to get laid, or get married doesn't matter if you are rejected by women in the first place.
I read a brilliant comment on the YouTube vid.Plenty of attractive men get overlooked by broads for whatever reason. Not just me. Vice made a short YouTube documentary about an attractive incel.
Here's a screenshot of the incel:
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Then here's the journalist interviewing him:
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Ironically, the incel looks better than the journalist.
The female journalist is less looking good looking compared to other females than the male incel is compared to other males.Here's a screenshot of the incel:
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Then here's the journalist interviewing him:
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Ironically, the incel looks better than the journalist.
There was OkCupid data from a while back that showed women rated 80% of men as below average and unattractive.Plenty of attractive men get overlooked by broads for whatever reason.
Not realistic. No public school would ever be able to get away with teaching the red pill ideas that are necessary to avoid being incel or borderline incel. The best that a public school might be able to teach is some level of social skills in order to have friends to get social circle introductions. Some blue pill ideology men with middle of the bell curve looks can get laid if they have a strong social circle.The comment said "Public schools should teach schoolchildren how to succeed with the opposite sex. Then we won't have as many boys grow up to be incels."
That's a spectacular idea. Had my high school taught me how to succeed with girls, I likely wouldn't have ended up in the position I'm in. Even if I wouldn't slay, I at least would have had free sex more than once in the past 9 years.