I think one issue with abundance and plate spinning philosophy is that while its great to deal with reducing neediness and also introduces you to a variety of options, you will never learn to manage conflict with women if you aggressively NEXT them to quickly.
I look at women in a sense like a portfolio. I've been married a long time but the marriage went south so i invest almost nothing in to it as its a stock whose value has dropped dramatically.
With the new women i see, i evaluate them on potential. Short term, potential long term.
I've had lots of sex and girlfriends in my time so i think what i look for is who would be a net positive in my life long term. Right now my focus is mainly on my daughter, my career is already pretty set so its just saving and investing.
Look at women as investments. You can totally sell off and trade the bad ones, but try to learn something from all of them. Sometimes there is a right girl at the wrong time, wrong girl at the right time, wrong girl at the wrong time, its rare to find the right girl at the right time, but it happens. Enjoy what you learn from all of them. Try to leave them better than you found them.
I look at women in a sense like a portfolio. I've been married a long time but the marriage went south so i invest almost nothing in to it as its a stock whose value has dropped dramatically.
With the new women i see, i evaluate them on potential. Short term, potential long term.
I've had lots of sex and girlfriends in my time so i think what i look for is who would be a net positive in my life long term. Right now my focus is mainly on my daughter, my career is already pretty set so its just saving and investing.
Look at women as investments. You can totally sell off and trade the bad ones, but try to learn something from all of them. Sometimes there is a right girl at the wrong time, wrong girl at the right time, wrong girl at the wrong time, its rare to find the right girl at the right time, but it happens. Enjoy what you learn from all of them. Try to leave them better than you found them.