Danger said:
Nobody, not ONE person is saying to set this kind of boundary mid relationship.
NOT. ONE.
In fact, it is agreed by all to not do this.
But that does not stop the anti-boundary group (who still sets boundaries), from rallying around this strawman as starwolf and now peaks have just done.
As usual Danger and his boundary crew claims "straw man" when they have nothing valid to say.
Weak insecure men set boundaries out of fear either before or during the relationship cause they are scared of losing the woman to other men. That is a FACT.
When the guy is scared of losing her mid relationship he will set a boundary. Just as he is scared setting a boundary before the relationship with the fear of getting cheated on mid relationship.
That is the reason for your boundary. FEAR. But there is no guarantee that she will follow your verbal boundary. It's just a formality that she can easily ignore after your words were spoken. So why make a big deal out of it when you claim you only tell her "once"?
When you have value and a woman that respects you there is no need to set a boundary out of fear.
A relationship boundary is useless to set at anytime unless the woman is willing to follow it.
Just cause you "define terms" to her or expect her to behave a certain way does not mean that she will do that for you when she does not want to.
Parents expect their daughters to "follow their terms". Not all daughters will follow their parents terms. Some daughters will break their parents terms right in front of the parents or will do it when the parents aren't around. These women have the experience of breaking boundaries with ease and you beta boundary guys think that women will do what you "expect" as long as you "define terms" to them. How stupid can you be?
That is not "straw man" as you guys claim. It is simple common sense. But you idiots claim that cause you can't admit your useless position is wrong with your fragile minds.
Danger said:
Meanwhile, when the anti-boundary crew (who still sets boundaries) are asked how a woman is to know what is expected of her when even we here cannot agree on what exclusivity means.....
....crickets. Not one answer.
You boundary guys sure know how to lie and make up stuff. Amazing!
If you and your boundary crew paid attention to the posts instead of making sh1t up to fit your bogus boundary argument you would know this has been addressed MANY TIMES.
You're the main reason why these threads go double digits pages cause you are incapable of comprehending common sense.
Let me put this in red so you can see it clearly. Read it many times so it can finally sink into your head. Then you won't have to argue your bogus boundary claims anymore.
It does not matter what you "expect" of a woman. Can't you understand that?
Just cause you tell a woman that you "expect her" to behave a certain way or do certain things that does not mean she is going to do what you expect of her unless she wants to do it.
Why after all this time can't you and the rest understand that? How stupid can you be?
Look at all your failed relationships and the rest boundary crew's. You all defined terms to your former women and informed them what you expected of them. Those women didn't care what your expectations were when they broke your boundaries with ease. They all had the free will to do as they chose breaking your boundaries. But you guys claim "straw man" on that when your own real life relationships failed with boundaries right before your very eyes. How can you argue against something that happened to you? Crazy!
When a woman does not respect you or feel you are of value she isn't going to do $h!t for you no matter if you "define terms" or demand certain expectations from her. That makes your boundary useless. What about that can't you understand?
When a woman is showing you through her own ACTIONS by getting rid of jokers she doesn't need she is TELLING YOU that she knows what exclusivity means.
Therefore you don't need to set any boundaries.
When your woman is preparing dinner for you do you need to explain to her she needs prepare dinner or can you see she is already doing what is expected of her with her own actions?
Danger said:
Nor is there an answer to why theu would go exclusive (a boundary), when she will just do as she wishes and that exclusivity boundary is useless anyways.
This is a direct contradiction to your latter boundary claim that you changed.
Basically you are saying here that your boundary is used to control your woman that you earlier denied.
Every woman has the ability to do as she wishes unless she is being controlled or manipulated by you.
Your last contradictory boundary claim was that "you define your terms and expectations to her only once" and then she is free to do as she wishes.
So which is it? Since you now disagree that a woman can do as she wishes.
Is your woman free do as she wishes when she gets out of bed each day or does she need to have your permission until she can do anything or go anywhere?
Can she go to the store shopping alone or do you have to go tagging along to keep tabs on her to make sure she is following your boundary?
Got an answer for that?
Danger said:
Nor can they explain their conflicted statements where they say you can trust her to hang out with other men....but no wait, she will do what she wants and will cheat on you so boundaries are useless...so you can't trust her.
Or my personal favorite.....Boundaries are ok, but only the hanging out with other men boundary is taboo....because insecurity, controlling, she already knows its unacceptable, you should trust her, etc,.... other endless conflicting reasons.
LOL. This is a bunch of crap and you're making things up again. You're the King of confliction. Should we post all your quoted conflicting contradictory comments you made so you can read them again?
Nobody has said any of this. You're distorting what we said to fit your crap argument.
Women have free will to do what they want unless they are being controlled . Are you going to deny that?
Is a woman going to have sex with a guy she isn't attracted to?
A woman is only going to be faithful unless she respects you. She will cheat on you when she no longer respects you with or without a boundary. Setting a boundary makes no difference with your relationship. We all have said that but you lie and distort what we say to fit your bullsh!t claims.
Boundary with a respectful woman = Her not cheating
Boundary with a disrespectful woman = Her cheating
No boundary with a respectful woman = Her not cheating
No boundary with a disrespectful woman = Her cheating
In both cases with or without a boundary the respectful woman does not cheat.
In both cases with or without a boundary the disrespectful woman cheats.
With the respectful woman no boundary is needed cause she won't cheat.
With the disrespectful woman the boundary is useless and a waste of time cause the woman is going to cheat regardless.
That makes the entire concept of the boundary pointless since respectful women won't cheat and disrespectful women will. That will happen no matter if you set a boundary or not.
This is what I and others have said from the get go that these boundary crew fools constantly claim as "straw man"
It's simple common sense that they can't comprehend or refuse to admit.
Danger said:
The story always changes to fit their narrative, but as in any false narrative under scrutiny, the cracks get exposed and silence greets those who bring light to the subject and ask tough questions.
More lies and projection. Your story changes with each post you type and your crap argument was exposed many threads ago cause you have no argument. Only distortions, contradictions, lies, and projections is what you can type in order to save face.
Everybody can see it cause you 5 or 6 guys refuse to admit your argument is crap especially since your boundaries failed you in previous relationships. None of you guys have an answer for that.
Here's some questions I know you won't answer from this boundary example.
The man defines his boundary terms to the woman and she agrees to them. Later on she hangs out with some guy after she knew the terms cause she wants to. The man has no idea that she broke the boundary but he still thinks she is following his terms.
What did setting a boundary do any differently than not setting a boundary?
Did this woman still hang out with another guy after exclusivity terms were defined to her?
Did she care that she was informed what exclusive meant?
Did the boundary stop her from hanging out with another guy?
Wouldn't the same thing happen if no boundary was set with her?
Did this women have the free will to do as she wishes?
Did she care about the verbal boundary that was set?
Wasn't the boundary useless and a waste of time after she broke it with ease?
Don't you think boundaries only work when the woman is willing to follow it?
Will a woman still follow a boundary when she doesn't want to?
Why do you and others keep lying and claiming " straw man" when this is all common sense?
Don't forget to claim "straw man" for simple common sense to save face cause your boundary argument has failed! LOL