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One more little tidbit about the Cluster B's which is not brought up that much is the somatic sicknesses - the Cluster B's constantly have imagined/exagerated illnesses that they use for sympathy/attention. The shoulder surgery is what brought this up. If you stay with an HPD, you will...

Just remember she is a 19 year old who is experimenting with an older man. She is not in love with you. She is out for new experiences. If she dates you for 2 months, she will still be fooling around with 20 year old Jimmy from her peer group. Give her the space a 19 year old wants...

I'm sorry, but you just committed the biggest insult you can deliver to a girl. Whenever a girl literally throws herself at you and you reject her in this manner, they take it very, very personally. You will have trouble hooking up with her again. She will try to pre-reject you in advance...

This is a big problem with female dominated professions. The self-talk and group-think that results at work messes with their minds and they all think they hard done by in all facets of their life. Your only option is to remain the Real-Man you were and hope she figures it out eventually...

The question is how do women respond to a MAN? In essence, this is all they are looking for. All their tests are designed to find out how much of a MAN you are. If you congruently act like a MAN, women eventually fall for you and your relationship becomes the best it can be...

You don't outright verbalize that you two will be having sex with AWs. It just gets their ASD into hyperdrive. They are used to leading guys on and then when the guy finally steps up and says "okay then, its on", they back off and push him away (with any one of a million excuses). This is...

You started the post by saying she is a 37 year old AW. Everyhing else you posted is consistent with that frame. She has been playing this game since she was 14 so she is good at it. That doesn't mean she won't give it up if you want to. You just have to play the AW-game right and...

Once a girl has given it up to you before, she is 1,000 times more likely to do it again (assuming you were half-decent.) The reason is the Anti-Slut-Defence. She has already been a potential "slut" with you so the risk of further damage to her reputation and her personal view of herself...

Friends are not supposed to sleep together naked. Well, except for friends with benefits of course which is becoming more and more common. Join the crowd. She'll find another boyfriend soon enough and your benefits will be cut-off.

Confidence is exactly like social proof except it is more powerful. Social proof is when a woman sees you interacting with other women, flirting with them, sees that other women are attracted to you, sees that other women laugh and have fun with you. She takes the word of other women that...

Everything she said about her guy friends and everything she has done to you so far are classic Attention Wh0re moves.

There are three tests for how much of an Attention Wh0re your girl is: 1) Just hang back for awhile, observe her ACTIONS and see what happens. - in a couple of weeks, you should be able to figure out through her actions (versus words) if she is just an AW. 2) Take her out to the hot...

She just said she is open to fooling around a little bit but she needs you to be very discreet about it because she has a sometimes boyfriend. Just call when you planned to and make sure she knows you will not cause problems with the sometimes boyfriend and you will not go blabbing about it...

"You know, we're probably never going to see each other again. But you are so sexy and I am so attracted to you. Let's just hook-up and you'll never hear from me again." Out-of-town girls or girls on vacation are the easiest prey there is. Next time go hard.

Just let her go. Women need to have this party phase in their early 20s. Being the boyfriend of a girl in her early 20s is impossible if you are thinking serious and marriage. You can only be in it if you are thinking casual and realize it is for a short-time only. Women do not mature...

Its time for my Anti-Slut-Defence (ASD) post again. This is an old post but it is required "thinking" for all aspiring DJs in these situations -------------------------- I've thought some more about ASD and what has been successful for me in the past. I think that you need to have a...

You did a reasonably good job of b1tching her out for her bad behaviour. Women actually want us guys to do this more often than we do. But what they also want is for you to get over it once you have b1tched them out and just move on with the relationship. ------------------ Guy says...

When a chick is too busy to even get together for a date, how does that make her "date material" or "girlfriend material." Her interest level is irrelevant. That just makes her "undateable" and, by definition, a waste of time and effort.

Part of why chicks like to have boyfriends is that they get to hang out with him and his friends. They like being able to hang with the guys and party with the guys (because hanging with guys is way more fun than being around women which are always competing and back-stabbing each other.)...

If being nice, romantic and attentive to your wife is SO effective (the usual woman's advice) why are SO many nice, romantic and attentive husbands getting so little sex. Honestly, this is a guy's first response (it is our natural instinct) when we are not getting enough. It is the very...