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Interesting update. She has removed him from Facebook now. I confronted her in-person and she said I could see her phone if I wanted to. I said I did not, since I felt like if she wanted to be with him, she would have dumped me. She was making weird comments as I told her parents she had been...

I agree it is wrong. She seems quite immature in some ways and then mature in others. I did some detective work and discovered "the guy" who had invited her out to a dinner-party (if it is indeed that) is her horny Indian ex from 2016 she said dry-humped the **** out of her in his basement. (no...

She seems really inexperienced. I managed to snag a third date by 'cavemanning' -- joked that she was super popular and that I had a reservation for two for NYE for us and then she invited me along to her church in the morning so we can spend the whole day together instead of just 1-2 hours...

I know she is strict vegetarian and was passing out near the end of the night. I feel like we could have a decent connection if she wasn't doped up on medications, which is making her weird. She even asked me whether I knew her name at the pub, so I gave her a weird WTF? look. She hasn't...

I made a post the other day but it looks like it was deleted because my age wasn't in my signature. (Presumably.) I was on a date with a girl Saturday evening. We met a the big shopping mall. We have met twice before like three months ago. This is finally our first proper date. She was telling...

Yeah. It's done. I figure she thought that was her final rejection as I was chill about it but she hasn't reached out at all today. Girls make horrible friends anyways.

Pretty much FUBAR right now. She had a great time yesterday and probably appreciated the help with her assignment but as soon as I invited her for a movie at my place yesterday, I started hitting walls. "MMMmm idk" kept coming up.. In the past, she kept giving me "idk" when I tried for weeks to...

Met up with her today. She said she was feeling under the weather but we spent a long time laughing our asses off in the library, making fun of the other people there, talking about penises, ***** flaps, etc. We actually got a ****-ton of prep-work done on her assignment the whole time! She...

I cancelled last Thursday because of work. I think inviting her out one on one is obvious enough for most girls that you don't want to play the girl-friend role. She can't drink... she's underage. However, she messaged me as soon as she woke up today so that was pretty effin' rad. She is...

Exactly. So my main priority would be my responsibilities first and the girl second. Thus, not putting the girl on a pedestal and putting friends ahead of potential mates.

Erm, I agree to isolate but I had stuff to do that day and then sent her a random feeler-text and SHE suggested meeting up day-of right away... So I had to balance both of my priorities. My buddy was there so I do agree that removing the gaming aspect is crucial. I did manage to ask a few Q's...

She wanted to meet last week but cancelled for like the 6th time. I shrugged it off and just said 'OK' or something. Then she gave a counteroffer for sometime this week. She said she would be at the college Thursday (read: come and meet me doofus!) but I declined saying I had to go to work...

I thought I saw a thread explaining that being very nice isn't necessarily a bad thing but it causes a girl to have affection and not attraction to a guy. Clearly the girl has a positive view of the guy but anyone...?

Not really active on the forums that entire time. I used to sarge with wing-men but found they messed up the sets so I worked on my humour, etc. on my own. I sort of come and go every few weeks now (see reason below) but used to not visit for months or longer. I just recently went through a...

Thanks for the replies so far. Guess I funked up thinking I was on the right track. Cheers.

Forgot to mention that she's 18 so I was trying to blast through her game-playing Edit 2: found out tonight that she has ADD and ADHD so she says doing her homework is very hard. Are those conditions bad for relationships anyways?? Every girl I've ever met with ADD seem to have a roving eye..

Got this girl's # over Facebook, saying I wanted to hangout/play vids. Started inviting her out a few times in the 3 weeks. First she was sick, then she cancelled because she had homework to do, etc. Used to get tons of smileys in all of her replies. Been flirting, sexting, etc. she was saying...

I think you're misreading my intent. If you go back to previous replies to my threads from the last 5-10 years, they haven't always been correct. Usually I don't post messages but this girl was being strange after showing high interest signs in person. I got her number extremely easily. I was...

Thanks for the replies. She seemed happy to hangout after she was suggesting we do it alone (with no friends) but as soon as I took the initiative, she shutdown and shared some crap about God giving me a blessing if I share it to 20-30 people over Facebook two days later. Other than that, it's...

She did have high interest and she self-sabotaged it AFAIK. She did tell me over a short Skype session that she was on medication and that fired up red flags after dealing with my ex-BPD wife who gradually tried to destroy/kill me. I did walk away before saying that she did not seem that...