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    thoughts on how to proceed

    Yeah, I thought about that but the last two weekends she has agreed to a last minute saturday night date, both times making it very clear that she was available. That clearly goes against the rules. I think I'm done calling her. For now on I'm just going to send her texts of something...
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    thoughts on how to proceed

    Wouldn't that seem a bit weak and insecure? You think the fact that it is exactly two days is some type of advice she got from "the rules" or something?
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    thoughts on how to proceed

    I actually have two posts but don't want to post them in one. Met a girl online about three weeks ago. We've gone out 5 times. Whenever we go out everything seems great, always signs of interest and ending with a makeout session. Problem is that anytime I call her during the week she takes...
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    HB with abusive childhood

    My buddy who's a psychiatrist says stay away. As most guys that have experienced this will tell you, they never really get over it. Ultimately she will displace her feelings of her father onto you and that is a terrible spot to be in.
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    Question for the guys who are married/have been married.

    I think there is a bit of a fallacy with the concept of not wanting to grow old alone. My grandpa and uncle have both been married 3 times and never divorced. Their previous wives passed away from cancer, ect... and they never had any problems finding women when they were ready. I think this...
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    advice on possible f buddy

    Thanks guys, yeah I've had a few f-buddy situations in the past and you are right on the money with that, I'm only looking at this as a short term thing. The only other questions I have is from guys that have been in other situations, how did you go about it early on? I want to make sure I'm...
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    advice on possible f buddy

    Hey guys, was hoping for some advice on a possible opportunity I think I could work out. Met a girl last night at a party, awesome body so-so face. She mostly talked to my buddy and then mentioned to our group that her and her friends were going to a bar. About 5 minutes later she came back...
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    hot neighbor

    Looking for a little advice on proceeding with a hot neighbor. I was at a bar the other night and was approached by a hot girl. She asked me if I lived in the lofts down the street. I didn't recognize her but one day about 2 months ago I was walking my dog wearing my college sweatshirt and we...
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    foriegn girls....

    For those of you who have dated foriegn girls, any differences on how you should approach the first couple dates? I have a date with a girl from Slovakia this week, she has been in the us for about 4 years going to grad school. Just wondering if any of you have experience with Eastern...
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    How to proceed after a ONS?

    Be the cool guy and only contact her every great once in a while with a funny text or random thought. You very well may get yourself set up for a second opportunity for fun. Right now she is embarrassed that it happened and has ruled you out as a boyfriend potential, but she has already been...
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    How to proceed after a ONS?

    I have had many ONS over the past year and a half and have actually noticed a lot of them say things like your's did "I could see myself waking up to you each day" ect... After my experiences, my theory is that they are trying to make themselves feel better about what they are doing and since...
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    How to not blow it when the right girl comes along!

    Great advice. I would add, if a girl starts talking about her dealbreakers just smile and laugh. Do not qualify yourself to her. You will leave her with the feeling that you are confident enough to not have to defend yourself against all her little "rules".
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    I mean seriously,how do you do this and make it work for you???

    I think you need to work on your internal game first. I believe in fake it until you make it only to a certain extent, you will not even be able to fake it until you get yourself to another place mentally first. Go out and search out some Power of positive thinking materials and take some...
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