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    How do you handle temptation?

    I've had a few short-term girls and hook ups in college, but admittedly I'd been on a pretty long cold spell until I met this new girl. Yes I can count the girls on one hand, but I've met a lot of people: enough to know that I have a good one right now. I think Slickster makes a good point, I...
  2. J

    How do you handle temptation?

    Hey guys, I've been single pretty much my entire life up until about three months ago, so am trying to adjust to being in a relationship. Just to preface my question, my girlfriend of 2+ months is awesome; really really sweet, laid-back and will do whatever with me, cute, and likes sex even...
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    Sex with a virgin

    Hey guys, I'm fairly inexperienced with sex and just started dating a girl who is a virgin, and was hoping a few of you can help me out. She's an awesome girlfriend and since this is a new thing, we're really into each other. I try to be open and vocal about sex but she's extremely shy...
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    Hook me up

    Just following up with you all to let you know how this one turned out. We were both on facebook chat a couple times and talked briefly, I invited her out a couple times but she said she was busy both times. After she said no twice, I stopped talking to her. About a month ago I ran into...
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    How do I play this one?

    I agree, and I believe that is why she loses so many friends. I'm told she goes through cycles that last about 1-2 years with most (similar to our friendship). The fact that she has looks makes it very easy for her to meet new people. I initially met her because she just started talking to...
  6. J

    Match.com and other dating websites

    Well, that was a blatant and unnecessary advertisement. I don't come to these boards to try and be sold products.
  7. J

    Match.com and other dating websites

    Hey guys, Just to follow up on this one and give you some feedback, I'll tell you about my experiences so far. Maybe you can help me out, or maybe I'm just confirming what has already been said. I tried plenty of fish, because I have the perception that most of the for-pay sites are full...
  8. J

    How do I play this one?

    Hey guys, Thought I'd follow up on this old post to complete the circle and show how things worked out here. This girl actually became a very good (or even best) friend of mine, strictly plutonic. The boyfriend is in a band so is gone almost every weekend. After that night we didn't have...
  9. J

    Indulge my over-analysis for a moment...

    Hey guys, Just to follow up on this post from two years ago, after I emailed her asking if she wanted to have lunch, I never heard from her again. In fact, I made quite an impression as she never, ever went to the company gym again. I find it a bit interesting that I made her uncomfortable...
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    What happened? One of the most disturbing nights...

    Hey guys, Just to follow up full circle on this post from about two years ago, this was an isolated and odd experience. I still feel it to be one of the strangest and weirdest nights of my life. The girl mentioned briefly above became a good friend but moved away for grad school. She's a...
  11. J

    How do you escalate kino smoothly?

    Thanks hyper, I think you've identified the issue pretty well and I agree with the assessment. The resolution is the problem I'm having, but I guess it's time to just stop "waiting for the right moment" and make a move. If the right moment wasn't the time I crashed at her place, there never...
  12. J

    How do you escalate kino smoothly?

    And simply to justify my view... A couple weeks ago we all went out drinking, my older brother was in town and staying the night. Since I have a studio and no place for him to crash, I said I'd give him my place and crash at a friend's. However, as we went out and I realized it was 2:00am...
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    How do you escalate kino smoothly?

    Hey guys, Let me preface this post by saying that I'm a little too old, and been reading these boards a little too long to post a question like this. To be honest, after reading all of the "guides" here, and these message boards, I think that I've simply become a skeptic with women in...
  14. J

    Hook me up

    Any feedback, guys?
  15. J

    Hook me up

    Hey guys, I'm a little hesitant on this situation with a new girl, so throwing the bone out to you guys for some feedback. Met a new girl on Friday through school. I'm taking night classes for a graduate degree, and it was a social hosted by the program. We hit it off well, somehow I...
  16. J

    Match.com and other dating websites

    Hey guys, I've had a few girlfriends suggest I subscribe to an online dating site to meet more people, they've mentioned a few people they know who have used them (and I know some myself) and since I've been single for awhile, wanted me to try it out. I generally have no problems meeting...
  17. J

    Hard to get a read on this girl

    I've known this girl for about 2 years, and when I first met her I was interested in her because she was pretty cute. I invited her out a couple times but she always seemed to give a bogus excuse, like she was suddenly sick or that she took a nap and slept through a party; all signs pointed...
  18. J

    The economy is killing me...help!

    I was one of the millions of people that were laid off in the last two months, and it's killing me. The job hunt is much, much harder now, because there are fewer opportunities, and more people applying to them. I was unemployed at the exact same time last year, and had roughly three...
  19. J

    My body hates beer

    At 26 I have several years of experience drinking, and pretty much every weekend since I've been a freshman in college has involved going to parties or bars. However, I've never really understood how this works, so I'm hoping someone here has some insight for me. Considering I'm about 110...
  20. J

    How do I play this one?

    Yeah exactly, I was just tickling and messing with her and she seemed to be loving it, she was laughing really loudly and having fun. I kept it going for awhile, at least a couple minutes, but nothing was really progressing, and that's when she was like, we're gonna get in trouble we're gonna...
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