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  1. J

    How do I play this one?

    No suggestions, guys?
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    How do I play this one?

    Met a -gorgeous- girl through a mutual friend about a month ago at a show and we hit it off right away. Lots of flirting all night and we just had a ton of fun. We exchanged numbers and have hung out every weekend since. On Friday we were trying to arrange a whole group of our friends to hit...
  3. J

    Being "creepy"

    My impression is that she's just naive. Even though she's from a sorority and I'm sure they did obnoxious things in college, she gives off an "innocent" vibe like she was shocked that if she approaches guys, they'll think she's into her. Only to support this theory, her facebook page has over...
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    Being "creepy"

    This is what I consider an interesting story about someone being perceived as a creep. You tell me if you agree or not. I met a girl, we'll call her Sarah, at the company gym about a month ago. She's fresh out of college and a gorgeous sorority girl, but on top of that, really outgoing...
  5. J

    One of those comments that sting...

    I got a invite from an old friend to go out drinking with her since she was in my part of town for the night; I met her about a year and a half ago through a mutual friend, and we got along well because she's my type: crazy. It was a hell of a bar crawl, involving dancing (which I almost NEVER...
  6. J

    Did I dodge a bullet?

    Hello?
  7. J

    Did I dodge a bullet?

    This story is from 6 years ago, but it still got me thinking. Let me know what you think. I had a thing for a girl I worked with waiting tables during college. She was a total tom-boy; she loved getting in the front row of concerts and dancing like an idiot. Loved getting drunk with me...
  8. J

    Do you guys tip the bartender?

    In general, if there is one bar with shared bartenders, they have their sides they take care of. Your best bet at a big bar is to stick to one side of the bar to get your drinks with the same bartender, because as others have mentioned, they remember you when you tip. Your service time will...
  9. J

    Close this set, I couldn't.

    This even sounds lame to me, but I was hungry on the way home from work so stopped at a different grocery store than I normally go to, and it was so weird--there were hot girls everywhere! It was strange; it was a part of town that has a lot of single yuppies but they usually are on the side...
  10. J

    Girl being a bad friend

    Seriously, no help guys? When she wrote and said she was feeling sick and wanted a raincheck, I replied, "Maybe..how are you going to make up for bailing on me?" She just responded, good question, i'm not sure. Pretty weak response in my opinion...
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    Girl being a bad friend

    I met this girl through a friend about a year ago, and we'd only hang out when we were out with our mutual friend, who is really cool. Over time we became decent friends. The thing that frustrates me is that she's really flakey. We all hang out roughly every other weekend, but she flakes out...
  12. J

    Indulge my over-analysis for a moment...

    Ok, so you're recommending I not email or call her...and just wait to see her at the gym sometime, even if it's like 3 weeks like before? That is a long "game" to play.
  13. J

    Indulge my over-analysis for a moment...

    Thanks man, that was a great post and makes a lot of sense. Pretty much what I was thinking. She seems like a nice girl, almost like the kind that wouldn't play games, but that is probably an inaccurate characterization. You have any recommendation on my next play? Obviously, I didn't send...
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    Indulge my over-analysis for a moment...

    I'm clearly looking way too into this, but feel free to let me know if it has any merit. Also feel free to critique my approach. There's a girl I see ocassionally at the gym, and we talk while we work out. She's always very personable and we seem to get along; I usually just bust on her for...
  15. J

    Which is harder to quit?

    For a single guy: beating the meat, or smoking? I do both way too often so am trying to quit both at once. On day 4 I've managed to keep my hands off myself and have cut back smoking to like 1-2 a day, but not cold turkey. I don't anticipate going further than a week on #1 since I am not a...
  16. J

    Please help my game

    Here's the situation: I'm 25, a college graduate (and currently an MBA student) with a full-time job and legitimate career with a solid salary, my own place, and have a good group of friends. In other words, my career path is right on track. I feel that I'm very good with people in general...
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    What happened? One of the most disturbing nights...

    Went out for one of my friend's birthdays last weekend and it was a good time. There was a good group of us; we started at a nice steak house, then hit a couple bars. One of my girlfriends brought her sister out for the first time and we really clicked; she was in town just for spring break...
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