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Few things that got you off on the wrong foot. 1. You offered to help her when "no one else would", or at least that's what she told you. Doing favors for women to "earn" her affection is a sign of low self esteem. A better come back would have been, " I'd love to help you but I think my...

don't be bothered by it...and don't be so sensitive. The chick bailed on you. The best thing in the middle of this is say "hold on, I have another call" and then hang up on her. She'll think it's in error. Only thing is...don't call back. She has your number...and she may be so pissed...

there is nothing wrong with being attracted to a younger women. Some girls like older men because they represent something more mature and stable in their eyes. I'd say so far your doing good. No need to worry about confidence...she's already made the first move (snuck up on you). Just...

jordan... your not being strong around her. She is hanging all over this Mark guy because he's not worried if she likes him or not. Women like guys who are independent and detached. Your not dating this girl so what she does on the side is her business. You need to stop seeking her...

I'm from vegas...there's alot of competition, but also alot of guys that try way too hard. there are always different women you see...whether vacationing, moving here from their home town, etc. the only issue is trusting them...that takes a little longer. but most of the beautiful ones...

Can anyone share details of a girl that lost interest in you or put you in the friendszone, but you started ignoring her and totally turned the situation around where she started coming on to you?

but from the sounds of your comments your already putting alot of weight on this chick, and she isn't putting any in you. Regardless if she's Ms. America, she's a woman with insecurities and past failures. if you treat her like Ms. America, she's gonna blow you off for a guy who doesn't. A...

it sounds like your in high school. girls of that age will play games, test you, etc. don't fall for that. just play it cool. if you watch MTV, watch "Laguna Beach, the real OC". there is a character on that show named jason. look at his moves, how he acts...you'd learn alot.

so she loved you and now she just wants to just sleep with you? sounds like it's obvious she can't give p that part of your relationship...that's good. but it also means that your not long term material for her. you seem to be a good guy that puts relationship over sex. i am the...

dannyc hit it right on the head. i, myself, am victim to the 'reminisce' thing. I remember dating a chick, then when we broke up spending all my time wishing it was the past when things were good. then a funny thing happened. i met another chick. that was great. now that we're...

You got it Pea, she's using you bigtime. It's obvious she must still not be over a situation in which someone dirted her big time, so she's taking it out on you. This is my take...she's testing you. Probably the one reason why you broke up was because she felt you weren't 'man' enough (I...

just let her know you think of her more like sister than anything, and you wouldn't want anything to happen that would ruin that.

That's great stuff guys...thanks. It gets even better....my bud calls me today saying that she called him along with a girlfriend of hers and invited him to go out with them last weekend while she was in town. He is an executive at a resort, and is her friends' boss. It's obvious she thinks...

I realize I screwed up...and I learned from that...and I don't sweat that anymore

Because when I talk with her, or I think about her, I question what I say...what I do...etc. I just want to be able to move confidently. Knowing that what I'm saying or doing is the right thing.... I'm sick of second guessing myself..or wondering if what I'm doing or saying is right or...

I think part is I hate to lose. But mostly, I think there is a lesson I need to learn in all this. That is how to be strong and turn a negative situation into a positive. Once I learn, I can apply in the future. It's something deep inside that I can't explain, but I just miss her. It's...

that's right. It's all about keeping your cool and pacing yourself. Stay confident. Don't waver when tested. Let her fall for you...not the other way around.

long story short... Met a girl a few years back. It was long distance (4 hour drive) I dated others when we first met for a few months and that seemed to get her more interested. After 4 months, she said the L word and was head over heals for me, so I got serious with her. For 7 months...