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Peaboto

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My girlfriend and I have made up and are dating once again. However, she has told me that when she sees me doing what she perceives to be wrong that she will hold me accountable. I told her that kind of thinking is insane. Intelligent people will talk to the other person to find out what he or she intended. She steadfastly says that she can tell what I mean by any action I make, even putting my hands in my pockets.
She will not let me enter her apartment, not even the lobby and is always late for our dates by at least 15 minutes. This forces me to wait outside and I feel humilated when her neighbors see me. In response to me asking my girlfriend why I can't wait for her in her apartment as I used to before our breakup she replied that she doesn't want her neighbors to think that she invites any man she meets inside. I was pissed and let her know it. She said she will try to be on time but hasn't.
Yesterday she told me that she no longer likes my bed. She said that there was something about it that she disliked but couldn't articulate. My bed is one year old and queen size. I think she's crazy.
Another remark that convinces me she's nuts is her reaction to a painting I bought. It's a scene of some couples dancing at the beach. In it are the three things we both cherish: dancing, the beach and dressing up in formal attire. She says that it makes her feel like she's just another notch in my belt as far as bedding woman. Only a ***** would like that she told me. I can't believe she could say things like that.
Before our breakup we had made vacation plans for November. I was footing the bill for the entire trip which will set me back about $7,000. She now is acting like she's doing me a favor by coming to St. Lucia with me. I'm dumping her and would like to hear any objections and why.
 

Bussey

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No objections. No one else respond to this... the next post HAS to be by him saying 'I Dumped her'.

Case Closed.
 

OneArmDeeJay

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I think a troll or someone who needs some serious help for taking that much crap from that woman either posts this thread.

Anyways, You don’t need people’s approval to do what you have to do, just DO IT.

Like Bussey said case close, CLOSE THREAD
 

ecvegas

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You got it Pea, she's using you bigtime. It's obvious she must still not be over a situation in which someone dirted her big time, so she's taking it out on you.

This is my take...she's testing you. Probably the one reason why you broke up was because she felt you weren't 'man' enough (I paid full ride for a vacation before so I can admit that is being a wuss). the more you allow her to control the situation, the more you will lose her.

stand up to her. when asked to wait outside say ' this is ridiculous' in a calm tone and walk away. she'll then try to introduce a whole bunch of drama into teh situation. stay calm and don't let it affect you. you'll may risk losing her. but the reward of her looking at you like a man will either pay off now...or down the road when she remembers you as a 'new man' and wants to hang out with you again.....under your terms.
 
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