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Actually, I agree with that too, having said what I already said. It may depend on how directly the girl said this to you. It would be a tough call for me to try to lighten it up, or get into the issue to clear it up. How harshly she brought it up would probably make the difference.

I would have tried to C&F my way around that one, eg "Honey, you've got a way to go before I consider you worthy of that privilege!"

Great success story! Lots to be learned there!

Does the jealousy angle ever backfire? For instance, would they think you hadn't cared about them in the first place if you moved on so quickly and blantantly? I would still like to hear from anyone else who may have succeeded or totally lost out after having another go at a LJBF kinda girl.

Haha. Gold medal post. Thanks!

double post. sorry

I've been reading the DJ Bible "religiously" :) and getting heaps of great insight here at the forum too, but at the risk of overthinking the possibilities, I do like to think ahead with some things... Let's say you're making (or at least think you're making) some progress with a lady but get...

I have a number of female friends but I never said I hang out with more than one at a time (unless it was a social gathering in which case I would mix with the guys and girls). Sorry if I implied otherwise. Queer = not me. I mainly just take a female friend out to lunch or talk on the phone...

That is exactly what I was thinking with my original post. Thanks for the replies.

Hey all, Have any of you been in the situation where you have a network of close female friends who innevitably end up thinking of you as one of the girls? I personally do not find this a huge problem because it can be nice to have a database of what these women think because I have no...

Thanks heaps (as we say in Australia). Your post is also really helpful. I knew I did the right thing asking about this, because even just hearing the points of view (let alone putting the advice into practice) is helping me totally ****ing chill out about it. Thanks!

Re: Re: Getting noticed in the right way. Actually that is exactly what I told myself after I posted. I don't want this to be a game or a chase. I like this girl and I'd rather her be a great friend than a failed conquest. You're right again. When things fell apart I'd planned on...

Hey, First time caller, long time listener etc hehe. I am a seperated guy who works as a music teacher in a private music school (divorce is in the process and there is no love there anymore, just friendship). When I'm not teaching I'm performing in bands and doing the musician thing...