Ice_Berg_1
Don Juan
I had 1 date with an HB about 3 weeks ago that never got to physical, just a goodnight kiss. We have spoke once or twice a week since the date, it's usually me calling her to arrange another date. We were supposed to hook up this past weekend but she had to cancel as she got called into work. She told me to call her the following day so we could get together, I wasn't able to call her untill later in the evening. I suggested that she come over to my place and keep me company since it was a rainy Sunday evening there was not much else to do. She declined though, saying she was too tired. So I politely let her go and told her to call me when she got chance.
About 5 days later she calls me, and like a typical woman the first thing she says is "why haven't you called me?" This HB is used to having men or should I say AFC's chase her, so it took her by surprise that I actually have the willpower to next a chick if I sense any type of "flakiness" from them.
Whenever I have conversations with this chick I always try to be C/F, which she loves, she is always telling me "you're so funny."
and whenever the opportunity presents itself I try to bring some sexual innuendo into our discussions, it's always indirect and in good fun, or so I thought, because alot of times she will mention things to me out of the blue that are of a sexual nature.
So this brings us to our most recent coversation where she basically told me that she thinks I'm only trying to get into her pants and that was the reason I invited her to come over last weekend. Basically she was accusing me of having bad intentions.
I know for sure that she is into me but I'm not sure if this was just B/S test or if she really feels this way and wants me to work harder for it, which of course an AFC I'm not and she will have to work for me! But I feel that if I slow things down completely and avoid all talk of anything of a sexual nature this could possibly land me the dreaded "friends category" If this was 4 0r 5 years ago I would have just nexted this chick, but now I use my desires for motivation and fuel for excitement, plus I have a few f@*k buddies so I'm not hurting for sex. I dont know, what do you guys think? Anyone had success with these types before?
About 5 days later she calls me, and like a typical woman the first thing she says is "why haven't you called me?" This HB is used to having men or should I say AFC's chase her, so it took her by surprise that I actually have the willpower to next a chick if I sense any type of "flakiness" from them.
Whenever I have conversations with this chick I always try to be C/F, which she loves, she is always telling me "you're so funny."
and whenever the opportunity presents itself I try to bring some sexual innuendo into our discussions, it's always indirect and in good fun, or so I thought, because alot of times she will mention things to me out of the blue that are of a sexual nature.
So this brings us to our most recent coversation where she basically told me that she thinks I'm only trying to get into her pants and that was the reason I invited her to come over last weekend. Basically she was accusing me of having bad intentions.
I know for sure that she is into me but I'm not sure if this was just B/S test or if she really feels this way and wants me to work harder for it, which of course an AFC I'm not and she will have to work for me! But I feel that if I slow things down completely and avoid all talk of anything of a sexual nature this could possibly land me the dreaded "friends category" If this was 4 0r 5 years ago I would have just nexted this chick, but now I use my desires for motivation and fuel for excitement, plus I have a few f@*k buddies so I'm not hurting for sex. I dont know, what do you guys think? Anyone had success with these types before?
Bad assumption if you go with this. You have to assume that she likes sex too instead of her being used for sex. She brought up that thing about him getting into her pants, probably to test him. But I agree with the JT that the emotional connection wasn't there so she was testing.