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The best advice I've heard so far. I'll take it easy as I go this Sunday. She'll probably ignore me but I'll just act as if this freeze out isn't even taking place (called once, messaged once, no response). I think I don't intend to make her jealous but she gets there on her own since I get...

Everyone's giving advice on what I did wrong. That's good but what I really want to know is how do I fix things without coming across as begging? Also, she has male friends who come and see her regularly, I don't even bat an eyelash.

I was there 1st as far as I'm concerned and we only go there twice a week. It's not like she doesn't have time to miss me. I'm good friends with the owner and she knows I go there to sing karaoke. I sing really well so I get lots of attention from chicks. Singing is like therapy for me. It...

She's working and it's sometimes difficult to flag her down for an introduction. Sometimes I go there and hardly get to even talk to her, understand? Just can't do it ALL the time - she should just trust me. Don't you think?

Dude, I wasn't playing the jealousy "thing" at all. I know them so there's friendly banter but that's as far as it goes. But I'll take ur word for it and tone it down a bit. As for the ones that come with me, they did so long before she even started working there and I introduced them as so...

Been seeing a waitress at a bar that I hang out at. Everytime I go there with female friends or very lightly flirt with any girls, she cuts me off. She doesn't answer my calls or emails. Without having to explain that these chicks are just friends, what can I do? Another thing is that she...

I wouldn't call her back. You left a message to get back to you and that should be that. It's up to her if she's still interested to get back to you. If you call her, she'll see signs of desperation. If she doesn't call back within a week, try again if you want. That's what I would do anyway.

Avoid bars!! Where else can I go to have a beer! Anyway, that's where my friends and I hang out - at bars. I would've liked to meet girls elsewhere, but she happened to work there so I naturally got to know her. You know what I mean? It's just a sports bar - not a strip club or hostess bar.

I never said she was mine, just that I was seeing her for a while. Yes, I didn't want an ltr so soon. On my last post you advised me to wait at least a week before I call her and ask her to do something "fun", that's what I was trying to do yesterday. Last week she came to the bar with 3...

I found out from a friend last night that the girl I've been seeing is seeing someone else. I didn't suspect it but always thought that it was a possibility because she was showing low IL for about a month. I always thought that the low IL was because I didn't want to have a LTR with her since...

Do you guys think that this is some sort of personality disorder? I remember looking up these symptoms before. I recall that these type of people have a very difficult time sustaining relationships and excelling at work because they lack communication skills. drumr2: Does your girl dress...

Well here's the update. I saw her Friday night at her work. We talked and she seemed friendly/happy to see me. When I left, I told her that I'd call her. Today I called and she didn't answer. I think she actually "declined" my call because the voice mail came on after only 3 rings. I left...

I know a chick EXACTLY like this. Very difficult to figure out. I concluded that she was afraid to open up because she didn't want to get hurt. I was so confused because she never wanted to talk about our relationship. Eventually I took it as if she wasn't interested in me and just cut her...

You gotta be kidding me! You ARE kidding me right DrBeard? Sheez, get to know the person a little more before you start suggesting this stuff dude. Give her time or you'll scare her away. Dude, you have issues. Just kidding - different strokes, I guessssssssss. No but truthfully, you...

I'm going through the same thing. For me, it was that I was spending too much time with her. When you do this, it's very easy to fall for the chick. If you plan to make the girl your FB, don't do any bf/gf things with them. If you only want to her for sex, then take her home first thing the...

Ok, so throw her a bone once in a while. But for the most part, keep the mystery going. Can you do that?

Dude, you got the b@lls of an elephant. Props to you man, you might succeed yet! Ok, you asked, got somewhat rejected. I say let it go until you can build some interest within her, then ask again.

Ah yes, the 20 yr. old. I've had experience with a few of these. Those chicks are walking contradictions. Don't expect to get one. It's not that she's playing you or anything like that. It's just because she's 20. At this age they are REALLY sensitive about "how they feel". If you...

She didn't call. I kinda knew she wasn't going to. I'm not upset about it like I'd thought I'd be though. Tomorrow night I'm going over to her bar and throw a Jumbo Jack on the table (they let you bring in your own food there), eat my dinner, ask for a drink, give her a big kiss, say "I...

I know a few (well 2) hotties like that. If you really want to see if your DJ'ing skill are up to par with the best - I say try 'em and turn 'em. Yes, they are challenging, the question is whether you are up to it or not. Be prepared to suffer some setbacks unless you look like Brad Pitt...