My story and question

CGE333

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I do home mortgages on the side so I am only in the mortgage brokers office once every week or two. I had noticed a very attractive you lady in there over the last few months but the last time I had a lengthy conversation with her (2 months ago) she was seeing someone. Out of the blue my mortgage broker called me last week and left me a message saying that he needed some more information for a file we are working on and he asked me to call him on his cell phone. This loan has been nothing but problems so my initial reaction when I got the message was to be annoyed at what sounded like yet another problem.

When, I called him back he said the file was fine but he wanted to know if I was seeing anyone seriously and let it slip that this girl had interest and that thing have been said that if I was to ask her to do something he could pretty much guarantee that she would say yes.

A couple of days later I stopped by to drop of some more info for the problem file, while I was there the girl w/ interest is getting ready to leave and my broker is telling me to follow her out. I followed her out and we talked for a few minutes and then she said that a few people for work were going out to dinner that night and would I like to go. So I showed up and it ended up only being the broker and his wife and myself and the girl. The dinner went good and after the broker left her and I talked for a couple of hours. I walked her out to her car and she said something about this week and I said I would have to check my schedule.

I called her for the first time today and left a message- I called from my cell phone so I could not block the # which is why I left a message. On to my question: if she does not call me back, do I call her again and if so when?
 

crack_her

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I wouldn't call her back. You left a message to get back to you and that should be that. It's up to her if she's still interested to get back to you. If you call her, she'll see signs of desperation. If she doesn't call back within a week, try again if you want. That's what I would do anyway.
 

SDBmania

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Crack is right. You don't want to be like the guy from Swingers who ends up calling way to much! Give her some time. If she still is interested in you she'll call.
 
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The problem is that you reallly don't know if she received the message for sure - maybe it was accidentally deleted- who knows.

Call her back 3 days later to verify if she received your message - call her from a phone where you can use *67. Don't leave a message if you use 67. If you call herr from your cell, leave a message to the effect that you are following up to your first message!

She has obvious interest so you should follow up!
 
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