I found out from a friend last night that the girl I've been seeing is seeing someone else. I didn't suspect it but always thought that it was a possibility because she was showing low IL for about a month. I always thought that the low IL was because I didn't want to have a LTR with her since that's when it all started.
HERE'S THE GOOD PART
I called her yesterday (I haven't called her in 2 weeks - low IL) before I actually found out the news and she didn't answer. I figured whatever, and went out drinking with my buddies. Anyway, my friend called me and told me the story about her and the other guy while I was at the bar. He said to leave where I was because they might go there. I said screw it, I'm not going to go out of my way for her. About an hour later I get a call from her and she comes down to the bar. In front of my face, she starts asking the waitress if the guy showed up or not. WTF! She acted all sad (she was drunk too) and I told her "what, you sad about a guy?", she tells me "yeah" (with a smile). I softly laughed acting as if I didn't care. Damn, that fvckin' hurt. She then got upset didn't speak to me, didn't respond to any of my questions and eventually got up and left the place.
Let me tell you guys, there ain't a DJ move on earth to sway a girl in your direction when she has more interest in someone else. Where I lost her, I have no idea. I wasn't needy or clingy, I doing my best to be a challenge - maybe I was too hardcore at this, I don't know. Yet, I feel that I did almost everything right and she's gone.
HERE'S THE GOOD PART
I called her yesterday (I haven't called her in 2 weeks - low IL) before I actually found out the news and she didn't answer. I figured whatever, and went out drinking with my buddies. Anyway, my friend called me and told me the story about her and the other guy while I was at the bar. He said to leave where I was because they might go there. I said screw it, I'm not going to go out of my way for her. About an hour later I get a call from her and she comes down to the bar. In front of my face, she starts asking the waitress if the guy showed up or not. WTF! She acted all sad (she was drunk too) and I told her "what, you sad about a guy?", she tells me "yeah" (with a smile). I softly laughed acting as if I didn't care. Damn, that fvckin' hurt. She then got upset didn't speak to me, didn't respond to any of my questions and eventually got up and left the place.
Let me tell you guys, there ain't a DJ move on earth to sway a girl in your direction when she has more interest in someone else. Where I lost her, I have no idea. I wasn't needy or clingy, I doing my best to be a challenge - maybe I was too hardcore at this, I don't know. Yet, I feel that I did almost everything right and she's gone.