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    When Friends Become More ?!

    She doesnt live wit her bf, theyve been going out like a month, just over.. Her dad can't do it he works alot on business and her bf's a chump.. I dont just want her for a f**k tho guys... Alot of this stuff is good, but alot of it I find plain disrespectful, Im not a pushover in...
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    I'm sick of all the wannabes around here. ....fess up... are you really a Don Juan?

    I'm not any of those... I get laid for sure, but I have things I really need to work on that get in the way of me becoming a dj, im above afc, so i consider myself recovering... (RDJ) I can speak to girls no problem, I do C&f no problem, Kino is a doddle, but where I let myself down is...
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    When Friends Become More ?!

    Cheers Lost In Translation, you did a real good run down of stuff to do their man... I wouldn't pay for lunch though, it'd be half n half.. So, you're saying I either carry on, being an "emotional tampon" or just completely dj her.. well I know I want her man, so how do i block her off...
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    When Friends Become More ?!

    Thanks you're really helping me, I appreciate it alot :D People from work tend not to go out alot though, other commitments etc etc, I did think of this initially.. Thats why I thought, go for an informal meetup for some lunch, have a chat, maybe get some kino going etc, I suppose I could...
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    When Friends Become More ?!

    ***BUMP*** C'mon guys and girls, please check my post out and add something if u feel u can bring something worthwhile...
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    When Friends Become More ?!

    Thats cool, thanks, this girls kinda under my skin though, we work at the same place, different floors too, so distancing myself could be kinda hard, she emails me alot, I often delay responses etc I'm trying to change so much, and guys strike me down for being AFC, but i'm getting parts...
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    When Friends Become More ?!

    ****This was posted in response to the first response I had ***** Hey, Sorry didn't word that well at all, I asked her to go for lunch, and she accepted and has been on about it ever since... I thought a lunch date was more informal that a dinner date, you know in the bible you get told...
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    When Friends Become More ?!

    Hey I'm friends with a HB9 whos in a relationship, a bad one, anyway, I know were not mean't to hit on girls in relationships, but shes always saying im cute, looking gd etc, she wants to go for lunch with me on Tuesday, what do you reckon? I do c&f, cos thats me anyway, and when I do it...
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    Engaged Woman - Help Needed

    Cheers... I think I just need to speak to her, here what shes gotta say before I settle stuff in my mind. I think I think too much lol Cheers Boss
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    Engaged Woman - Help Needed

    I sincerely hope it won't be my career lol I've been looking for a new job recently anyway haha Shes one hot girl, I really dont wanna pass up on someone with that much interest in me either!!!
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    Up and ... down again

    Always man, i go through it I think alot of people do... Its life though, you have highs n lows, like a rollercoaster... you've just gotta do everything in your power to make the highs freakin awesome and damage limitation on the lows... I think exercising has helped me loads dealing with...
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    Engaged Woman - Help Needed

    Hey Guys, Did something really stupid the other night when out for a few beers at a party with work people. My boss (female) is getting married in two weeks. The guy she is going to marry has a brother. This brother is engaged to my boss' best friend, we'll call her Kate. They are set to...
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    Trusting with her guy friends

    I'v never seen so much rubbish put on a thread... i had this early on with my gf because were apart alot, but its simple, don't be a moron and be adult and frank with her. Ask her to explain her friendships and how she met the guys... it worked for me and were solid as a rock.!! HB9.5 BTW :)
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    Weird Chick Last Night

    next..
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    A fake friend, how to ditch

    u've got to be gentle, however hideous, he has feelings, obviously quite needy and sensitive.. I think if you feel he wont react very well to the truth, just being busy will keep him at bay for the time being until he finds someone else..
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    how do you make a girl like you more than a friend?

    Hi Guys, This is one area where this site has helped me no end.. if theres a girl where you're not too sure how she feels towards you, but you like her, I know hit her with the C+F, a bit of kino if were in person, and see how they respond, never hurts to have one or two on the go either as...
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    The Umbrella

    The original question posed was fine, the guy was just asking for a bit of advice of some fellow males.. He wasn't asking if its going to land him HB8+! This place makes you too analytical and there are some people on here who need to learn the difference between being C&F and damn right...
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    I need this mindset:: Hunter/Gatherer/Conquerer

    Hey ! Its great to hear your story... I'm on the first rung of that ladder, building myself into the person I want to be, getting interests and priorities, just generally getting my life by its neck and saying This Is My Time !!! It might sound naff, but its true and i'm slowly...
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    when to call her ?

    hiya, there should be a link to it at the top of the forum page, but if not, heres the link.. http://sucs.org/~nicholas/djb/index.php Just read the articles, you'd be surprised how many of the situations fit yours or past ones.. ! I don't know about the DC Love System, sorry. Maybe its...
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    when to call her ?

    Hey, I'm no master, but I think you're bouncing from the extremes.. I've been reading the 6 week bible and i'm getting a better understanding, something I think you need. I did something very similar to you by trying to DJ a girl halfway through the dating stages, and she freaked...
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