how do you make a girl like you more than a friend?

[rawsync]

or change her feelings from a friend to boyfriend?

i dont know what else to do so im asking you guys for some advice.

i've made this chick laugh all the time, i was lil ****y but not a jerk and i was very confident about myself.

 

[516]

Well based on what you said, I think you have a decent start. Read the DJ Bible, and do a search on here for topics like this, there are tons and tons of posts in this site relating to this exact topic.

 

[Kraken]

The key is to avoid the friendzone in the first place. Don't be her emotional tampon. Don't supplicate. Those are two of the most common mistakes that will drag someone into the 'f-zone'.

Now, while avoiding these things may help keep you out of the f-zone, they won't make her like you - the rest is based on your performance as a Don Juan.

 

[rawsync]

Originally posted by Kraken
The key is to avoid the friendzone in the first place. Don't be her emotional tampon. Don't supplicate. Those are two of the most common mistakes that will drag someone into the 'f-zone'.

Now, while avoiding these things may help keep you out of the f-zone, they won't make her like you - the rest is based on your performance as a Don Juan.

i was never her emotional tampon nor nothing like that but i just guess i have to read and EXPERIENCE new things to improve my performance as a don juan

 

[becker]

The "friendzone" is a mind game to me. I say if you feel that something like this is coming on, just LJBF the girl and beat her to the punch. Most guys will struggle with this, but don't realize that being able to do this confidently not only puts you in a good state of mind, but also makes you less needy. The girl will wonder why you aren't interested in her when all other guys are. I personally don't have problems doing this, and have done it many times. Just don't come off like you still want her if you're going to do this, because then it won't work.

 

[rawsync]

Originally posted by becker
The "friendzone" is a mind game to me. I say if you feel that something like this is coming on, just LJBF the girl and beat her to the punch. Most guys will struggle with this, but don't realize that being able to do this confidently not only puts you in a good state of mind, but also makes you less needy. The girl will wonder why you aren't interested in her when all other guys are. I personally don't have problems doing this, and have done it many times. Just don't come off like you still want her if you're going to do this, because then it won't work.

great advice, thanx!! i got another question now tho, last nite i made a sexual comment and she got mad at me so i closed the direct connection on aim and she msgs me with the question so you dont wanna talk? and of course i said no because she got mad when she before used to laugh at stuff like that. so today i find out that she blocked me and im thinking of instant messaging her from other sn and saying something, any ideas of what should i say or do?

 

[Pepe Le Pew]

I Read "The Passive Man's Guide to Seduction" and it told a story about a guy who used to have sleepovers with girls, but was treated like a friend more than anything romantic..all the girls saw him as a friend........anyway, one day he met a girl that he studied with and hung out with her and, talked about her problems, her room, her nails.........etc.............and then he told her he liked her.........but she LJBF'd him ............the reason was that he was more of a girlfriend then a romantic interest......he wasn't a man......he did girl stuff................not guy stuff..........girls like guys......not girls.........anyway......it was groundbreaking for me.......hope this helps......if it doesn't read the book........I go to sleep now.

P.S. Alot has changed since I understood that concept.......girls have become more attracted to me since then. After all you find girly girls attractive.........girly girls like macho men........

 

[becker]

Don't do any more of that sexual stuff if you're going to LJBF her. You need to seem interested enough to be her friend, but not interested enough to hang around her all day. I feel that the key is to make sure that she doesn't feel like she can just use and abuse you and you're not a total pushover. Find other women, and when you do, make sure that you go out with them and she knows about it. She shouldn't mind if you are just her friend, right? Sometimes women need to be put in their place, especially if they're totally playing you. It's like playing poker and you call someone's bluff.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

Best way to go from just friends to boyfriend is to stop acting a a "Just Friend" kind of guy around her. Her friends, including most of her girlfriends, are available at her will, seek her out, call her often, get clingy, etc.

Easier said than done, but you must pull back, and be ready to walk away, specially now that she's feeling some of the apparent sexual tension.

 

[Slickster]

Pay less attention to her and flirt more with her friends.

 

[StimulI]

originally posted by: rawsync

i got another question now tho, last nite i made a sexual comment and she got mad at me so i closed the direct connection on aim and she msgs me with the question so you dont wanna talk? and of course i said no because she got mad when she before used to laugh at stuff like that. so today i find out that she blocked me and im thinking of instant messaging her from other sn and saying something, any ideas of what should i say or do?

What do you do?

NOTHIN'...absolutly nothin...

If the joke was nothin' out of the ordinary then there's 2 reasons I can think of that she did it...

1. Either she was just in a bad mood that night and if you 2 are good enough friends she'll eventually (couple days at the most) get back to you so don't worry.

OR

(this is the one you want)
2. If she is startin' to like you or if she has picked up on your risin' interest level in her then she's probably thinkin', "Hey, I'm startin' to see boyfriend material in this kid, I'm gonna test and see what he does when I get pissed at him and don't talk to him"

Here it is, dog...the moment of truth...

You could try to contact her in different and DESPERATE ways like you suggested...then when you finally get a hold of her you might as well hand her your nuts cause she won't ever like you as boyfriend(even f**kfriend) material again...AFC side

or

Just sit on it...cause if she is testin you, she ain't mad. Once she breaks down and figures out that your a real man and you don't NEED her that's when she's gonna WANT you. DJ side

and when she comes runnin' to you, don't fall into AFC tendencies, cause you said before.

i've made this chick laugh all the time, i was lil ****y but not a jerk and i was very confident about myself.

that right there is the key to keepin' her around. Never stop that part of your game cause the minute you stop that is when she'll take you off the "Boyfriend/Stud Shelf" and put you back in the "Friend Droor".

Peace

P.S.- If she doesn't callback or somthin' like that then next her cause you don't need a moody b**ch anyway...and you know this

 

[rawsync]

thank you guys for replying!

update: one of my crazy jerk friends msged her last nite and started talking with her how she loves her and whole bunch of bs and she thought it was me so she unblocks me and tells me that we can talk there, so we do so and i apologized for being a jerk (i made a sexual joke which was fine few months ago but i guess its not now since she has a bf). after talking for about 30 minutes ive told her how much i miss her and whole bunch of bs so i setup a date with her which is supposed to be tonite. imma bring her one rose and just be normal wit her like i always am and not mentiong one single thing about love, then imma try to kiss her and if i get rejected imma try again, if she rejects again imma tell her to get into the car and drive her ass home and tell her shes not worth my time and never talk wit her again

 

[Gangster Of Love]

Originally posted by rawsync
thank you guys for replying!

update: one of my crazy jerk friends msged her last nite and started talking with her how she loves her and whole bunch of bs and she thought it was me so she unblocks me and tells me that we can talk there, so we do so and i apologized for being a jerk (i made a sexual joke which was fine few months ago but i guess its not now since she has a bf). after talking for about 30 minutes ive told her how much i miss her and whole bunch of bs so i setup a date with her which is supposed to be tonite. imma bring her one rose and just be normal wit her like i always am and not mentiong one single thing about love, then imma try to kiss her and if i get rejected imma try again, if she rejects again imma tell her to get into the car and drive her ass home and tell her shes not worth my time and never talk wit her again

Absolutely atrocious! That is a terrible idea. Say it ain't so. If it is, please post an update on what happens tonite.

Don't date somebody who's getting porked by someone else

Don't tell em you miss them

Don't apologize for things you never had to in the past.

Don't try to pretend you're not getting mushy, then show with a rose.

You do all of the above, then you know what will happen. She will reject you both times and you'll snap at her, etc. This is so painfully predictable.

 

[Kraken]

Originally posted by rawsync
thank you guys for replying!

update: one of my crazy jerk friends msged her last nite and started talking with her how she loves her and whole bunch of bs and she thought it was me so she unblocks me and tells me that we can talk there, so we do so and i apologized for being a jerk (i made a sexual joke which was fine few months ago but i guess its not now since she has a bf). after talking for about 30 minutes ive told her how much i miss her and whole bunch of bs so i setup a date with her which is supposed to be tonite. imma bring her one rose and just be normal wit her like i always am and not mentiong one single thing about love, then imma try to kiss her and if i get rejected imma try again, if she rejects again imma tell her to get into the car and drive her ass home and tell her shes not worth my time and never talk wit her again

Ok. You told her you didn't want to talk to her because she didn't laugh at a joke you made? How old are you, 10?

Then when she unblocks you and TELLS you that you CAN talk to her, you apologize and tell her that you miss her like a total chump, and now you're going to bring her a rose and try to kiss her.

Never apologize over retarded minor things like that, don't act childish, don't supplicate, and don't tell girls with boyfriends that you miss them because they've blocked you for 2 days.

You are like putty in her hands, and she knows it. Tonight, she's going to get a headache when she sees that rose, then you're going to get rejected when you try to kiss her. Then you're going to try to kiss her again...holy sh*t. Wake up. Read the DJ Bible.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

Oh come on, I rushed home from work to log on and see tonite's report on this situation, and you haven't posted anything. Man, this is like a car wreck, I know I shouldn't stop to look but I can't help myself. Atrocious!!!! LoL.


GIVE US THE UPDATED MAN! Don't force me to bitsh slap it outta you!!! LoL.

 

[Abbott]

You're her friend?? Sounds like you already blew it.

Ben

 

[StimulI]

Next........

F**k this, rawsnc....You need a lot more help then we can give you. Didn't you read what I wrote above...you did the exact opposite of that. Have fun sittin' in the "friend droor".

Peace

(Oh, and you brought her a rose?! WTF?!

 

[squirrels]

Touch her pee-pee place.

 

[madgame]

I think theres a good thread about this problem in the Tips Forum...called "how to get out the friendzone" or somehting.

 

[jamesw82]

Hi Guys,

This is one area where this site has helped me no end.. if theres a girl where you're not too sure how she feels towards you, but you like her, I know hit her with the C+F, a bit of kino if were in person, and see how they respond, never hurts to have one or two on the go either as then you dont give any of them maximum concentration which leads to becoming the emotional tampon!

If they roll there eyes or don't go for a hug or hit you with kino, its more than likely its their way of spelling out you're just a friend..

A read of the bible wouldn't go amiss though mate...