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I am still pretty funked over with my latest split... I am knee deep in The Power of Now, Rationale Male, Way of the Superior Man etc... Plus with all the information on this forum my head is spinning. So I have been deliberating with the notion that maybe it's time to take a step back from...

5 through October.. 1 was my ex, 2 are FWBs, the fourth wanted an orgy and the fifth I'd been dating for a month or so but I showed little interest and she's moved on.. My aim for November is 0...

It's an insightful post and true... I have heavily relied on OLD, for a long time now.... I am instigating change. In my previous life, everything revolved around my kids and ex wife.... Like a fool I gave everything up along the way in the thought I was being a better husband etc... My...

Your point on frame is a really good one and is often mentioned here; I had never heard of it before I joined… Firstly I am working towards discovering more about my own frame; is it simply just being myself, I have always been happy with the person that I am. But that being said, I acknowledge...

I find it amusing that someone wants to go exclusive and then they are suggesting they would like to have an orgy of sorts. I have politely declined the offer and people's choice of sexual recreational endeavours are theirs to make

It transpired, during further research analysis, that a guy she "really likes" suggested a gang bang and she thought of me first.... Ha ha ha..

Ha ha... I was just looking for a hook up in all fairness but initially she said she only wanted a relationship.. We are all on journey and it's another lesson learnt.. Its about putting the pieces together... It's all written on these pages but we have to go through these things and...

Ha ha ha... This has actually made me decide to come off OLD for the moment.. The term "low hanging fruit" that I first read on here from keeps springing to mind.. But then again I am the one picking at them.. Interesting.

So I picked up a woman off bumble, just for a hook-up last weekend... She's just sent me the following message.. Hey mr grey, hows it hanging. So there is this guy I like and we "work well together" anywho I think he is up for a 3 way or potentially a 4 way...3 guys plus me... Just wondering...

Do you have your anxiety under control? In your everyday life... If not then what do you do to get it under control?? You could always try meditation and that will benefit your whole life.. Re the above, start a yoga class... There are some incredibly fit women who go there... Do the basics...

So day 18... Just finished at the gym, chatted with a few girls after the class... Fck me some of them are so fit, walked away from a seriously attractive one who wanted to chat whilst talking to another... She can wait.. Played in my first golf competition at the weekend, last one was over 3...

She seems to have no class... Don't lower yourself but it's not acceptable... Do you want to live with this for the rest of your life...

Good point Lamath, I can look back now, having spent time here, and see that picture.. But back then, the whole time allowed me to decide that I didn't want her back... I hope OP does use this time to decide what is best for him... I am fortunate that I see lots of my kids and I have always...

As someone has said don't leave the house... Make yourself scarce but be respectful and responsible, don't lower yourself.. There is some great advice from the other posts.. I remember when my ex wife said she wanted to leave... I moved her out of my main bedroom into her own room. I...

It's a strange concept to understand that someone will use the person they professed to love... As an aside... I have been getting random WhatsApps from men for the past 3 weeks or so... 3 in total. It maybe a coincidence but I think it's her. One even tried calling me a week or so ago. I...

Dude99 mauser96, Thanks for your thoughts... I know you guys are 100% right... Wise words and as always they are appreciated. I removed her from all my media long ago and deleted her number, but her message caught me of guard and I let her in... Hope is a bit of an ass kicker.. I have been...

Day 9. So she came round 9 days ago, I don't know what I expected but she returned some things... I kept it light and eventually We kissed, she laid on me for a cuddle and I guess it stirred my feelings.... We had sex quite a few times, she kept calling me baby as she did before... And again...

Day 7 I fcked up by fcking her... I gave her all the power back.... No fool like an old fool...

OLD is fickle... It's populated with the whole spectrum of life.... For what it's worth... I have 2 or 3 pictures maximum.. My bio reads is short, maybe 15 words but it's offering a subtle challenge... The above... Intrigue! Accept its a brutal place for your ego and the people are flaky...

So rather than start a new thread as this is part of me finding a way forward... I now know I need a life's purpose... Mine have fallen by the way side... I now see that the Ex Gf became the most important thing... I am just starting a journal for thoughts an ideas... One of my first loves is...