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That's an interesting premise, thanks for posting, and one I want to explore... Do you recommend any books that cover that matter?

Op... For what it's worth, a lot can depend on your frame of mind, good day or not so good day... It can transpire in your messages.. Try smiling at your phone as you write the message, I know what you may think, but it's difficult to send anything none positive when doing so... Try it...

The days are early... Each step you take, everyone here has your back... I won't endorse the smoke but I'd be a hypocrite if I didn't say that I've been so drunk some nights I have fallen upstairs.. ha ha.. I am new here bro and I am learning every day, I am sure you are aware of the basics...

Sometimes I use the GM text to lead into the message from the day before... It's strange but I change my messages to where they are on the ladder... I have one at the moment who I just send filth to and she loves it, we've never met and we're booked to have sex next Friday... She may flake ...

Thank you my friend.... I unfollowed her straight away... But she was following me... I just looked to see if she was... These things are like mini reset buttons... I've felt sick, everyday for almost a month.. I know the Internet offers anninimty, but more men need to communicate like...

Day #25 I have so far to go… Saw her again in her car yesterday, briefly, it didn’t feel as hard this time, but it has set me back… I read my own post from yesterday and I have to accept there are going to be days like these, not so good ones… I stopped following her on Insta the day we split...

The planet doesn't need saving... Its a myth, fking boulders bigger than continents have hit her and she's still going.... Its our species that needs saving... She'll still be spinning long after we have reaped what we are sowing...

Hey Rick, I use to look through Pinterest for ideas on style and there I found Reiss clothes... I liked the style, tried them in the stores, and I've built my wardrobe around their clothes.. They may not suit your shape but I am sure there are loads out there that do. Find a style that you...

Day #24 After an absolutely horrendous weekend; where Monday morning I woke and was almost unable to get out of bed…. The day ended with quite a revelation. 1) So I am bulking up on the Rational Male (Audio) and as I am driving home my Brother calls; in my keenness to regale him with my new...

Spaz, As a new comer here, I would welcome your thoughts on where my quadrant lies. My ego would say expressive.....

There are guys our there rooting for you.. First and foremost, don't give yourself a hard time, whatever it takes.. Each day you move forward is a good day... It's strange, I actually wrote brother at the end of my message and then removed it, I don't know why... No matter what, we know it...

Have you tried meditation for the sleeping? I am 22 days in and sleeping isn't great, still feel sick most of the days, but meditation is helping a bit and can help to clear your mind.. It Could help...

Ha ha... That's a good point, I do find her attractive but not like wow. I like that she is clever and has her life together and seems quite stable.

Guys, So I am in post break-up mode, tinderising and bumblating women.... I am forcing myself to date ATM but I am just keeping myself in the game! But I contacted one girl that I dated around 6 months ago, she was one of the plates before I met my most recent debacle, she was the last one I...

Day 20 It’s been 13 days since she asked me if she could come over; I ignored her 3 messages and I’ve heard nothing since… So a few days ago, of all the mother fking coincidences, I turn the corner and I’m behind her in the car… I flashed her and waved, drove past her (twin lane) and she was...

Mauser96, This book is unfolding my life and hopefully helping me build a new one... Thank you.

I know this is an old thread but it's interesting. The common consensus seems to be, from the stuff I am reading, not to text too much, keep them for arranging dates.... Historically I have used my ability to write, articulate etc as one of my main aspects of seduction, women have amazing...

Interesting thoughts.... I think therefore I am? A projection of our thoughts... My father always said, change your mind, change your world... As an aside, I am just listening to the concept of smiling.... I had read, smiling and laughing was a good thing on a date but this atomic attraction...

No one, it's something that I enjoy doing mainly for myself, sometimes I may write about a girl...

Thanks Metalwater, An insightful and helpful post. I do like that analogy of the Captain and first mate; I think thats a good one to take forward. I'll pick up those books too... It's interesting re the poetry as she was the object of them and that ties into the ethos of “If we love our girl...