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Please tell me the recipe for that. I have this programming in my head that I need to be looking for prospects and if there aren't any I get from anxious to depressed to lonely...:confused: I need a brake to dedicate time to improve myself in many areas, but somehow I always get stuck on the...

First, buy new porn and make sure she´s not in it. Second, if you succesfully get her back you loose all the power in the relationship. Well you already lost it but now you're not with her so no harm no foul. Third, chances are if you pursue her and don't get her you'll aggravate your...

My interest level in her has dropped to negative numbers, I only make contact for support, since I've been in a similar situation I try to help the way I can without putting myself in the line of fire....

What??? ...:confused:

Thanks, guys, for all the good posts. I've been thinking about all this and came to the conclusion. This girl is no good to me for a relationship. I can still offer support but with distance. I definitely need to date other women even if I don't close the door of a future relationship with...

Beside Dopexile, anyone has anything to add? I mean I know most of the guys here will tell me to next her or will even ignore this post. Maybe I know what is to be in her postion. I've been there. I was treated for depression for several years, maybe I feel "connected" with her. Maybe to some...

Good point...

Hello I don't know if any of you here have had this experience, I've been dating a girl for 2 months and she's been in treatment for depression the last month. The thing is this: If you knew that this relationship could be a LTR what would you do? I mean, we are very compatible and get along...

You are 100% right, the problem is that most of us are looking for a quick fix, even if we don't admit it, I say this beacause I was looking for one, and maybe sometimes I still looking for that quick fix that without a real effort it's going to get me the girl or girls I want. after a while you...

I've read nothing compared to Doc Love's "The System", it takes some time to take a hang of it, but after a while when you start doing things "The System" way you realize the stuff works and protects you from a lot of bad women out there.

I went through a similar situation last year. All I can tell you is that this girl is not interested in you in a romantic way. You are just a friend at work, that's all. She told you she was depressed means little compared to the fact that you had asked her out several times and she didn't give...

pick your fights elsewere....have a nice day

If that was a soccer game, you won by an auto goal. I wish I was that lucky. I find myself with an extreme one-itis with a co-worker. The chances of her becoming fat and ugly are the same as me quitting my job (I'm one of the owners). And she does a very good job so firing her is out of the...

RED FLAGS: - Calls you like a zillion times a day - *****es you about stuff you do and she does the same things (nut case?) - If she mentions MARRIAGE after dating 1 month - If she never offers to pay on dates, I mean never... - Uses you as an emotional tampon - You found out she just...

I finally stopped talking to her since last week and I only saw her monday morning and just said hi to each other and that's it, haven't seen her near my desk since that. I'm now 100% sure there's nothing going on and now can move on. It took a lot of determination but I'm glad I did it...

That's one thing I'll never do, call her out, I don't like at all so why should I do it? I will avoid unnecessary contact... UPDATE: just now, as I was writing she came by "how was your weekend?" and I pulled the date stuff, told her that I went on a date and had a really good time. I hope...

it's true, I've entered on an infinite loop of fixation, I'm completly aware of that and that's why I also feel like a DEAD MAN WALKING. I'm sure in psicology there's a name for this, I wont look for it to make things worse, it's better to take action. I'm going to take the advice and tell...

I though of this a couple of days ago, assume this is dead and the only way I'm going to know there's something is if she asks me out.... At first I though I was too radical, now I know I'm on the right track, thanks...

thanks grinder, i just read your post, it's very rich, I'll make another post when I go through it slowly, thanks...

Thank you all for your replys Vitor: that's the reality, I'm in the friend's zone. You are right, I need to show her that I'm dating to see how she reacts and at the same time I'm sure I will find someone that I like and likes me, but sometimes I get stuck like this time and it takes a...